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One Of My Favourite Poems... on 2008-03-31 21:20:33 |
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Did they use this poem in "Four Weddings and A Funeral"? Not sure, but I loved the poem the gay man recited at his lover's funeral :-)
Love that sonnagram of that precious baby of yours! Makes me smile every time I see it. Happy pregnancy.
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What do you guys think? on 2008-03-31 21:12:16 |
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I choose to believe that if I don't get my wish, then it was for my highest good that I didn't get it. Some things I've wanted, I've truly been happy not to have gotten years later! Not false or untrue, at all.
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Before the Devil knows you're there on 2008-03-31 21:09:28 |
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More wonderful posts from Australia! Glad I found you. I enjoyed this post very much, wise words well worth remembering.
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no cuddling on 2008-03-31 19:48:11 |
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A marriage with alcohol or other addictions is something completely different...read bjm1's other posts...
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AND NOW YOU KNOW THE REST OF THE STORY.......... on 2008-03-31 19:43:20 |
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Be sure to print this out and give it to your therapist. Your life started out rough, for sure. Mother didn't help either, thank God for your Father.
We teach others how to treat us. You will learn through therapy to make healthy choices in the future. Through therapy, I learned about my bad decisions and choices. You will, too.
I'm SO happy you have a safe place and counseling. A great combination. Focus on that and not on the future, yet. Stay where you are and learn about yourself. Good luck, Karen. I'm proud of you.
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What are you known as? on 2008-03-31 19:26:21 |
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"Blondie, tree climber, funny girl, can't sit still, talks non-stop" when I was young. "Funny girl, dancing queen, smart cookie, next?" in my young adulthood. Now, people refer to me as "wise, that poor woman, funny, smart, the cheerleader and forgetful!" This was a great post! Glad to have found you. Peace.
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Blackboy Grass Tree on 2008-03-31 19:07:37 |
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Your love of plants and nature are so evident! Thanks for the Australian horticulture lesson! I need to travel down under soon...
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Needing Others on 2008-03-31 18:54:15 |
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Volunteer with the homeless, in a soup kitchen, with refugees, work with children, the elderly, animals. You'll never be alone. Being alone and lonely are two different things. Great post, Hollis. I love Leo Buscaglia!
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haunted on 2008-03-31 18:51:03 |
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"When the student is ready, the teacher appears." You're searching and ready, I'm pulling for you! Your brother lives there, you and the boys will be fine. Trust in God and trust in yourself. He will lead you...my prayers are with you. XXX
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alcohol on 2008-03-31 18:49:06 |
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You and your precious boys deserve a good, safe, healthy life, bjm. Lots of love and strength for you. Be safe, okay? Have someone stay with you for awhile.
Keep in touch, please.
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Credit where credit is due .... on 2008-03-31 16:42:42 |
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You did good, EasyToSay! Always take the high road, your kids at home at watching and learning. FOTY, like my ex, might have reached a place of light...let's hope so.
Happy for you.
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Vulnerable - a poem on 2008-03-31 16:40:30 |
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"I have to rely on what I was taught and know about life. I have to keep moving." It's all there within you to fight and stand tall, Nubian. You're doing great! Keep writing, your words are precious.
Peace and love. Ellie
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Facing Your Giants In Life.... on 2008-03-31 16:37:46 |
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Amen, sister! This was a super post and so true! Facing giants...I hope I faced most of my Goliaths last year, but if I haven't, I am armed and dangerous! With a frying pan and my Bible!
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Random Thoughts .... out there on 2008-03-31 16:29:24 |
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Hey there! I'm banking on that Plan working! Fingers crossed....
Great post, EasyToSay, lovely words.
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My Father Stole My identity on 2008-03-30 21:12:54 |
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The nightmare will soon be over and I pray he stays away from you and your mother. I know these things are more complicated when our parents hurt us, but continued courage & strength, my friend. It was important to get all that out, good therapy. Keep "talking" until it's all out. Camera Guy can wait a bit, smile. Be well, Meredith. I am toasting you tonight with my own glass of wine.
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Flat chested unite! on 2008-03-30 18:12:24 |
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I always wanted long straight hair, I had curly hair that I actually attempted to iron back in the day! STILL have those split ends! Okay, I was always good in the boob department, was a 36B my entire life and now in the early days of menopause, I'm a 38D...not funny since I am 5' tall! Can I FedEx ya some??!! My back is killing me...my kids call me Dolly Parton and she finally had a breast reduction...nah, not going there, two C-sections is enough pain for a lifetime! Very funny post :-)
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Wants and don't wants on 2008-03-30 09:51:41 |
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Love this post and the beautiful thoughts.
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A Horrible Thing That Happened to Me on 2008-03-30 08:59:17 |
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I believe you can have closure even though the abuser is dead. I thank God he died before he could inflict any more pain on you. Some kids/people aren't as fortunate. Counseling can help with closure, so can rebirthing. Uncovering a secret as you've done here is huge and a start. I wish you luck and peace.
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Have you seen me? on 2008-03-30 08:52:40 |
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Beautiful post. The cleaning and redecorating could be a nesting instinct for new birth, perhaps. Your new birth...your children are wonderful, I know you are enjoying every second with them, it shows.
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Who thinks this way??? on 2008-03-30 08:50:00 |
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My years from 40-50 were amazing, difficult as hell and I learned so much during that time. I'm 50 and still learning, but I embrace this age. Enjoy your life, your husband and your children now. You're going through a growth spurt :-)
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We Carry Wounds on 2008-03-30 08:46:26 |
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I have a hard time with people hurting others and we think that they don't realize it...do we not tell them that they hurt us or do we want to believe they don't hurt us? I'm a mother and believe me, I know when I hurt my kids and I immediately set about to correct my actions or words...in my mind, only addictions can make people not realize that they hurt others...not sure if that's the case here, but I don't buy the not realizing part. You don't deserve to be hurt, period. Good luck
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The Ex, The Mistress & My children on 2008-03-30 08:42:47 |
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Can't add a thing to Caring Advice, she's absolutely right. You did the right thing and can hold you head up high. You are Miss8's role model and she will always look to you for how to act in difficult situations with grace and class. You showed that here. Well done even though I know it's hard.
Peace and love.
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Random Thoughts .... out there on 2008-03-30 08:34:57 |
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I was about to log off and saw your post! Yes, let's enjoy it together, you're absolutely right! Funny thing is that an ex texted me last night...hmmm. More later...when I call him back today...
Enjoy your beautiful Australian day! XXX
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Protection on 2008-03-30 08:30:34 |
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I was introduced to Eugene Peterson about 20 years ago, he's wonderful and thank you for reintroducing me to him. Beautiful post, caring friend. Peace and love
XXX
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Penis, Varginia, Jobs, Blow, Nude Obama on 2008-03-30 08:23:58 |
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Just found you again, happy to see you. Keep blogging and yes, sober is good. Great titles.
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back home,? on 2008-03-30 08:12:09 |
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A change of scenery does us good and you sound good! Not happy because it sounds like your heart is back there...more later, perhaps? A move, perhaps? Sounds like an adventure to me...good luck, bjm1.
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suicide on 2008-03-29 16:05:01 |
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I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter and your son. I am praying for you and your family.
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TWO FOR THE PRICE OF ONE? on 2008-03-29 10:07:58 |
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Ridiculous that they would think it was you, dumb. Keep writing and expressing yourself!
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NOW I KNOW on 2008-03-29 09:23:22 |
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Very nice poem. Don't close yourself off to love though. It's always a gamble that game of love, but we learn to much in the process. Today is a new day. Good luck to you.
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Who plays you? on 2008-03-29 09:16:30 |
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Sandra Bullock would play me. I identify with her humor, her "realness". She doesn't seem to be fake and I love her in every role I've seen her in, so far.
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Ohhh Boy has it been that long? on 2008-03-29 09:10:11 |
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Beautiful. I wish you both the very best.
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Counseling and Weekend on 2008-03-29 09:07:54 |
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It sounded like a good counseling session and I wish you the very best in working things out. Communication styles are very different and it's worth defining love as a beginning. Once you each know what the other believes, it is a good way to begin. Good luck!
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I'm finally getting there but it's hard on 2008-03-29 09:00:06 |
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Let go of him and make room for more from a man who deserves you. You are lonely in your own home and he sounds like a user. Time to move on. He needs to move out. I wish you more courage and strength. I know it's hard, but you will be better off without him. He's not there emotionally or physically for you, so what's the point?
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My Story ...16 on 2008-03-29 08:56:25 |
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My goodness...I'm so sorry. Your words held me captivated and brought a tear to my eye. He is with you always. XXX
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Not much has changed . . . on 2008-03-29 08:53:36 |
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His comment about your cheating ex was hitting below the belt and uncalled for...I would open the door to dialogue for that again before going further.
Your friend is lucky to have you. What's Zumba?? Must Google that one...
Thanks for posting and good luck. XXX
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Love is a work in progress on 2008-03-29 08:50:09 |
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I enjoyed this blog, thanks. Here's a quote by Marilyn Monroe, "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes and I am out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worse, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
Interesting, isn't it?! Thanks for posting and just be yourself!
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Who Was Your First Crush? on 2008-03-29 08:46:58 |
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My first crush was a boy in middle school named Robert Byron, he had curly blond hair, carried an old Army backpack and smelled like Dove soap! We dated that year and then, he moved away, aw...wonder what ever happened to him? Thanks for the memories, G!
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Someone is speaking to you, will you listen? on 2008-03-29 08:41:23 |
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Lovely post, Davis. It is important to listen quietly to our hearts and to God. It is only then that we can hear the Holy Spirit speak to us. Thank you for the reminder to slow down.
God bless.
Ellie
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New Mexico on 2008-03-29 08:36:17 |
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go for it! Visualize, act and make it happen. You feel a connection with NM and your heart and soul are already there! Look into it...excited for you, bjm1!
XXX
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The great achievement of a Dreamer on 2008-03-28 17:19:11 |
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I love this blog, Davis. It's absolutely true, we do design our lives and have all the necessary tools to do so with God's help and guidance. Lovely and inspirational! Thank you for posting this.
Love,
Ellie
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They were making love, the first time on 2008-03-28 17:14:45 |
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Yowza, girl you can write! Whoa...now where are those AA's! lol!
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A First Date .... A success on 2008-03-28 17:12:53 |
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Must find a theater like that! I'm happy you had fun and yes, it's not so bad going alone. I go to the movies alone every Sunday evening. Go again and enjoy yourself again!
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Baby Camryn passed away on 2008-03-27 20:44:21 |
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Unbelievably sad. Rest in peace, Baby Camryn. My thoughts and prayers are with his family tonight.
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Should I give her to him? on 2008-03-27 18:59:14 |
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Although foster care does work for some, most children are shuttled around and usually end up where I work. Abused and scarred for life. Please consider adoption or keep your baby. Include your parents in the decision process. Not sure how old you are, but if they're in your life, please let them help you. If they can't help, there are many people who can help. You aren't alone, find the help you need by reaching out to others. I wish you and the baby well.
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Fat guy in a headlock on 2008-03-27 17:12:36 |
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The visual of a skinny woman holding a fat man in a headlock is just hilarious! I love your posts and your humor! Yes, I've felt that Tequila headache before...but, I still go back every time! lol!
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SHAME ON SOCIETY! on 2008-03-27 17:08:31 |
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We love them both and wish them both well. They and many other women on thoughts are courageous and amazing women who deserve our love and friendship, not kicks or stupid comments that aren't helpful. But, then again, everyone is entitled to their opinion, so we run the very real risk of hearing "stuff" we don't want to hear when we post on thoughts.
Welcome, I'm happy to meet you.
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Ditched for the ditcher on 2008-03-27 17:03:59 |
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I am friends with an ex, two actually. We rarely see each other, but communicate by email about our comings and goings. As long as both are sure and clear that there will never be a future together, it can work.
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An Epiphany on Sunday...........Go Figure on 2008-03-27 17:00:28 |
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Amen, girlfriend! Loved this post! I am sure you and Mr. Right will find each other. Loved the Alpha Female part! lol! You're doing great, smile. Proud of you.
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Think before YOU then Enlightened on 2008-03-27 16:57:10 |
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Good for you, Nubian. That man needed to hear that and you didn't mince words. You spoke your truth and it sounds like it hit home for him.
Enjoy that date! XXX
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Invitation on 2008-03-27 16:53:11 |
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Hey there! Enjoy, Nubian!! I'm thrilled for you and can't wait to hear how it went!!! You deserve a wonderful, fun night with the masked man, smile.
Love and peace. XXX
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More Funny Graphics.. on 2008-03-27 16:45:32 |
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Great fun! I love the last one! Thanks for the smiles.
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Never Knew Dreams Could Be So Powerful on 2008-03-27 16:39:28 |
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Your father came to you and wants you to know he's with you, David and his grandbaby. I love the sonagram!! Rest easy, it's your subconscious coming out, as well.
Peace and love.
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It is and then it isn't on 2008-03-27 16:33:04 |
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Some of us learn the hard way, must say I'm glad that you had your heart broken. It can now mend and begin to heal. For some of us, that's the only way to learn.
Good luck in your search.
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Virgin on 2008-03-27 16:29:01 |
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This should be an interesting ride, smile. Welcome and happy blogging!
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ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST! on 2008-03-27 16:20:48 |
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The ignorance and insensitivy of some folks just staggers me. Some men (I think we're talking about a man, right?) prey on women in the most vulnerable positions and they are pure cowards, chicken shits and you don't deserve that kind of treatment. I agree with everyone's comments here and I am with you, my sister Karen. Don't let anyone bring you down. Take that trip, heal yourself and your heart, and come back to us. As always, I will be checking in on you. Courage and strength is what I pray for you. Lots of love, Ellie
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MY DRUG PROBLEM on 2008-03-27 16:13:00 |
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Wonderful post! I, too had a drug problem quite similar to this one! Peace and love!
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QLD Holiday - Day three - Dreamworld on 2008-03-25 18:58:31 |
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Have a super time!!! I'm happy for you and this much needed vacation!
XXX
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DO I LOOK ANY DIFFERENT? LOOK HARD! on 2008-03-25 18:56:56 |
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ah.....a sigh of deep, deep relief. Enjoy your time alone, grow, learn, take classes and live a full life, Karen. It's a bit scary at times, usually late at night, but it will pass. I lived with my sister for three months after I left, slept on her couch in the basement. It was ALL worth it. A year later, my life is coming together and I am stronger every day. You will, too.
Lots of love,
Ellie XXX
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BREAKING THE SILENCE OF THE SECRETS ! on 2008-03-24 20:37:41 |
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From reading your other comment to me, you're gone! I am SO proud of you. If you need anything, please let me know. I am here for you.
Lots of love,
Ellie
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An AA Meeting--please come in on 2008-03-24 20:35:29 |
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Oh, forgot! I'm highly addicted to movies! I could watch them non-stop if I were able to!
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An AA Meeting--please come in on 2008-03-24 20:34:28 |
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My name is Ellie and I am an addict. I am addicted to smoking, travel adventures, and shopping for French lingerie. I might be addicted to my kids, but I just think I love them to death!
I have compulsions, as well: I eat salty foods and immediately, must have something sweet, but must end with something salty. Even an olive works! I don't consider this an addiction because I diet when my clothes feel tight and fast weekly for detox purposes and healthy skin.
Waddya say 'bout that?! lol!
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I cant stop crying...... on 2008-03-24 16:58:40 |
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I was an emotional mess when I was pregnant, too. For each one! I think that's completely normal, but please see your ob/gyn to be sure and see what he/she says. Hang in there, Mama and plan a trip to see David, that should work wonders.
Good luck, sweetie.
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BREAKING THE SILENCE OF THE SECRETS ! on 2008-03-24 16:50:37 |
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Okay, maybe I read the blogs out of order...but you sound like you have hit a low point again. It's bound to happen, your life is in flux right now and we sometimes doubt ourselves in bad situations when we haven't had positive support from the men in our lives.
Let the bad stuff come out! It is only going through the dark valley that we come out the other end to the light. This will end, but take matters into your hands. Take back your power and forget his rights as a spouse, that's called rape even IN marriage! That's BS. Don't forget that, Karen. Leave if you have to. Contact a shelter or a rape crisis line,, they will steer you in the right direction. You will be amazed at the amount of women in your situation and they usually work there, too. You will not feel alone or isolated. Say nothing, but do something.
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MADE A PHONE CALL FINALLY! on 2008-03-24 16:40:48 |
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Wow! From the last post to this! Amazing woman you are, smile. I'm very proud of you and you will be FINE. It's a huge step and the very one that will begin your new life! Do not pack out alone...
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LOST: ONE SOUL ! FOUND: NOTHING! on 2008-03-24 16:37:33 |
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Karen, the weekends are always worse because he's home. Weekends are bad because we know people are with their families and seem to be happy. None of us really know the truth of some "happy homes". You deserve happiness, start with yourself. Small steps, but most importantly, you just have to forgive yourself. Who cares why you stayed!! So what. You are now aware that he has to go and if he doesn't, change the locks. If the house is in your name (I thought it belonged to your grandmother, right?) then you have every right to ask him to leave and help him by finding him an apartment for him to move in to.
I love what you said about some people break us, some make us. That was beautiful. Stay strong, Karen. XXX
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I HATE THAT WOMAN SO BAD! on 2008-03-24 16:30:33 |
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Use the anger as forward movement. Anger can propel us into making changes we are sick and tired of. Anger moves me, fear can paralyze me...which makes me pissed after a while and then, I move! So glad you can journal about your inner thoughts. Best of luck. XXX
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French Nouns...Funny on 2008-03-24 16:26:24 |
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In Spanish - la computadora :-) feminine, but I love both sides of your story!
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Type Schmype on 2008-03-23 17:00:29 |
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Looking forward to more of Camera Guy! Good luck, Meredith. He sounds like my type of man, actually! If it doesn't work out, let me know! Hey, I've introduced my exes to other girlfriends and one of these introductions turned out to be a couple. They're still together! Good luck in finding love.
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Super Couple Status on 2008-03-23 16:55:49 |
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Wow, I can't think of a single thing I would add! That was beautiful, Meredith. I like the way you think. Am compiling a "Man Plan" of my own, thanks to your post! We're supposed to put what we want in a mate out there for the Universe with specifics, right? Well done!
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Happy Easter on 2008-03-23 07:54:14 |
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Have a blessed Easter! Thank you for this beautiful prayer and for the song, that is one of my favorites. I cry every time I hear it.
Love, peace and blessings,
Ellie
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Hearing Loss on 2008-03-21 13:35:15 |
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I always come here for my daily inspiration, Hollis! Thank you for the wonderful posts you grace us with!!
Happy Easter, dear friend. XXX
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LEAVING THE PAIN BEHIND............. on 2008-03-21 13:33:26 |
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I loved the idea about basing forgiveness on faith and will not on feelings. We alone can't forgive 100%, but God gives us the ability through faith. Lovely post, Hollis! This was such a beautiful lesson on forgiveness, I needed to hear that today. Thank you for posting it.
Love and blessings! XXX
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take the nails on 2008-03-21 13:22:35 |
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That is the best question I've heard lately, bjm1. What would I have done...thank you for this food for thought. I probably would have been yelling and trying to protect Jesus while holding Mary in my arms comforting her. Great question.
Happy Easter.
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worship songs.. on 2008-03-21 13:20:07 |
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Live large, little one! And, sing to your heart's content, what a wonderful gift. I can't sing one note on key!
From one small person to another, smile.
Happy Easter XXX
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better to have....oh nonesense! on 2008-03-21 13:18:13 |
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Live, love and feel! It's always better to have loved even if it doesn't work out. The lessons learned help you grow and fine tune what it is you want from a lover. There will be a next time!
Good luck
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online dating on 2008-03-21 13:16:06 |
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Nothing, he probably works, goes to school and has a life. Give him a little time, smile. It sounded like a good date, so be patient. Don't text him, let him text you first!
Good luck.
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God was with me when I needed Him on 2008-03-21 09:26:53 |
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Beautiful post. Yes, Praise the Lord. I'm happy your father is alive and well.
Peace.
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Lady you have poop in your shoes part 2 on 2008-03-21 08:05:16 |
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I missed Part One, so must go back! Thanks for the smiles, Pita! You have some priceless stories and the best part is that they're real life!
There is a bathroom in Italy that will never be the same...my family and I were traveling with my grandmother through Italy. Both my mother and grandmother were constipated for days on end, so they popped an Ex-lax. NOT a good idea on a road trip!! We screeched into a gas station and the two royal poopers ran out. They came back to the car laughing hysterically! Before they could even SIT on the seat, ol' faithful burst! They sprayed that entire cubicle! The visual with them, pants down, rear end exposed still cracks me up! When ya gotta go, ya gotta go!
Thanks for a very funny post! XXX
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Do You Use Your Heart Or Your Head ? on 2008-03-21 07:57:38 |
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You made the right choice, Gwatlan. I believe you did and such wisdom at such a young age! I'm happy that you used both heart and head. I wish you many happy years with your husband.
Thank you for sharing with us. XXX
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They Hung Him on a Cross on 2008-03-21 07:52:07 |
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Beautiful post and a wonderful reminder of God's love for his children. Thank you, Davis. This post is like a mini Stations of the Cross. I will find a church at 3 and sit there with God. I will thank him from the bottom of my heart for everything He has done for me and my family. That will, of course, humble me and make my cry for the times I've let Him down. I will be cleansed, yet again and will go on to the joyous event on Easter Sunday. I will wake up early and watch the gorgeous sunrise with God. Thanking Him for my family, our blessings and for friends like you. I will also ask for my faith to deepen and for my relationship with Jesus to become more personal. Thank you for that lovely reminder, overthehillandfaraway!
Keep writing, Davis! Your words are precious.
God bless you.
Much love,
Ellie
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A Strong Woman on 2008-03-20 18:51:54 |
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I'm happy to have found you and your blogs! This was a lovely post and so true. Peace
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castrators and healers on 2008-03-20 18:24:22 |
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Great blog and oh, so true. Time to release the castrators and hope they find each other! Healers unite!
Peace and keep searching for love. Just make prospective new women fill out a castrator vs healer questionnaire first, smile. Good luck.
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Would you EVER cheat on your spouse? on 2008-03-20 18:17:21 |
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Your comment about loving your husband and even liking him sometimes is interesting to me. I felt the same way about my ex while we were married. Would I have cheated on him? No, I never did, but he did. Since I'm single, the question for me is: would I date a married man? Hmmm...they would have to be living separate lives, in separate homes and she would have to be okay with it. Or, she could be in a mental institution and he can't leave her because she needs the health care. That really happened to a friend of mine - they stayed together for over 30 years and married when the wife died. Never say never, I say. It's hard to know what I'd do as everyone has their "story" and there are many sides to every story. You've got me thinking about this one!
Peace and hang in there.
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Signs that I asked God - How I met my husband on 2008-03-20 18:09:44 |
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I agree with being specific with prayers and prayer requests! An amazing story and a love story to boot. Congratulations.
Peace
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WHY MOTHER MARY< on 2008-03-20 18:05:34 |
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Keep calling to her, she will answer you. My best girlfriend prays to the Virgin Mary and asked me for prayers specifically to Mother Mary and she's a practicing Muslim. Mary, the mother of God was a mother, a wife, a sister, and knew love, passion, pain and suffering because she was a real woman. She knows our hearts and understands because she's our mother, too.
I also love Mary Magdalene and have read many books on her and her life with Jesus. It's all out there and you're asking the right questions.
Peace to you! XXX
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tired on 2008-03-20 17:48:38 |
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It might be good to see a counselor, join a support group and journal about your pain. You are a survivor and I'm sure will bust the myth about abusers abusing. Stay strong.
XXX
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MAN, DID I PISS OFF THIS COMPUTER!! on 2008-03-20 15:53:51 |
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Mine, too! I had a message about some type of error, so I logged off and gave "him" a break for the night!
He's back and running, smile. Have a super Thursday! XXX
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WHAT THE FU_ _ DID YOU JUST SAY????????? on 2008-03-20 15:51:16 |
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Great idea about the photographs..and amazing that he's finally connecting the dots. Yes, slowly and stupidly, but he is. You may never hear the words, "I'm sorry." but you sound strong enough to just go on with your life without hearing them. I am hopeful for this pathetic man, but I am more hopeful for YOU, Karen. Rooting for you and so proud of you!
TS is adorable!!! Hug him for me! XXX
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JUST WHEN I THOUGHT THE STORM WAS OVER............ on 2008-03-20 15:45:07 |
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I've got a couple of $$ to spare :-) sign me up! You sound strong, I love it. XXX
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THE WORLD'S EASIEST QUIZ (Passing requires only 4 on 2008-03-16 17:10:59 |
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Got only three right, one was a lucky guess! But, the Canary Islands are not in the Pacific. They are part of Spain. Which ocean? Answer this one for the bonus round!
Fun post, thanks Wayne.
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The things I couldn't tell you on 2008-03-16 15:19:10 |
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. It's my first visit to your blog. I wish you healing, strength, and courage.
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ROAD RAGE OR AM I JUST PISSED AT THE WORLD? on 2008-03-16 14:02:44 |
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After the puppy period, you will be fast friends and he will be your most loyal man for life. I love how you two are beginning new lives together. Enjoy him and post the photos when you can. Can't wait to see him!
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Setting Your Goal SMART-ly on 2008-03-16 13:57:52 |
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I love the specifics of what, why, and how. Great post and article! Thanks for this, G.
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I FELT MY BABY MOVE!!!!! on 2008-03-16 13:54:49 |
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It is wonderful and a miracle each and every time. How cool! Enjoy and I hope you and David are reunited soon!
XXX
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I Hope You Dance.......... on 2008-03-16 13:52:15 |
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Wonderful blog, Hollis! I read this on Palm Sunday, very timely. Thank you!
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No Mistress, But down in the bleachers! on 2008-03-16 13:49:35 |
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You handled yourself with class, grace and strength. Good for you!! Miss8 is a chip of the ol' Mom block!
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Toxic dump on 2008-03-15 09:22:26 |
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They're called crazy makers. They love drama, attention, and negativity. Don't feed into it! Definitely speak to your manager, I probably would.
I'm enjoying your blogs.
Peace
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Thank you on 2008-03-15 09:20:09 |
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I went to school with two different color boots one morning! Brown and black! The students definitely called me on it and call me "grandma" now! lol! They check out my clothing out every morning and it's either a thumbs up or thumbs down!
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Urgent Prayer Request - Please on 2008-03-15 09:09:28 |
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Unreal...reminds me that when I'm enjoying the sunshine, many others are suffering. The family and baby Camryn are in my prayers.
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Remember Me on 2008-03-15 06:47:23 |
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Beautiful! She is one of my favorite faces, painted by....can't remember who that was, but it was in the Romanticism period. I think she was his muse or lover.
Anyway! Thank you for posting this, I loved it.
Be well and hope you are feeling luminous! All pregnant women are, smile.
XXX
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Early will i seek him on 2008-03-14 19:29:55 |
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Just found you and I enjoyed this message. Thanks for posting, off to read more...
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I'm almost a sole house owner on 2008-03-14 18:43:23 |
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Celebrate, nonetheless! It is a step forward and a very positive one at that. My ex and I are selling our house in France which is bittersweet as I love that house, but it means forward movement for me AND financial freedom! Finally!
Lots of love,
XXX
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Pi and Peace with Zach on 2008-03-14 18:35:58 |
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Yes, tomorrow will tell. Good luck, Marie and I am glad to have found you. I enjoyed your blog and your honesty.
Peace.
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Things you shouldn't laugh at on 2008-03-14 17:47:06 |
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PITA PIE!!!!! I LOVE YOU! LOL! YOU MADE ME LAUGH LIKE I HAVEN'T LAUGHED IN WEEKS! I AM SENDING THIS BLOG TO MY SISTER AND GIRLFRIENDS! YOU ARE TOO DAMN FUNNY! I'VE GOT TEARS IN MY EYES! WHAT I WOULDN'T GIVE TO SEE THAT!
THE VISUAL OF HIS SHOES UP HIS ESOPHAGUS IS HYSTERICAL! DON'T KNOW WHY I'M TYPING IN ALL CAPS, JEEZ??!! BUT, IT FITS!
OMG DID I ENJOY THAT.....okay, calm now until I read it again! LMAO!
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Was the Governor's wife a jealousy woman? on 2008-03-14 17:41:14 |
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Hello, Davis! Another great blog! What you said about jealousy is so true, wow, two sides. Sometimes we want to confirm the suspicions for personal validation and other times, we want to prove them wrong. Sometimes, in the same breath.
Yes, the core of jealousy is fear and lack of self-esteem, usually unfounded. Hopefully, unfounded is what I really want to say! Sometimes, I found that my intuition was right on the money, too. Not every time, but near the end of our marriage, that was the case.
Thank you for this post! You offer such clear-sighted, concise blogs, inspirational blogs. We are happy you are among us.
Peace and God bless you.
Much love,
Ellie
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Untimely on 2008-03-14 14:57:23 |
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We miss you and hope you are well. Come back and introduce Pete to us.
Peace.
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Almost at 500 on 2008-03-14 10:41:07 |
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Welcome to the other side! I will now backtrack and read your other blogs, as I missed you before...
Peace!
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FROM THE FRYING PAN INTO THE FIRE AND BACK on 2008-03-14 10:37:54 |
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Great news and yes, you will be fine in that department, smile. I hope like hell he finds an apartment! Fingers crossed.
Isn't it amazing that our thoughts create action and once we've chosen a path and once movement begins, it all falls into place. As it's meant to be.
Good luck, hon. You did good.
May peace and harmony be yours.
XXX
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Meditation on 2008-03-14 10:24:01 |
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Hmmm...very interesting post. I like it. It's almost like living your today as if there were no tomorrow and arm yourself with whatever makes you strong now, don't wait until you are surprised by life's inevitable trials and tribulations.
Like it :-)
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empowered on 2008-03-14 10:20:46 |
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I am SO proud of you. I agree with everything you said in this blog. Stay strong and protect your boys.
Peace.
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There just might be (A God) on 2008-03-14 09:57:07 |
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I enjoyed reading your blog and your honesty. There is a God and He's with you. He's not waiting for us to be perfect before coming to Him, he loves us as we are. He won't control your thoughts, but He can enrich your life when you let Him take the steering wheel and trust in Him. I'm glad you're still praying and searching, I am, too.
Good luck to you, onelostsong.
Peace and love.
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To my first love on vDay on 2008-03-14 08:03:45 |
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I just love this post and music! So true.
Peace XXX
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A Friend In Need on 2008-03-14 07:27:22 |
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Tell your wonderful Diva friend to be there for her daughter and I have no doubt you will be there for her. This young Diva needs her Mama Divas to surround her with love! XXX
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The calm before the storm on 2008-03-14 07:23:04 |
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Yep, sounds to me like he has either given up trying to "reign" her in or doesn't "do" confrontation well..good luck.
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A Master Card and Sex Wedding on 2008-03-14 07:14:16 |
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Wow, Davis! What a great post, real or otherwise, doesn't matter. I'd love to believe that it's true! Love it when people stand up for themselves and when good conquers bad!
Talk to you soon.
Love,
Ellie
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The wedding, the ex & the girlfriend on 2008-03-14 07:12:09 |
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Turn the other cheek when you're ready, but prepare yourself NOW for the very real possibility that she will be at the wedding...FOTY has screwed up things before and has added fuel to the fire before, what makes you think he'll find his decency now? Doubt it, but hope that it goes well and that you can enjoy your family trip, despite him!
XXX safe travels
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Organiser ? Or Follower on 2008-03-14 07:08:59 |
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Have a wonderful trip and enjoy!! Talk to you when you return. XXX
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The calm before the storm on 2008-03-13 21:22:43 |
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I'm so sorry for all involved. Sounds like B is holding the family hostage...hope she gets a wake-up call soon and also hope it doesn't involve some family trauma...
ALSO, where is G's husband in all this?? The in-law's son? No mention of him...
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Girlfriends Sticking Together on 2008-03-13 19:53:06 |
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That is priceless! Love IT! He got his and sure hope his wife kicks his sorry butt out! Glad you had fun with your girlfriends. We DO have to stick together!
Great post and great moral to the story.
Peace XXX
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when the lights go out on 2008-03-13 18:45:03 |
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Write that letter to your inner child, honey. Love and parent her now that you know how. She will heal because you are a survivor.
Beautiful, raw poem. I loved it.
Peace and love.
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Frogs on 2008-03-13 18:42:27 |
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What a lovely post and beautiful memories with your daughter!
Peace
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Angry on 2008-03-13 18:40:46 |
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Good for you, honey123. Good for you. I hope like hell a child is saved from abuse because of what you courageously did.
Peace and love.
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Tears of Saints...Leeland on 2008-03-13 17:52:59 |
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Thank you for posting this! I loved it!
Peace and love XXX
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He'll Find A Way on 2008-03-13 17:51:00 |
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Beautiful words, CO! Very inspirational and I absolutely love the quote. I will remember that one, for sure.
Love and peace XXX
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WHIPPED AND SCARED SHITLESS ! on 2008-03-13 17:49:25 |
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Wow, Karen. Print CODreamin's comment out! I couldn't have said it better myself. She's absolutely correct. There IS help available, you just need someone like CO to point you in the right direction. We've survived and you will, too. Have faith and be proactive! Bills scare me, too and my standard of living has dropped to more than half of what it used to be, but it's working out just fine. I have peace. You can't buy that.
Trust Him and make the phone calls.
Love and blessings to you. XXX
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How do you rate as a parent? on 2008-03-12 20:55:34 |
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Thank you for the blessings, Davis. I send you blessings right back.
Love and peace.
Ellie
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Money, Sex, Power and Prostituion on 2008-03-12 20:50:14 |
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Thanks for a very thought-provoking post, Davis. I always enjoy stopping by and seeing what you're up to.
Be blessed.
Ellie
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Money, Sex, Power and Prostituion on 2008-03-12 20:43:36 |
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My ex-husband did cheat on me, married the bimbo and sought to humiliate me in front of our community, but I preempted him. I told our community myself before the rumor mill began and the twisted stories came out. I took back my power and left him hanging.
As for Mrs. Governor, until her book comes out, we will never know. Did she stay on for the $, power and thus, prostitute herself or did she stay because she loved him and had "sins" of her own she didn't want uncovered or yet again, did she stay simply because she forgave him and truly loves him?...remains to be seen.
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STELLA AWARDS....WTF????????????? on 2008-03-12 17:49:39 |
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Where do we live again?? What's wrong with this picture??? Unreal...
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REPOSTED THE OLD BLOG ! on 2008-03-12 17:47:00 |
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I'm proud of you, my friend!! You've shown tremendous courage and still have your sense of humor to boot!
Better days are ahead for you! Grab them!!
Peace and love. XXX
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HE MADE HIS BED, NOW LET HIM LAY IN IT! on 2008-03-12 17:44:17 |
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ALWAYS trust your instincts, Karen. Uncover your own secrets and own them. You raised good kids, they will forgive whatever it is, trust them. I came clean with my own kids and you know what? They already knew and loved me regardless. We are stronger and closer than ever now.
Rooting for you, Karen! Be strong.
Lots of love,
XXX
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ONE GIANT LEAP FOR ME! on 2008-03-12 17:39:13 |
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Yay!!! I'm hearing so much strength from you and still have that awesome sense of humor intact! SO glad you confided in kids and family, very important to uncover secrets. We never know how much help others can give us if we stay silent. We never know much we are loved until we open ourselves up wide to others. NOT to buttmunch though!
I am proud of you, Karen!!!
Lots of love,
Ellie
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Grandma on 2008-03-12 17:17:50 |
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Beautiful, bjm1! Keep writing!
XXX
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Dealing With Difficult People... on 2008-03-12 17:14:28 |
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Remove yourself, that's great advice. I've done that and it has worked wonders. No sense in having people in my life who aren't there for me and who just bring me down to levels that I'm not happy with. Forgive them and move on.
Great post, Hollis! XXX
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The Governor's Wife on 2008-03-12 17:10:57 |
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I have to agree with Hairy Toad and CO Dreamin. Sometimes, we act in haste and regret our decisions. Silda might not have had much time to digest this and come to the conclusion I wish she'd come to. Leave his sorry ass.
And, maybe being a Governor's wife is all that? Don't know and don't care! Nothing is worth losing my self-respect! What I DO know is that if she's got daughters, sisters, nieces, and girlfriends, she let them ALL down. She let herself down, as well.
He would have appeared alone if he'd been married to me...
Great post! Thanks for that. XXX
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I WAS WAITING FOR THE PUNCH AND ........... on 2008-03-12 17:05:29 |
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WOWOWOW! I just got home and immediately was led to your post! My mouth was so damn dry as I was reading, jeez!!!! I'm thrilled that you did two HUGE things:
uncovered the "secret" to your kids and to your brother. Huge.
and, you confronted the beast and lived to tell the tale! God was certainly with you and I hear strength after strength in your voice. You can do it! Be SAFE and be smart now. The first thing I did was change the locks, as well. The lease was in his name, but I didn't care!
The Beast found a new side to you and it probably confused him to no end. Let him leave, sweetheart. You CAN make it!
XXX
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Smelly King Of Fruit on 2008-03-12 16:56:25 |
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Darn, I have HBP! But am still going to find one and try it! Thanks for the post!
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God gave me everything I hoped for on 2008-03-12 16:54:39 |
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Lovely and very true. We will always get what we need rather than what we want. Thank God for that!
Inspiring post, as always. Thank you.
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I gave up and CRIED! on 2008-03-12 16:52:39 |
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Absolutely agree. Kids don't mince words and it is good that they aren't making it easy for him. Let him work at a relationship with them, you don't need to offer him advice! Let him wallow in his inadequacies...you will be fine. You're the parent here, he's a pathetic man making one mistake after another. Don't bail him out. Let your kids see him for what he is. Yes, you will have to take up the slack, but haven't you already been doing that??
Be well. XXX
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WOMAN'S INTUITION AND CHANGING DYNAMICS ! on 2008-03-11 16:32:18 |
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I haven't seen the movie, but have heard about it, it makes your situation that much more scary to me. I am praying that you find a safe solution. Maybe look around when you're on vacation out West and South...you never know...be on the lookout. When the student is ready, the teacher appears. I love that saying.
Be well, karen. Love and peace to you.
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LONLINESS IS A FOUR LETTER WORD! on 2008-03-11 16:25:10 |
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Thank you for sharing and for the smiles. I can't wait to meet the new man in your life. What a wonderful life he will have with you. I know he will give tons of love in return.
Butt munch! haha! I haven't heard that in years!
Be well, dear friend. I hear much strength coming from you and I am happy and proud of you. XXX
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my boobs are taking over my body.... on 2008-03-10 22:01:18 |
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Enjoy everything about this pregnancy! Glad David is a breast man! Be well!!
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Am I Breaking My Own Rules on 2008-03-10 21:48:48 |
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I agree with the comments above, but of course, don't take my own advice, smile. I liked BootLady's comment best of all, being with someone rather than commenting on him is preferable! I am taking that comment to heart myself...
Good luck!
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Hot, Raunchy Posts, are they okay? on 2008-03-10 21:43:56 |
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Go for it! Lusty is good! I enjoy a little spice to my food and reading!
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Don't Worry.................. on 2008-03-08 20:30:20 |
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WOW! I love this post! It is SO much like our relationship with our Father when we trust Him and let Him take the wheel!
Thank you again, dear Julian! XXX
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Mr. Man on 2008-03-08 20:25:25 |
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Not going to comment on the above paragraphs, but the last paragraph should be read and reread. He's right about that. 100%.
This was a great blog, full of honesty and courage. Good luck.
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Bittersweet Symphony on 2008-03-08 20:19:54 |
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Excellent post! Glad I found you, NS! Belated welcome!
Peace.
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When Grandma Goes To Court....... on 2008-03-08 18:07:09 |
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HILARIOUS! I laughed my head off, still laughing! Southern Steel Magnolias, gotta love them! Thanks so much for this post! XXX
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did it on 2008-03-08 18:05:01 |
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Usually people who are intent on committing suicide are silent, they plan alone and don't like to involve others who might talk them out of it or get in the way. That was the case with my father's wife...and they usually try again until they succeed. Maybe this person didn't really want to die? Who knows? Maybe he wanted attention and someone to talk to...no clue, but the vicious "attacks" to you are uncalled for. Peace and sorry this happened to you! Peace. XXX
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How do you rate as a parent? on 2008-03-08 17:53:59 |
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Beautiful post and lovely ending! Thank you for sharing with us. Very true words. If I may, I would like to add Respect and Compassion towards others.
Peace.
Ellie
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MY BUDDY CALEB IS NO PAIN IN THE NECK on 2008-03-08 06:10:39 |
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good luck and happy healing, sounds like you're in good hands!
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when it feels like the right fit, it probably is on 2008-03-08 06:06:41 |
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Loved this one! Thanks for the smiles this morning! It's great, no shit! Oops, I bit! Now, I have to git To the classroom to sit Bored out of my wit(s)! Dang, lost it!
Peace, thanks for the post.
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Happy F**king Wedding Anniversary to ME! on 2008-03-08 05:58:29 |
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Great post. ..."blissfully unaware" is how it felt for some of us on our wedding day! I sometimes wonder if I should have left him before the kids came along and the answer is yes, BUT wouldn't have my precious children today and that would have been such a tragedy!
All meant to be...
I would say that to remember my wedding anniversary is bittersweet these days. There isn't anger, there isn't love, there is nostalgia. We had so much fun when the kids were growing up. He was a pretty good Dad, but a shitty husband. We divorced in May and he remarried in May, same year. Good for him and good for me.
Hoping that next year, you won't even notice the date, but it will catch you unaware while dating a great guy! Peace XXX
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Damn! I did it again! on 2008-03-08 05:46:02 |
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You are no sucker, my love. I agree with both comments above (especially sweet of HungryHeart to offer the apology). Selective memory, for sure. He remembers...
Here's the thing with trusting the ex and HWG, the second time wasn't as long, so don't beat yourself up. You recovered quicker, that's learning! Just a glitch in the road, had them myself.
You're lovely and don't have to change your heart, just have to protect it more and watch for signs early on. Some of us want to see the good in everyone and others will take advantage of the goodness. I'm sure he likes many things about you (you're great, why not?!) but, yes some men love the attention and self-esteem rush.
You see him every day, we don't and so, you will have to judge the good guy part. I'm sure he's sweet and was honest about the girlfriend, so okay. Leave that one at the door of your heart and go on your way. I've left a couple at the door over the years, but found myself opening the door a crack and was in the same situation within a week! They never lasted, their actions and my gut feelings were always right. It happens because some of us want happiness and yes, the happy ending that we know deep in our hearts is possible.
No beating up to be done here, smile. Just living, learning and being yourself. I'll take the cherry, please! Peace XXX
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WHEN GOD CLOSED THE WINDOW HE LOCKED THE DOOR! on 2008-03-07 21:02:15 |
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If I could get to you, I would. You are not alone, you do not owe anyone anything! You do not have to be "up" for us or listen to any disappointmenting comments, there are none here. You don't have to have comments, merely state so in your blogs. Write and then ask that no one comment. It's our place to vent and it's a good thing. Do it your way, in your own time. Ellie
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A BLACK AND BLUE ISSUE NOT BLACK AND WHITE! on 2008-03-07 20:55:47 |
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you keep writing. I pray that you find someone to contact who can help you or take you in. Please keep in touch and email me, if you want. I'm here.
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Tomato Sauce on everything movement! on 2008-03-07 12:38:00 |
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Eat the tomato sauce and don't look back! Go on and enjoy whatever the heck you love! This is your time, girlfriend! Loved pitapie's advice, smile.
Tomato sauce is back on the menu along with anything you like and have kept hidden or felt bad for enjoying! Peace and love.
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Better Alone than with the Wrong Person on 2008-03-07 12:34:20 |
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Yes, happy this morning! Happy to be alive, in good health with healthy kids, a job that I love, friends and family who love and support me and vice versa.
I loved this post and am SO happy for you! You sound like you turned a real corner here, smile. I'm rooting for you! Healing has begun! Yay! You deserve happiness, love and peace. XXX
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Still moving on on 2008-03-07 12:22:57 |
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a good first date sounds great and a nice kiss that feels good :-) Good for you and good luck!
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Here, There and Everywhere on 2008-03-06 17:42:54 |
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Thank you, CODreamin!! More we share in common, smile. Peace to you!
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The question no one ever asks... on 2008-03-06 17:41:50 |
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True enough, I hear you. I've been to London many times and studied there for a bit. We have this gang mentality here, as well, so dangerous and hurtful to the kids involved and the victims of their crimes.
As I write this comment, a very good friend has been sacked because of a kid's comments about him. There were witnesses, statements written, covered up lies, but it didn't matter. The kid's side was taken (it's a private institution, we wouldn't want anything to come between us and the almighty dollar...) and my friend was fired.
Disgusting...it's a huge problem, here too. You would be perfect in this field, perfect!
My leg is better, but spasming quite a bit when I'm on it for too long. I'm forcing myself to sit, smile. Love and hugs XXX
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Dedicated To The Memory of my Dad on 2008-03-06 17:37:00 |
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What a lovely tribute to your father, H. It is beautiful, my hairs stood on end as I read it. Thank you for this post and for sharing you and your father with us. He was a hell of a great guy. He will be your child's guardian angel! Peace and love to you. XXX
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Grace on 2008-03-06 14:19:11 |
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Beautiful, Angela!
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