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Tuesday again, FOTY comes tonight.
Miss 8 had a sleep over last night and Master 4 and I spent a nice night building lego garages for his transformer figures. I enjoy these moments when I get to spend one on one time with my children. Both are amazing and so is my world at the moment.
So when FOTY emails me again!!! Yes that's two days in a row, I wonder if the bomb shell is today, since yesterday wasn't even a trip wire. This email had the subject line of "Tonight". My first thought was that it was him cancelling visitation tonight. Curiously I open it - after waiting 5 minutes (remembering the return receipt).
Hi,
I was wondering if you would mind if I took the kids to maccas for dinner tonight? You are of course welcome to come.
Your sincerely
FOTY
Nice gesture?? Mmmm not sure, I'm wondering if he's just tired of coming over on Tuesdays and leaving hungry, since I no longer cook his dinner for him (nor do I need to do the dishes afterwards - like a wife would .... or a restaurant - which I am no longer either to him).
The extended invite doesn't warm my heart or make me happy - to me it just means JS isn't coming!
I reply after much thought, and ask if it is ok for Miss 8 to call him once she gets home.
Hi,
no problem.
was his reply.
As it turns out Miss 8 forgot to sleep much on her sleepover and was extremely tired and grumpy when she got dropped home. I asked her to call her Dad to discuss it. I suggested to her that I didn't need to come.
But she didn't want to go with him as she'd had McDonalds for Lunch and felt too tired to do anything.
So he came over as usual .... I did notice he glanced into the kitchen, looking onto the benches. I'm mean I know, we'd had pasta with sauce and garlic bread and the kitchen smelt pretty good..... especially for a hungry person!
The kids played with him, while I listened to some music and sent a few emails.
Now I'm just waiting for him to go again.
And I am taking CARINGADVIS suggestion, I am glowing and feeling great..... I don't want him back but I do want him to see I'm in a better place, and he's locked out. My heart only has a place for an extraordinary man, not the ordinary man he turned out to be.
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Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-04-01 04:45:00 | Rating: | Views: 86
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Good for you! I am so happy to hear your feeling great.You're doing a great job kiddo:)Girl...you make me smile! My best to you and the kids :)
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Posted by pitapie50
on 2008-04-01 06:45:45
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