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Earlier this week I had an awful feeling that something was up - I told myself that I was crazy. I blogged it and was reassured that I was being paranoid.
Well today I found out that my Ex-husband - whom I'm still technically married to, got engaged (to JS - the girl he cheated on me with) around the time I felt this. But he hasn't even told me! Nor has he told our Children
** I even asked him on Tuesday night if there was any SURPRISES he was going to throw my way ... to which he LIED "NO, of course not." **
I found out because a friend saw it on his Facebook account.
He's announced it to the world in Cyber space - but doesn't even have the decency to tell us. It makes me sick to the stomach! Even though I don't want him back it still makes me feel just awful.
I texted him asking him if he was engaged to her? He hasn't responded.
His mother called me about "her" upcoming wedding.
I asked her to tell me whether they were engaged. She said it wasn't her place to tell me - but yes it was true and maybe he hadn't told me yet - because he didn't want to hurt me any further than he has in the past 10 months!!!!!!! Hardly the case I'd say if you had your eyes open wide!
But he couldn't hold back from putting it on his facebook.
(which was incidentally how I found out he was truly cheating on me - she'd put photo's of them hugging - before he left!!!)
He couldn't wait until April when he could file for divorce?
He couldn't wait until our financial settlement has concluded in a month or so?
He doesn't even care that his daughter has NEVER met her, and his son has only done so ONCE????
What kind of a man did I marry?
What kind of a father did I pick for my children?
How could I have been so wrong?
I guess there is only ONE SURPRISE left for me to experience - that they are having a baby - which could be the reason why they are rushing their engagement?
What a FOTY... what a really crappy ex-husband.
I think I'll look into those proctologist exams that someone suggested you need to do when you have an ex-husband!
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Posted by EasyToSay on 2008-02-15 19:46:12 | Rating: | Views: 182
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