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Yeah... I'm in college and 19 years old. I don't really know how I got to this point... I know that I was really busy in high school. I hardly had energy for myself after all of the work I did so I didn't really look for relationships knowing I wouldn't be able to give anything to it... but mostly well I really don't know why it's never really happened before... I mean it's just a simple little thing. It kinda sucks. and even though I'm mentally more mature than many of my peers... it still feels as though I'm a child.

I wonder what I'm doing wrong... I mean I wouldn't say I'm too bad looking... I've noticed now that I'm away from the small little village I used to live in and in college, more guys have created interest in me... but it seems like they make attachments so quickly.

I don't know exactly how to really fix this without you know just kissing some random stranger... I don't really want to do that because I could have given in a long time ago if I was going to do that.

Any advice? I know there are probably other details that are important but left out but i wouldn't know what those are.

I just know this isn't a good thing and it bothers me. It doesn't completly take over me but I think it could if I didn't hold it back. It's just something that can make me cry... and I really don't want to have to cry about it anymore...

Posted by Evita on 2009-01-11 03:04:07 | Rating:

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You will find a man of intrest before too long. My advice is to take yime to date and to flirt back with a guy if he takes intrest in you. No rush, but do give love a chance, a man can work around your schedule. Good luck

Posted by michelle8angels on 2009-01-11 10:06:53

My two daughters were the same way and that is a good thing. Don't push it and don't worry about it. That first kiss will came and for the right reasons.

Big D

Posted by bigd49 on 2009-01-11 10:47:31

Hey I am in the same exact situation… I tried to meet a couple of new guys at school, none of them worked out. One guy wanted to jump straight to sex. I say take your time. We are young and it shouldn’t just be something that we do it is special and memorable.

Posted by Click1 on 2009-01-11 18:48:48

it should be magical. My first kiss, I felt as though I was floating.

Posted by AluminumCan on 2009-01-11 22:59:18

I'd like all my kisses to be like the first one...S

Posted by dreampower on 2009-01-12 12:43:22

i guess ill be a conformist...and agree with the others.

dont rush?
:)
itll happen

Posted by sweeterthanyou_08 on 2009-01-12 20:18:04

1. Don't rush in
2. Wait
3. Don't worry, you'll get your first kiss and it'll happen when you're ready.

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Posted by weixiaodeshige on 2009-01-23 04:33:23