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 Is Life like a game?
Whilst driving home from dropping the children off I had a thought that is reoccuring to me lately, does life reflect the games we play? Or do the games we play reflect life?

Now go with me on this one, or should I say stay with me on this one, just a little while.

As I've shared lately I've been engrossed in the game of "Bejeweled" a silly game with colored jewels in a grid.  You have to move certain gems to get 3 in a row, 4 in a row or better still 5 in a row.  When you line up your gems they smash and disappear giving you points.  When you get 4 in a row you get a power gem which blows up a few extra gems.  When you get 5 in a row you get a Hyper gem which well gives you the power to blow up all of one color on the screen.  That is the gist of the game, really it's a non violent way of blowing up things!  Sure you might prefer a game of "Doom" or another violent sort of game where blood gushes, but this is not that.

Anyway sometimes as you move the gems to match 3 in a row you realise that if you'd made a different move you could've got 4 in a row, increasing your score, changing the sequence of the grid. 

Sometimes I think that is what happens in life - we make a choice and too late we realise that we missed a bigger opportunity or a better path.  But that option has gone forever - you missed out on something great.

Sometimes you choose to move the blue gem only to find that the yellow gem would've been the better move. 

Sometimes we take a path that we know isn't the best one, but we hope we can recoup the error we made... only to find out that the opportunity you had in front of you was a once off.

The only way to do better is to start again.

Start again with a new game, a new path, a new approach.

I don't know, maybe I think too much, maybe I'm a little crazy, but life goes for more than 1 minute segments.  So I guess I need to slow down and smell the roses a lot more.  I need to slow down and look around.  I'm now thinking I'm wrong, in that life isn't totally like a game, in life we get many chances to change our path, sometimes we need to start again, sometimes we need to keep trying to re-find that opportunity.  I've played a lot of bejeweled games over the past few weeks and well I've finally grown sick of it.  But life is here to live I'm not sick of it. I'll still look for the hyper gem occassionally, but in the mean time I'm soaking up the 3's and 4's.

But if life was a game I'd like to be stuck in Animal Crossing  ... minus the hidden bee-hives in the trees.


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    Posted by EasyToSay on 2009-07-04 07:39:24 | Rating: | Views: 93
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Life isn't a game but can be refered to as such because of the choices we make or are forced to make. It's called strategy and we can all relate to games in this way. Whatever choice we make in life or a game affects the outcome.

It's just that one outcome can affect us with greater consequnces than one made within rules of a console or PC.
Oh, there'll aways be behives in tree no matter whee you are that's just life.
Posted by  scythe  on 2009-07-04 07:47:28 
  
Hey Scythe,
You are right, although I think some people think life is more of a game than others and that is why they play with our emotions.

Wise words, thank you for sharing them :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 08:07:35 
  
People, if you let them, will play with our emotions and further see things as a game becuase apart from ebing dumb asses they haven't quite grown up and stepped into what I cal the real world.
Posted by  scythe  on 2009-07-04 08:11:34 
  
I agree totally, a lot of them have no perspective OR they simply put their own selfish desires over the feelings of others. Of course there are those who will never grow up.. but each to their own I suppose, another choice we get to make.
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 08:13:31 
  
E2S,

I am sorry to say, the same is even true of playing Twister naked [maybe not so much].

Maybe we need to try some new games as we get older, like checkers!

Can ya play checkers naked - and would it be as much fun?

- Thom

Posted by  Hugh_Pizmehoff  on 2009-07-04 08:12:55 
  
hmmm checkers naked? Well if you are playing at a table then the lady would be at a great disadvantage since you'd hold all your cards err hum checkers below the table, but then again, maybe that would be a great advantage that the distractions would be above the table... but who'd be jumping who???? lol
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 08:57:29 
  
I loved your analogy. Very appropriate. Lief IS like a game except that you can never really win it, it always catches you in the end.

BTW - I LOVE Doom though I like Duke Nukem even more.
Posted by  Tony51203  on 2009-07-04 09:50:58 
  
Ahhh Duke Nukem, My dad used to play that!! Wow! :) blast from the past, pardon the pun! :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 09:52:48 
  
life is a game! well, in our toy store shelves it is anyhow...
but in reality, sometimes I feel it is a game, and others more like a story unfolding before our eyes.
All we can do is learn from it...
Posted by  Azalia  on 2009-07-04 12:11:52 
  
Lol.. yes Az sometimes it really does feel that way, and you are very wise, learn from it and move onto the next level :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 18:03:48 
  
Really stop playing now - pray to your higher power and seek a sponser - Love Puck
Posted by  puck  on 2009-07-04 12:19:38 
  
Hey Puck, I think I've beaten the bejeweled gods! But only because they've changed the version of the game. I don't like the new version and you cant get into the original version. Problem solved!!! :) I'm a happy person :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 18:04:47 
  
I don't think its a game, which would imply winning and losing. Its an adventure that once you really realize just how little you actually need in life to be successful or happy then you can enjoy your participation in it. Let's be honest how much land do you need to stand up straight on, or cars or homes, or possessions.
Posted by  JimK  on 2009-07-04 14:48:46 
  
Hi JimK,
Thank you for visiting, much appreciated. I agree life is not about winning or losing. And to be honest not all games are about that either.

I was being a little tongue in cheek whilst writing this .. Have a great week-end.
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-04 18:05:51 
  
Thank you, I read several of your other posts and enjoyed them. You put a lot of thought into them and seem to being having fun doing it.
Posted by  JimK  on 2009-07-04 18:20:20 
  
JimK - thank you, yes I do have fun, and all I do is think! lol.. Well I'm sure you know what i mean on that one :) Nice to meet you by the way :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-05 17:07:00 
  
Life may not be a game but I always compare it to the game of Chess. (I'm deeply involved in running official chess tournaments). Come to think of it, many women should actually like comparing it with life... after all, pawns grow up to be anything they want (children) when they get to the 8th rank and the object is in legally killing the king, which a lot of time the queen does. Think about it. hehehe ;)

(HUGS)
Posted by  MrBob  on 2009-07-05 09:23:02 
  
MrBob, LOL!! I don't know chess but my children do and keep trying to teach me, but by the second explanation of the moves allowed by a pawn and a rook and a bishop I'm already glazing over! Maybe I'll take a little time with them to learn it .. could be fun. Especially now you've pointed out a few things! ;)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-07-05 17:08:19 
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