Yup I know what you mean Easy it is nice to have that special someone to come home to. One of these days. My wife would kill me for that remark lol.

Hey D, you will have your wife back soon enough.. yes and then she will kill you!! LOL :)

17 more days and I will be in Boston picking her up at the airport :) Got to go heading to Lunenburg today with my Father. Have a good evening Easy and I'll talk to you later

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Fantastic D! That is great.. oh and I have a magazine here that has a review and photographs of Nova Scotia .. I'll mail it to you. It also has a lot of Aussie places to visit! Ideas for you!!! :) speak soon xx

It is something how a person's mind and emotions always work opposite. When alone a person wants to be with someone and when you are with someone, you wish to h*ll they would leave you alone! :)

I am sorry you are cutting back on riding. Very understandable and very good that you have your priorities set right. I just know how very much you enjoy doing that!

Please have a good weekend. xxx

thanks Mr Bob You are right .. we are always looking for the other side!! :)

Take care my friend - similar thoughts run throgh my mind too - Puck x

You take care too Mr Puck xx I hope you are ok.

EZ, you really just need a ranch all to yourself, hahahaha! I know what you mean when you can do the things you love and then you feel all cramped up inside yourself. BAH! I hope you feel better! It's understandable, might as well let yourself feel what you feel now!

hey Cass, I would LOVE a RANCH all to myself, that would be more than magic! Tattslotto win is required.. xx

Yes, eventually time does heal your wounds, I've been a widow for 22 yrs with a daughter that is now 23 yrs old. I'm 43. It took me the longest time to deal with being alone, but you eventually get use to it, and I kinda like it. You get to know yourself all over again. It's funny you have a horse named Andy, I have a beautiful border collie, named Andy he looks simular to Lassie. He's the love of my life too. :) Animals are the best therapist!

Mischell, you are an inspiration and your words are so right! You do get used to it and most times I kinda like it too :) thank you for stopping by :)

You can call it your Independence Day also! There is no copyright on it. Have a party and celebrate.

Thanks Mike, I sort of do call it mine :) xxx

I was right about the fact that I thought you were going through some things that your keeping inside like I said in my first comment. This is only normal and never compare your problems as not being problems just because some peoples are in worse situations because pain is pain. It all hurts! In all honesty if I were in your shoes I would be feeling the same as you do and not having the means to do what you love does dampin things and make life harder on you.

I have been worried about you not dating because like I said I did not have kids and could come and go as I pleased to relieve my stress and you have a huge responsability and I do feel very bad for you at times. SOOO if you wanna stop this challenge do not worry about people thinking you gave up because i do not think any one would see it like that but I do think they would see it as that your only human and you do need to find some one to come home to. Hope my comment was not too forward....I just want to help you. xxx

Thanks Michelle, I'm good, it's all the challenges we need them or we get bored.!

Dating brings it's own form of challenges, I am happy to wait but sometimes yerr I'd like to be already through it and on the other side, but who knows the otherside may well be the same as this side :)

Always welcome your comments, you are a friend, friends comments are good advice!

I came back to explain what I meant by comparing pain to pain. We all do compare pain to pain to make ourselves feel better knowing that our lives are much better than some other people's but we can't say that our pain is not pain because others life situations are worse. Pain is all pain whether it be big or small. I know you know what I mean because you are smarter than me lol....I admit that. Hope you get to feeling better:)

Hey Michelle,
I am not smarter than you .. we are both street-wise and that is not comparable. We are from different places and that makes it all the more fun knowing you :) xxx

Kiddo its what we all strive for...that special person that "gets us". Even when we look like we've been drug through the mud. And when they have seen us at our worst.

Come to think of it....I'm sure Tim has wanted to burn his retinas out every morning. I even scare myself at first glance.

P.S. If you leave now....you should just make it for the fireworks tomorrow night:)

Thanks Pita, xxx I will come stay with you in the future you know that don't you!! I'm sure Tim does not want to burn his retinas!! lol xxxxx

I know your feelings ETS. Although I am not there completely on the dating front, the idea of sitting home alone even though all else is okay leaves one to imagine what it would be like to be with someone else. We must be programmed to believe that someone else will complete us. I don't mean as a person you need someone, but as a life partner we want someone. The X and I are heading for a divorce but we have to wait a full year to apply. Next March (the month of our anniversay) - we are such nostalgic humans.
Here for you ETS. Love Moxi.

Moxi, I am here for you too - so far away but never the less I am hoping one day we can all meet (the children and us). I agree sometimes I do feel like we are meant to be with someone, other times well ...