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Let's Talk about Sex .. baby!
Okay, time for a conversation topic change ... no more suicides, no more leaving Thoughts.com, no more bitchin and hanging shit on each other ... no more cheating on partners ....... no more Tim Tams .. oh well I guess we can include chocolate here.

There were a few posts last week about SEX! So I wanted to kick off SEX WEEK on THOUGHTS.com.... I know it is Thursday and all, but who said the Cyber week had to start on a Monday (or Sunday for those that way inclined).

How about WE all blog about THE FIRST TIME we had SEX!

I was 16 years and one month, I'd been with my boyfriend for 6 months, he'd been pressuring me to "do it" with him for awhile, but I wanted to wait until I was 16!!

So when I turned 16 he thought I was ready - I was NOT ready. 
I was scared to death of "doing it". 
He was older, he was 19, and he was still a Virgin too. 
So the pressure he was getting from his mates was pretty full on. So he put that onto me.

We were away at a basketball tournament, where there was plenty of drinking, smoking (not by me) and no parents and lots of shenanigans going on.

We were sleeping (not really sleeping) in bunk beds!!!
Yes bunk beds and well things started to get hot and steamy, and he of course started pushing that little bit past where we'd gone before..... and you know we started and I told him to stop, I wasn't ready.

He said that's ok, and we stopped, but I sensed he was annoyed, so I let him start again, and we got a little bit further from where we'd got the first time, and "it" was almost happening and I said "STOP" again.  It was a bit like the MEATLOAF song - Paradise by the dashboard light ... I wanted to know it would mean we'd be together after the act ... not just for it!
This went off for a few more times - he got annoyed (fair enough) and in the end I felt so guilty I just let it happen.

It was a terrible introduction to sex for me.... after we'd "done it" he told me the mandatory "I love you" and turned over and fell asleep.  I felt terrible, I left the room and sat in a corner of another room and cried myself to sleep.

Needless to say we broke up a few weeks later ..... that was my first time! 
Happy to say it's got better since then!! *blush*
Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-04-24 09:29:47 | Rating: n/a | Views: 245


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Posted by
sean_barr
on 2008-04-24 10:25:26
 
My "first time" was about a month before my 18th birthday. She had been to prom with my best friend just a month before that. I remember "Down Boys" by Warrant was on the radio and the session lasted forever with neither one of us particularly enjoying it (if you get my drift.) She borrowed $500 from me a few weeks later -- actually I bought her a car from another friend and she was to pay me back -- got the car and, without saying so, dumped me. Poor thing has since been a stripper at all nude place, lost both of her kids and been strung out on heroin. Nice story, huh?
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-24 10:43:56
 
well, sort of can relate to the FIRST time not necessarily being a particularly Good One! Fortunately I guess Mother Natures keeps pushing us, cause if we rated it on our first times, maybe we'd never do it again! HAHA
 
 

Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-04-24 19:36:27
 
15 in the desert...ended up with jumping cactus barbs in my "lower" cheeks...no wonder I have no libido...stupid cactus.
 
 

Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-04-24 19:42:59
 
Congrats kiddo :) I just heard...Awesome!Awesome! Awesome...I'm thrilled for the both of you:)
 
 

Posted by
prelude2it
on 2008-04-24 23:13:14
 
Congratulations. I'm really happy for you. On to sex - maybe I will blog about it tomorrow :)
 
 

Posted by
ColoradoDreamin
on 2008-04-25 01:04:01
 
Just read the official announcement as well ... I've known for awhile as the poem entitled "You" gave it away. Figured it was his and your business so decided to keep what I thought I knew to myself. I'm happy for you both. Peace.
 
 

Posted by
EasyToSay
on 2008-04-25 01:51:57
 
Thanks my friends for all the congrats!!! .... just wondering why you picked a post about sex to "do it" in!!??
Just kidding around - you are all wonderful - and yes he makes me very happy.
 
 

Posted by
pitapie50
on 2008-04-25 06:40:34
 
I wondered that myself...sorry after I left you a comment,Email came to mind:( I had an idiot moment. I wrote about my first time inspired by you and gave you the credit. I went to edit it this morning and hit delete instead. I'm a little ticked off at myself. I gave you prompts and everything:)
 
 

Posted by
Ellie2008
on 2008-04-25 08:23:40
 
Sex week :-) well, it was with a boy in school who I didn't particularly like at my first party. I was 15 and didn't partake again until college. Yes, it was THAT bad! lol!

Congratulations :-) I'm so happy for you!
 
 

Posted by
Randomness
on 2008-04-25 14:27:01
 
I cant say it was bad in the least and I dont believe she can say so either ^_^. I was 16 and 1/2 and I had my license. I was driving my 95' Thunderbird and we were jamming the subs in the back. The song at the time was "boom" by P.O.D. (freaking awesome band, check'em out) We had just came back from the city and decided to take the backroads home. When we got within 10 miles of our final destination we pulled over to look at the lightning in the distance. It was beautiful, there was no thunder no rain, no wind, just beautiful flashes of light in the distance. I kissed her and put her up against the car and she made an advance with her hand and from there we had sex on top of my car on a gravel road in central Texas (i'll spare you the details ^_^). Both virgins but I actually think she wanted it more than i did lol which seems odd based on the stereotypes (sorry if misspelled) about guys XD. We were together until just before my 18th birthday, she moved to California and decided that a long distance relationship was not the way to go...she knew Id move there after graduation for her but still...But I am happy that the first time I had sex was on a beautiful night in a beautiful setting and it was for no other reason than each other.

Nice Post "EasyToSay" ^_^
 
 

Posted by
lastblastkl
on 2008-04-25 18:27:08
 
My first time was not good either. nor was my second....third....jeeeez....has it ever been good??? oh, yeah it has. :)
first time i was 15 and he was 19 and he was THE HOTTEST TICKET IN TOWN (if they only knew he was also the worst lay in town too). Not that i had anything to compare it to but give me a break. isn't it suposed to last longer than 5 min.? my parents went away and we were sitting in front of the fireplace and one thing led to another and after telling him no 50 times i finally gave in and it was sooooooo bad, i vowed to be a nun. needless to say i am not a nun and i still see him bc he ended up becoming my sons father. ps he never got any better!
k
 
 

Posted by
Nutshell
on 2008-04-25 22:48:35
 
Me 16, she 15 and we did it nonstop for about 6 or 7 months.....it was great. I broke up with her that summer and have no idea why.... we still talk on myspace occasionally... she's married with 3 and i'm engaged. love my fiance.
 
 


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