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I have a friend who shall remain nameless who broke up with her long term boyfriend (of about 5 years) because he found himself attracted to a girl at his Hockey club.
Not because he'd done anything - but he's a decent guy and didn't want to wait until something happened before he broke up with my friend.
Well my friend was quite a mess for a couple of months, and submerged herself into her work and sport and her sister had just had a baby, so she became like a surrogate mum at times. Then she was set up with a friends friend.
They got along really well and she really liked this new guy.
Then she had to go away for the week-end on a hockey tournament (In Adelaide)- which her ex was going to aswell. She was not looking forward to it, but she loved her sport so she decided to concentrate on that and not her ex.
During the tournament they ended up playing games after each other and spent alot of time together. She discovered nothing ever happened with her ex and the other lady. And the other lady had also gone back to the other hockey club she'd been associated with originally.
They talked and both said they were not really living their lives to the fullest at the time.
She declined to tell him about her new boyfriend - they'd been dating casually for a few months.
Now she's come back from the tournament and doesn't want to see her boyfriend anymore
Her ex doesn't know if he wants to be back with her -but admits he misses her.
Now my friend is feeling like she should give him another go - due to their history.
But me being me and what I've gone through. I think she should date the new guy and keep her ex as a friend.
They are not falling over each other - just stepping on egg shells.
What do you think? Am I using my experience to jade my opinion to her?
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Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-02-22 18:51:31 | Rating: | Views: 77
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