Oh wow, apparently some rude person upset you. I'm sorry. I think you are an awesome person(even though I don't know you) What I read in your blogs and the nice comments you have left me lead me to believe I'm correct in saying so. Don't let anyone get to you if indeed that happened, which it must have. It is SO obvious you love your children and that they are your priority. I hope I myself didn't say anything offensive to you by saying I thought it was funny what you said about the bikini. It was!:) You are great, and I'm glad to have "met" you. Take care. Lotsa hugs:)

The short time I've known you on Thoughts,I've only seen a single mom that is a great juggler of her kids and her time,and still post. How could anyone read anything different in your posts? Your friends here know and respect that,especially with a good dose of humor that you add.Judge the majority! I for one,wait with anticipation for the next post.

Darlin, I could say a million things right now, but I'll save them for the curb. ;) I am sorry to hear someone got under your skin though. If it makes ya feel any better, I won't refer to ya as 'hot' anymore. Ok?.. peaches? hehe :D

Hey Snoops, thanks my friend, NOOOOOO you could never offend me. It's those who waltz in and read into my thoughts. Hugs to you, I love knowing you too.

CabinFever - thank you too for saying so. I do juggle, but that is what all mums do. It add variety to life. I just want to share some of my other experiences ... on the dating side, but have copped a bit of flack lately, which I've let lie, but every now and again I want to say out loud - You are wrong ... oh not to you my friend :) lol

JD - thanks hon, you can say what you want ;) I know where you are coming from, and as a good friend I appreciate it :) Plus you don't think I'm conceited or egotistic, you know me a lot better than that.. :)
They didn't get under my skin, well I guess they did a little I just think sometimes it needs to be said.

You know it is just like some "A" hole to toally screw up someones peace of mind... You know what E2S... You know who your friends are... Never, never let another make you feel less than the great person that you are... We all love you, keep doing what you do and don't worry about the Tards who would say stuff out of sheer ingnorance....

*HUGZ*

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E - Hey my lovely friend :) Thank you couldn't say it better myself. I know I should ignore, but you know sometimes I want to bite back :)

Then Stinkin bite their heads off... Tell me who it was and I will bite too!

I absolutly hate rude, mean, ignorant people... We have a harde enough route in life with out some jack ass poking us in the eye...

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I'm in the dark as to whom you are referring to or what was said or where it was said, but if you know it not to be true then ignoring poison words is often the best way of dealing with matters. A teenagers few Francs worth.

E - good luck to them, they know who they are .. I don't want to turn it into a big thing, ... hmmm guess I have by blogging it! lol

Blossom - Your teenage Francs are very worthwhile, and a good reminder - Ignore them and they will go away. Thanks for stopping by :)

Very well stated..........Your strong writings, strong affection for your little ones, will overcome the smallness of wrongful comments.

Sometimes, don't you just want to reach out and slap somebody? I know, I do. You are who you are and as long as you love yourself, who gives what others think. You're a great person babe and who ever is trying to tell you to do things differently needs to go to school so they can learn when help is being asked of them, not for their out right opinion on how to live life. Some people...take care anyhow.

K, don't you dare let these small people get to you! I am 100% in agreement that no one really knows us on this site intimately enough to make ANY judgement! You know who you are and sod the rest of the small minded people! While I might have given up on internet dating, it was interesting and must say, fun sometimes as it gets lonely being a single Mom after divorce. Ignore these ignorant emails and comments and keep writing for YOU. XXX

Good post. It's a shame you felt the need to post it, but good post all the same. And I understand where you are coming from. Sometimes I wonder if people think I am conceited if I mention in a post that a third party commented on my looks. I have a fragile ego and comments like that make me feel better. Perhaps I should keep them to myself but writing them down reminds me that I should not be so hard on myself. For a third time - Nice post, K.

E2S. Everyone here is correct. Ignore the a$$hole(s). Their comments are wrong and stupid. The people that matter know you are a good Mum and we also know how smart you are (especially me since I still will have to get with D again to load up some kind of face on me). Your blogs always show how you put your children first unlike that err I'll just say foty. People who read 1 comment or 1 blog and think they know you are full of crap. So bottom line...WE know you are smart, helpful, like doing RAOK, write a lot better than I can, Always putting your kids first and you are a beautiful person inside and out. Now I will get off my soapbox. BTW where are these people I will put the whole lot of soap into their...mouths for telling such lies. Have a Great New Year!

I can relate all too well. Keep your chin and writing up! You are beautiful inside and out.

darlin, have you thought about the fact that those who sit in judgement have such pathetic lives that our lives become their focus? and usually if you ask these butt wipes if they have children themselves, it is "um ... err ... well, no." screw them. your children are seeing you live and love and laugh. that is what healthy people do! if i was halfway handsome, i'd fly halfway around the world to take you to dinner! don't listen to the negative punks. listen to us, the ones who love you. we're smarter anyway.

Funny Kel, a certain comment seems to be missing from this one?

Love ya xoxo :)

No matter what you say, "I think you're hot" and coupled with the "Ultimate Mummy" personality only makes you hotter, and we wont even get into that cute accent ...
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Great piece of writing [that makes you "literally hot?" now]. I am sorry that you felt the need to write this blog, but I am sure you feel better; but writing stuff like this with such eloquence and grace, only makes you more appealing, sincere ... and "hot as noodles!" ...... LOL

You are such a sweetheart; you're ceretainly not superfificial (as evidenced by this blog), or concieted [or whatever else the pin-head said].

It looks like you called out the "Thoughts Special Forces" to put a contract hit on the idiot ..... LOL .... I know you have too much class for that .... but I don't!

It is amazing how many idiots can fit on one planet (or in one comment), isn't it?

We love ya darlin .... *** HUGZ ***

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

You go girl.

I thought all the turkies were caught and eaten a few days ago. Apparently we missed one! Don't let the whiners get ya down, girl! You write whatever you like. You could probably tell us all to sod off and we'd still love ya! :)

One thing I know for sure easy is that you are a wonderful mom, you are normal in wanting to go and and have some fun. You deserve a break. You are the type girl who has a lot of common since, when you drink you do make sure that you have a safe way home and you never harm no one.

As a matter of fact you are more than likely too good to people sometimes, and one to put yourself on the backburner just so you can help everyone else especially your kids.

People make judjments way to fast, In a few bligs you have mentioned that a few guys think your hot. SO WHAT, That was coming from their mouth, not yours, Your not bragging, Your just telling the truth. It is exciting when men think we are beautiful because it makes us feel good. Your just upfront and honest, you tell us things like we are your best friend and that is what I love about your personality. I know you will never change and yes sometimes we must put some people in line and tell them the truth about ourselves because sometimes people try to find the bad in a person, when there is really nothing abnormal about that person.

Most of us know you a lot in some ways and you could'nt know someone who is much more responsable than you. You are a kind and caring person about everything, especially your kids. LOve your honesty, Take care

Oh crap! who is it this time? Lol.