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Happy F**king Wedding Anniversary to ME!

Today 8th March 2008 is my 11th wedding anniversary... or it would have been if the man I married, the man I trusted didn't turn into a cheating, lying, weak, spineless, gutless a-hole! (sorry got carried away!)

Okay that said, I didn't even realise today was THE Day until five minutes ago, when I was reading a friends blog. I was thinking how he'd done four blogs today after not having done a blog for about two weeks.

Then the date hit me like seagull poop from the sky, right in the eye ...
you know no pain but slight feeling of discomfort - today 11 years ago I got happily married and was blissfully unaware of the true identity of my husband.

Today I am older, wiser, and I was going to say bitter - but I'm not bitter - he's the one that has given up the world.
Instead I'll say Older, Wiser and Lucky to be Free to be Me!

Subconsciously I must have known because I replaced two of our wedding photo's with a painting Master 4 did at kinder, and the other I replaced with photo's I'd got enlarged of the kids....

Wonder if he'll call me and wish me a good day - I doubt it, he's already planning his next wedding date (plus it's 6:30pm).
February 2009 I'm told is the month for his next venture - hope it's an easy date for him to remember, although I think APRIL 1st would be a perfect date for his second wedding to be held.

And another trivial point - my birthday is on the 11th of the 11th.
and my first marriage went for 11 years!

Oh well I guess I'm the only one who remembered so I'll say once more for the LAST TIME (after all I'm sure I won't be married still this time next year)
" Happy Fucking Wedding Anniversary to Me!"

Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-03-08 02:25:56 | Rating:

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		Great post. ..."blissfully unaware" is how it felt for some of us on our wedding day! I sometimes wonder if I should have left him before the kids came along and the answer is yes, BUT wouldn't have my precious children today and that would have been such a tragedy! All meant to be... I would say that to remember my wedding anniversary is bittersweet these days. There isn't anger, there isn't love, there is nostalgia. We had so much fun when the kids were growing up. He was a pretty good Dad, but a shitty husband. We divorced in May and he remarried in May, same year. Good for him and good for me. Hoping that next year, you won't even notice the date, but it will catch you unaware while dating a great guy! Peace XXX
Posted by Ellie2008 on 2008-03-08 05:58:29


		Sorry kiddo,when it creeps up it really creeps up.I look at my anniversary as my "independence" day.This July would of made it 28 years.Yikes,Id rather eat dirt!My best to you :)
Posted by pitapie50 on 2008-03-08 08:40:21


		I think it's great that you almost completely forgot about it. It shows your life is heading in the right direction.
Posted by HungryHeart on 2008-03-09 00:41:45


		HH - you are so right.... and that didn't escape me yesterday. I'm sure there are a few more pikes and ditches for me to go through but yes you are so right... thank you.
Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-03-09 00:47:25


		PP - Great way to look at it - although I think my divorce day will be my true independance day. Eating dirt right with you! :)
Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-03-09 00:49:29


		happy day to you! mine goes by and i don't want to remember it! ooohhhh! makes me shudder just to think about it coming up. we should be saying "happy fredom to be you day"! huh?
Posted by lastblastkl on 2008-03-09 16:41:45