Well this has been a long time coming. After joining a year ago I finally...I think...have something to write about! Yay! Although my 'G' key is really tempremental and i have to back track a bit to fix words...
Last week I asked my partner to move out of the flat we've been living together in for the past year. After deciding that we may have rushed into living together, I proposed living seperately for a year to see how it goes. Our relationship has been really suffering for the past 4 months. We're always fighting, I'm spending my entire pay check on rent and food and expenses for him, and the bedroom side of it has pretty much dies. He hasn't had a job in 4 years (cause he's been studying, but dropped out of uni this year due to lack of interest) and the stress of trying to support him and make sure we don't get evicted just did my head in. Not having the support of someone you care about tho is even worse. Even when I started working full time, there was no support to help out around the house, assisst with getting bills paid or cooking meals.Sucks to the point where you feel that you're being taken advantage of. But enough of the crappy stuff.
So, after a discussion, we decided that for him to get his life in order, work out where he is headed and to take some responsibility, he's got to live on his own. Hopefully, fingers crossed, life will knock some sense into him and possibly give our relationship a second chance. That and some couple therapy.
So, maybe a few 'goals' for next year are in order...maybe next post I'll have those
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