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Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts
This is not a farewell post!!!
While I sat massaging my calf muscle - which is still sore from the "cramp" attack the other morning.  Yes Brainstormer I've stopped talking about "sex" but it still hurts!!  And after eating my two minute noodles for lunch, I started thinking about me here on thoughts.  I share alot of personal feelings with you all, and you all with me.    But how well do we really know each other??  And the other question I ask, is how well SHOULD we know each other? 

So I grab a TIM TAM and start drinking my coffee through it and I ponder this in light of the recent exodus of Thoughts.com bloggers. Most I did not read, two I did. Since then I have watched my friends closely..

I noticed Miss Ellie2008 who went MIA for a few days, but thankfully she resurfaced, and now Meredith  is on vacation - and I can't wait for her to be back!  I want to share my news with her.  This is a blogging site isn't it?

I also wonder why others leave - do they get to know others better than most?  Do they think by not putting their stuff onto the screen they will find a happiness that was not there before?  If I was going to leave Thoughts.com - I would just do it, actually strike that ... I would let you all know - because you are my friends... you really are. and that is the point of this post.

I've really become attached to some of you out there,  Of course most of you know I'm very attached to Bullseye, (my gosh who wouldn't be ... he's an amazing amazing man! ... and yes I meant to type amazing twice!)  but did you know I feel a  bond with others too??

Did you know that I admire and enjoy the writings of  Plakola who is turning 20 on Sunday 27th of April? I wish this Intelligent Beautiful Girl a Fantastic Birthday, and I look forward to your email telling me all about your birthday date with the fantastic person you are going with!

I love reading PitaPie's posts they are funny, they are serious, they are heartwarming and enjoyable.

Overthehillandfaraway - you are like the "favorite" Auntie I never had, your wisdom, your sharp eye on situations, oh I admire you, don't stop giving out the truth to those who blindly can't see it!!! Oh and I still expect a signed copy of your Children's book once it is published!

I marvel at the wisdom of Ellie2008 and BootLady who are both such inspiring writers, and very humorous too. I'll never forget Bootlady's first post about cats making good speedhumps!

CaringAdvic and Shemelts - you both put up some very thought provoking comments which I often cannot see due to the emotion I am writing with ... thank you.

I have a nice bond with Colorado Dreaming one of my first friends here, who if she was in my town I would have coffee with every week, and possibly spend an hour or so on the phone.

Then there is BlueMoonInMyEyes and Meredith - I love reading your words which could quite easily be written by me, I think if we lived in the same town we'd be hitting the night life together (oh not too often though B.E.!!)

I love LuckyLuci's open honest and frank posts - and look out for the Happy Fuckin Friday posts even though they are at the end of my Friday but I love them ...

Then there is LastBlast - oh Karen you are an amazing woman who could do anything and you will one day my friend you will.  Victoria Secret & G-String dance!!!!!! HAHA

Of course I haven't forgotten Prelude2 - who writes so openly and honestly, sometimes I find myself just wanting to call you up and invite myself over!

AngelWings captured my attention with her SoulMates post - it was Soooo timely I thought she'd read my mind! Waiting for more now ....

Brainstormer - you crack me up ... honestly you do ...

KP - you are an amazing woman, you've been so inspirational with what you've been through, and I totally relate to your blogs about your kids.  We'll share a coffee for real one day ... we live the closest!


Nutshell - yes I read your posts and even leave comments sometimes .... they are amusing in a frank way!
 
Templar_Knight - you caught my attention with your "smoking" blog, I felt so touched by your story that I pop in every now and again to see what other stories you have to share.

Sean_Barr - just starting reading yours ... crazy ..... Women don't like Sex!!??? are you sure ... and a urinal at your desk ... peeewww!!

tonyray - I can relate to your heartache and loved your stand for a blogger who has since been banished

Gwatlan - my god you live here in Melbourne!!!!

roe & bjm1 - your blogs are on my daily read lists! ROE - especially love the ones about your puppies :)


Hollis - love your posts they are so inspirational and positive...
whitters, ladie godiva - i watch from a distance, maybe one day we'll become friends.

Bullseye ... mmmm ............. where do I start ... mmmm ... sorry not in here!!

Apologies if I've missed anybody, and I'm sure I'll get to know more of you as I stay addicted to Thoughts.com... for the most part I'd really would like to sit  down with some of you and have a coffee, or share a beer, I'd love to share a snippet of my life with you.  I'd love for you to meet my wonderful children and see for yourself how amazing they are. I'd love for you to see the passion in my eyes and hear the excitement in my voice that I was sharing a moment with a friend.

I'd love to know more about you ... but then it wouldn't be a blog site would it!
So write on my friends because I'm loving every minute of you!
Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-04-26 05:13:23 | Rating: | Views: 250


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Posted by
BootLady
on 2008-04-26 10:28:18
 
You are such a sweetie, Easy! I wish only good things for you! But, um...could you enlarge your font a wee bit? I've left a nose-print on my monitor!
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-26 10:48:55
 
Bootlady - HAHA, sorry it's thoughts, it seems to play font games with me.
 
 

Posted by
BlueMoonInMyEye
on 2008-04-26 11:35:04
 
Easy, sometimes I think it's hard to post everything you want to post when you've made friends here. The deepest, darkest, omg-i-want-to-drink-bleach moments that will only concern and worry those reading that have truly built a friendship with you. And I have no doubts that you, Meri, Prelude, and me could have one helluva time out on the town. I'd like to say that Pita and Ellie could act as chaperones, but I have the feeling we'd actually be chaperoning those crazy chicks! Anyway, as warming as it is to find kindred spirits on here, it is hard, at least for me, to post everything I want to say at some points. If I did, someone undoubtedly would be calling a hotline somewhere........
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-26 11:59:57
 
Blue - you know what I agree .. sometimes I almost feel like I have to ask permission to take a leave of absence from my normal posts - so I can say the bizarre things that sometimes pop into my head.
But in the end they are just thoughts, so I say GO FOR IT.

Okay ..here I go - I hope JS falls off the pole that she dances on and FOTY's penise shrinks to the size of his brain .. if that's possible!!! LOL
There you go... and Oh if you want to write about drinking bleach and disappearing off the face of the earth well I say do it - just make sure you put a footnote on it letting all know you are having a "moment"! :)
 
 

Posted by
prelude2it
on 2008-04-26 12:20:27
 
Easy - I think you are great. I love reading your posts and learning about you. I do think you, Meri, blue and I could be friends in real life. I relate to your posts a lot. You get all of me in my posts which may not always be a good thing. Hey I followed in our your sex week but I got a negative comment - Oh well!
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-26 18:23:12
 
Prelude2it - thanks for stopping by :) you did?? Where is it .... let me at them!! :O

I believe if you can't say anything NICE then don't say ANYTHING at ALL!

Oh and maybe one day when I come over there we will tear up the town!!
 
 

Posted by
brainstormer
on 2008-04-27 01:17:17
 
Awwwh:( Im gonna miss you most of all, Crampcr--er, Scarecrow:P Thanks for the notice:P You remind me of what I did my senior year of high school. Though I barely knew my class, I wrote a lil something to each of them and printed copies to hand out because I could not say all I wanted to to everyone in a tiny senior quote. They thought about making a plaque for me in the computer room for using the most paper ever:P The heads were not happy with me but later were awed by my effort. I wish my classmates were. Most could have cared less. Why? Well, for some, I hardly knew them and had nothing to write really...but I still wanted to say "hey, I didnt get to know you, but you were in my class and I recognize you for it."

So, it seems you and bullseye should get a room if yer not married:P And, the rest...well, yer still learning about us:) One of these days I might make a post like this.
 
 

Posted by
brainstormer
on 2008-04-27 01:18:27
 
Oh, and since you mentioned the S word here anyway, you have not avoided the subject completely:P Cramps to be you:)
 
 

Posted by
Gwatlan
on 2008-04-27 01:20:58
 
EasyToSay, I think you are a great woman. You've been through a lot, but yet you remain strong and a very good mother for your two sweet children. I just hope the future will be so kind to you and will make all your hopes and dreams reality.

Good luck for you and Bullseye.
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 07:28:00
 
Brainstormer .. did you actually read from the top?? or you still going blind *LOL* I'm NOT leaving ... or are you just not stopping by anymore??

BTW - loved your little story .. you tree killer!!!! :)
 
 

Posted by
ColoradoDreamin
on 2008-04-27 10:20:09
 
What a wonderful post. Thanks for the "honorable mention" and the kind words. So many wonderful friends here on thoughts that I can relate to and learn from. It's like a small town where everyone looks after and cares for one another. In many cases we don't know a person's real name, but in every case we know their heart. Your loving, kind heart is beautiful, EasyToSay. Peace.
 
 

Posted by
Ellie2008
on 2008-04-27 11:35:19
 
Hi Easy! I loved this post and you are right about including me in your Friend category! I love hearing from you and one of these days, we will meet for that crazy chick night! lol! Blue, Pita and I will not be the designated drivers, I can tell you that for sure! lol!

Love to all,

Ellie
 
 

Posted by
Nutshell
on 2008-04-27 12:22:57
 
Hey, thanks for including me! Everybody really is great on this site, I just joined in February. Great luck to the two of you!
 
 

Posted by
overthehillandfaraway
on 2008-04-27 13:13:34
 
Now look here Niece I never had - I am not going to be round too much as I have a lot going on at the moment, but I shall continue to pop in from time to time just to check you are alright. I'm trying hard to complete the book so if it ever happens, you'll have one of the first copies. It's so good to know you're happy.
 
 

Posted by
tonyrayhutchison
on 2008-04-27 14:33:32
 
hey!!! this is so cool!!! and look I'm up there! Thank you, and this is a great post. and GSH and the moomanda chronix was FUNNY AS HELL!!!!
 
 

Posted by
Meredith
on 2008-04-27 15:23:56
 
I think I am a bit choked up right about now! Perhaps it is because I have been gone for a week and missed you all. Im BAAAACCCCKKKK!!
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 16:17:29
 
YAY - Meredith is back!! I guess the postcard is still in transit? :)
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 16:17:58
 
TonyRay - YES!!! Bring Back Moomanda!!!
 
 

Posted by
lastblastkl
on 2008-04-27 16:18:31
 
easy,
thanks for including me in ur post of thank u's. ur sure ur not going anywhere right????
love u
karen
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 16:18:35
 
Auntie E - Hope you can achieve alot and I cant wait for your book..
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 16:19:37
 
Hey Ellie, maybe we can convince once of the gents on here to rent us a Limo for the evening!!! :)
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 16:20:36
 
LastB (Kazza!) - Nope I'm not leaving, I'm feeling the love!! :)
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-27 16:21:31
 
Nutshell - keep your posts coming .. they are funny ... even if you do ditch Thoughts for porn!!!!!! LOL
 
 

Posted by
templar_knight
on 2008-04-27 19:53:34
 
Thanks for your kind words.
To answer your question about how well we should get to know each other...the sky is the limit. This is very controllable. You can either be open in the public forum or do it privately. You can get to know people real well or keep them at arms length. Its always your call.
 
 

Posted by
roe
on 2008-04-27 22:04:09
 
Im so flattered to be included in this post, I could just cry, happy tears, of course, but thats another story I have yet to write, anyway
I digress, and I missed merideth too, another digression
where was I?
oh yeah, thanks
and Im so happy that you are finding happiness together and I guess you could say,
ITS THE THOUGHTS THAT COUNT...
 
 

Posted by
Long
on 2008-04-27 22:43:32
 
Awww left out of the Hero's and the Friends list, by a fellow Aussie too!
*crawls into corner to sulk*
*falls asleep*
*wakes up 15 minutes late from his break*


Hmmm Brainstormer very first line mate "This is not a farewell post!!!"

Maybe he is going blind E2S, perhaps a lack of said S leading to too much srlf service? LOL joke brainstormer.
 
 

Posted by
angelwings
on 2008-04-28 00:59:27
 
Im on there!!!!! :D EasyToSay, you're an amazing person. The honesty with which you write your blogs speaks a million words about ur amazing-ness. :)
I feel that attatchment with a lot of people here too...this place has really been giving me a lot of happiness in these past few weeks. You guys have been my strength!! Love you easy!!! :D
 
 

Posted by
shemelts
on 2008-04-30 12:44:44
 
Wow Easy.. Thanks for including me. I hope that your life gets easier and that your children learn a "new normal". I am gunning for ya and I know you are going to do fine. Good luck with your new relationship.

Did someone mention sex? I'm in..ha shemelts:)
 
 

Posted by
thoughtXpress
on 2008-05-19 07:03:44
 
omg i cant believe ............
u guys r so honest......
so genuine
well yes........ur post so genuinely spoke abt ur feelings 4 ur friends ......it moved me!!!
i jst read this post of urs but u r gr8
who else wud post a complete entry 4 friends
 
 


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