Posted by
molly_desire
on 2008-05-05 05:17:40 |
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| Hmmm well i think they are used mainly for practice. It gives us women a chance to find out what thing s really get us going. Because if we don't know ourselfs then how on earth do we exspect men to understand. I like having time with just me and my left hand. No man inturpting. Maybe it's just me but i cherise my alone time. I think it's only a taboo for certion people. My friends are quite honest and open. I love that fact. |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 05:28:21 |
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Molly D- thanks for being brave enough to comment first :) ...
I also have a friend who says something similar - she likes her "MY" time at night before bed, and if she doesn't get it - she gets frustrated! I haven't asked her her secret .. maybe I should! |
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Posted by
KP
on 2008-05-05 06:33:03 |
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Easy, you no longer have to rely on Canberra for this service, more and more shops are opening up in Melbourne. I am sure you may have seen the in the CBD, disgised as adult magazine shops. However there are others popping out further and further out your way, know as "Sexyland". Ohh and of course if you are not brave enough to go to a shop, there is always the internet. Though you will get an email just as often as snail mail. But they are easier to stop.
I have a few different types. I am not ashamed to say. Why different? dfferent sensations. We (hubby and I) got them for a number of reason. One was to experiment with them together (on me of course). Two was to show him what really got me going, and three when he wasn't in the mood and I was in desperate need I knew I had something to help me along. These days they aren't brought out as often as they were when we first got them and I do have to blush on this one, we have gone through a few. But we have enjoyed the pleasure we have both learnt from them. And I must say hubby is now more aware of what he needs to do to get me to the point of no return.
Now for another opinion which is my cousin. She also has them. But mainly because of the dry spell she is suffering at the moment with the lack of men in her life. She enjoys sex, but doesn't want to go around having one night stands with anyone.
Ohhhh and of course there is the usually innuendo jokes that go with this.
*They never answer back.
*They aren't going to stop when they have had enough
*You don't have to compete for attention from the football, the mates, or drink.
*You don't have to worry about lack of hardness if they have had a few beers.
*You know that they aren't getting it from any where else.
Ohhh the list goes on.
Hope this helps in any way (I think). |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 06:42:04 |
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KP - LOL .. thank you ... great response .. seems you could've done your own post about this subject (no offense :).
Oh I am aware of the shops around "my area" .. lots in Ringwood, some hidden, some eye glaringly obvious!!!
Haven't ventured in, although a friend who is shy, has asked if I'd go with her one day!!
Hmmmm maybe I need to go pick out one for myself!! Rather than use (did I say that outloud!) those others have chosen for me .. might even vary from my favorite color too (which is coincidentally Purple - Guys the ex got that bit right! LOL!) |
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Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-05-05 06:50:22 |
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| Well, that would be like getting a vacuum cleaner and being told "go ahead knock yourself out". I don't think the subject is taboo just think you can buy them in "the Lillian Vernor" catalogue. They are labeled as a "massager", but we know what they really are. |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 07:36:18 |
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| Pita - Massager!!! Hmmmmmmmm ....... btw not sure what a Lillian Vernor catalogue is. |
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Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-05-05 08:56:01 |
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| lol!!! Every girl has one wether they admit it or not. Me and my friends go to sex stores all the time and look around to see what's new. Some of them still dumbfound me. (Like "the fist" can't figure why you would want that) As I see it, it's great alone, but even more fun with your man. There's no shame in it Easy!! LOL We're not robots...women gotta get ours too!!! |
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Posted by
ColoradoDreamin
on 2008-05-05 11:19:32 |
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| Lillian Vernon is a popular mail order catalog here in the states. A little bit of everything is available. You can check out their web site at lillianvernon.com. |
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Posted by
sean_barr
on 2008-05-05 12:21:48 |
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| Sorry. Not a lady, but I'll chime in my $0.02. I'd be jealous if my wife had a BOB. Not sure why. Just would. |
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Posted by
luckyluci
on 2008-05-05 13:18:29 |
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| Easy...first of all, great post ;) I do have one...he's blue...but let me tell you, i prefer the real deal by far...my husband likes to watch me...but that doesn't last long because he throws the thing across the room in 2 minutes to claim his territory...is it a good substitute? No, i would rather use my fingers or the shower head...:) |
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Posted by
lastblastkl
on 2008-05-05 14:48:28 |
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easy,
have one and its red (a rabbit)..the phone and the bob make a great team....lillian vernon is a catalogue here in the U.S. that had a lot of what nots in it....didn't know they had those though....with my bob the only thing i have to worry about is keeping spare batteries.....smile....and i always do...wink
k |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 16:23:07 |
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Mamacita - LOL the Fist!! That's gotta be designed by a man doesn't it!!!
And I agree with you, we are NOT robots!! :) |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 16:23:38 |
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| CD - thanks for the clarification. and thanks for stopping by :) |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 16:24:21 |
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| SB - so you think.... THINK you wife doesn't have one!?? Even after reading all the comments here .... oh ok .. sure .... :) |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 16:25:43 |
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| Luci - LOL ... I had a great visual then .. oh let me clarify ... there goes this blue thing flying through the air and your hubby jumping your bones (that's all I saw honest!)!!! LOL |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 16:27:26 |
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K - a Red one .... rabbit - I won't ask why it's called or is a rabbit ....LOL
The phone!!!! Oh hang on I'm assuming is used to hear a voice on the other end??
Oh you should buy rechargeables and have them spare..... HA HA |
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Posted by
KarKar
on 2008-05-05 17:52:04 |
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| I have a pink one... and it has never "worked" for me. I also have a rabbit, still in the plastic never used. PS Lillian Vernon went bankrupt in February, I know because they owed my company money:( Although they are still operating, beware. |
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Posted by
missmarie
on 2008-05-05 18:34:55 |
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I would mail you, but i can't get to your profile honey... so i will say this he he
I own one, myself and him occasionally use it together, not on him lol but thats the only time it comes out of its box he he
no its no replacement for a man, but it gets you through those cold winter nights
Its not as taboo as it used to be honey, but some prudish types will always blush...and those who havent got one are just to embarrassed to go and get one ;)
P.s, mine ie purple too :D |
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Posted by
missmarie
on 2008-05-05 18:35:22 |
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| by the way, Fantastic post honey x |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 19:50:33 |
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KarKar - thanks for the response .. a pink one ... and a rabbit!! I'm going to have to look up these "rabbits!"
I'll steer clear of Lillian Vernon ... |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 19:51:24 |
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| KarKar - oh I hear you .. NEVER "works" for me either... :) |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 19:55:36 |
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Missmarie - a Purple one!! YAY! I agree leave it in its box.... unless you are "playing" with it and your man!
I've got a few "Proper" friends, wouldn't call them prudish - who I'd be surprised if they all had one!
Btw - I've added you to my friends so you can email me :) |
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Posted by
tonyrayhutchison
on 2008-05-05 21:55:56 |
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| OMJ!!! I really shouldn't be here! plus the comments*blushes*. For real, I have been with several women who own and use them (kinda makes me wonder now about my own prowess..) and I liked it if they broke them out. was I really supposed to comment here? I know I'm off topic, I dont care :p |
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Posted by
sean_barr
on 2008-05-05 21:57:14 |
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| E2S, you sassy one. No, the wife doesn't have a BOB! Never has. But if she goes out and gets one, I'm gonna return the favor and buy a blow up doll. We'll see who's laughin' then! |
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Posted by
bullseye
on 2008-05-05 22:19:18 |
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| we had a guy in college... named bags. we called him bags cuz us football player busted on him during a party where he was having relations with a bean bag that he punched a hole in. bean bag just don't seem as fun eh... |
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Posted by
Kaybee
on 2008-05-05 23:04:55 |
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Surprise, 2 comments in 2 days!!
Next time we do champagne and chocolate, (yummmm, it's been a while...) after a few bottles maybe we should hit the shops together, what do you think???!! xo |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-05 23:20:11 |
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| Kaybee ... Mmmmmm ... are you suggesting you are going to purchase your own .... you know ... thingamagidgit!!! what colour will you get?? lol |
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Posted by
ffeeona
on 2008-05-06 06:02:23 |
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| some girls say that all girls have them. I don't have one and I have no desire to purchase one. In my eyes (and elsewhere) nothing can beat the real thing. I like to be touched, kissed, fondled and the experience is not just about being jabbed down below. Plus I just love that smell and the weight of a man on me.... |
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Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-05-06 06:33:23 |
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| ffeeona - I hear you, I definitely agree ... thanks for contributing to this "ladies forum!" I'm loving all these wonderful comments. |
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Posted by
shemelts
on 2008-05-06 12:12:32 |
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Okay brace yourself folks..I have an arsenal of toys..all purchased by my husband to enhance our long standing(27year) sex/love life. He enjoys playing and my motto is: if it doesn't hurt, go for it. We have remained true to one another and sometimes you need to spice it up a bit..
My all time favorite invention in the world is the "silver bullet"..really..get you one. You won't regret it. :D It enhances sex for both of us and he has no qualms about using whatever makes us both feel good.
I totally agree that nothing beats a man to enjoy sex with, but some of these toys can be a close second during desperate times..:D
Taboo subject indeed..Not in my household. I was raised in a house of prudes and sex was a taboo subject(obviously they had sex there was 8 of us children). It took me years to come to grip with the fact that sex was a gift and I was supposed to enjoy it.
My children have been raised to believe that sex is a natural expression of love and is an enjoyable activity(don't worry we taught them about safe sex too)..
peace :o shemelts |
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Posted by
nakedtruth
on 2008-05-06 14:23:29 |
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| I liked this post! I don't have 1, but I have been seriously considering getting 1, because I will be in a definite dry spell in a week(the guy that is currently "helping me out" is moving). I heard about 1 that can plug into your ipod or cd player and vibrate to the beat of the music....I thought that was pretty interesting. haha |
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Posted by
nakedtruth
on 2008-05-06 14:25:05 |
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| Oh, and the rabbit is a vibrator that provides clitoral stimulation as well. |
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