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Master 4 turns 5 ... FOTY Free party
Sometimes I just get sick and tired of everything and wanna quit.

Today I booked a party for Master 4.

Then I let FOTY know.
I explained that I’d booked it on the Sunday because he has the kids on Saturdays (yerr 1 in a row so far woohoo!).

I ask him to let me know if he’s planning anything different on the Saturday before the party, so that I can change the party to Saturday (my preferred day) if he is.
He says “No he’ll have them Saturday as usual.

So I ask him if he’s going to come to Master 4’s party, because if he is, then why don’t we change it to the Saturday at 3pm. He could still get the kids at 10am but bring them back to the party at 3pm and stay and enjoy his kids.

He says No thanks, he doesn’t think he needs to come to his son’s party – he’ll just see him on the Tuesday (which is his actual birth date).

I’m so disappointed for Master 4 that his Dad isn’t even coming to his party.
Kids don’t recognise they have a birthday and a birthday party. They think the day their birthday party is, is their birthday. So Master 4 is going to believe that FOTY just wasn’t at his party when he turned 5.

This frustrates and disappoints me.

But hey that’s FOTY!
Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-04-07 04:26:10 | Rating: | Views: 157


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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2008-04-07 05:32:03
 
Flogging is still illegal there right?
LOL
 
 

Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-04-07 06:52:40
 
Good grief kid..Foty sure is self centered. Makes me sad for Master 4. I wish I had something supportive to say :( Just makes me sad.
 
 

Posted by
KP
on 2008-04-07 07:25:30
 
Easy I think it is time for you to tell him he needs to be there for his sons birthday party.

What I think you need to do is instead of asking and making things easy for him, that he has to learn there are things he can opt out of and things he just can't. And I think that birthday parties are in the later catagory.
 
 

Posted by
Meredith
on 2008-04-07 12:14:13
 
What a jerk. I agree with KP! Poor kid will be sad if his daddy isn't there and years from now, he will surely resent him for it.
 
 

Posted by
Ellie2008
on 2008-04-07 18:02:47
 
I agree with KP, there are some things that are non-negotiable - birthday parties are one of those things. FOTY should be there and you might have to insist...does he live far away from you? Could be that he's wanting to separate himself from you and have his own relationship with your son. My ex did that, so we now celebrate everything separately, twice. Of course, he lives in Brussels though...just wondering. In any case, Happy Birthday, Master 4!!

My daughter's birthday is this Wednesday :-) 23 years old........wow, it seems like just yesterday :-)
 
 


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