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Posted in Bully gets Blu TACKED! on 2008-04-30 23:05:32
Hollis - you have a 7 year old boy ... wow - I may need to speak to you to get some tips on Master 5 !! Yes they are all a bit rough, better than being too timid :)

Posted in Bully gets Blu TACKED! on 2008-04-30 23:04:26
Mamacita - Karate is good - it teaches discipline & self defence, it also teaches diversion tactics before engaging in "combat" so to speak. Gives the kids a bit of confidence too :) Let me know if you do.

Posted in Bully gets Blu TACKED! on 2008-04-30 23:03:15
Mer - Okay, I've put some photos up !!! Restricted them to FRIENDS & ME ONLY because I am very wary of the internet etc. :)

Posted in IDK, Something for internet relationships? on 2008-04-30 22:58:26
Tony, you write so well my friend... very nice :)

Posted in Friends & Their Dilemmas on 2008-04-30 11:44:03
Oh I can relate to your friend... I knew I had to have a transition man ... and I went on many "coffee" dates to locate him ... and you know I did the same thing, I wouldn't say Oh he was nice he did/said/had that .. I'd find faults - oh he's too confident, oh he tells me I'm great, oh he had a "pink" polo shirt on!! It's only now in the past month or two that I've felt ready to see the positives in a man, instead of instantly looking for the negatives. It did help that my transition man (although dumped me for his ex-girlfriend) was a caring considerate person, not a selfish one like my ex.! She'll come around in good time, you are being a great friend, just by listening.

Posted in For those who are wondering... on 2008-04-30 11:32:01
Hey S-M! I hear you with the shaving ... that's why I get the waxing done instead now! Go for it .. do it!! :) Also the Hernia thing .. went through that with FOTY .. he was a nightmare, if only I'd known then what I know now!!! Arghhh.. lets not go there! :) Have a great rest of the week.

Posted in Bully gets Blu TACKED! on 2008-04-30 11:14:30
Luci, absolutely ... and Miss 8 is doing Karate now too ..... for discipline ... and self defence!

Posted in Ghetto Girl on 2008-04-30 09:46:51
hope your baby girl has a great day, and I know what you mean about her being too kind for her own good .. that's my Miss 8. She's now in Grade 3 and is gradually toughening up to the insensitive types ... I think I feel a blog coming on ... Thanks for sharing.. nice to read your post :)

Posted in lap it up, my lane theory on 2008-04-30 07:02:43
Excellent post and you are so right, many many different styles and beliefs ... but we all share the same pool throughout out our swim of life.... better to be open to the styles than limiting yourself to one lane!

Posted in Houses that make you drool on 2008-04-30 06:58:57
I like it when a home has something different about it - something quirky. I loved the house out of the TV Series CHARMED... it had an attic and a cellar and it was full of magic!

Posted in Funerals inspire me to be a better person on 2008-04-30 06:56:26
I agree, it's amazing how much you learn about a person at their funeral. And I often wonder what they'll say at mine, but not yet, I like you have so much more to achieve ... my eulogy is going to be huge!! :)

Posted in Forgiveness on 2008-04-30 06:54:25
Hello my friend, stopped by to see what wonder you were sharing today... and you didn't fail to amaze me ... lovely just really nice. Thank you for sharing

Posted in Austrian Hellhole on 2008-04-30 04:41:20
Oh I know, I read the newspaper articles with a sick horror in my mind! That poor girl and those poor children..

Posted in The Heartache of Todays Thoughts on 2008-04-30 04:38:22
Oh Elaine, I feel for you, I was in your position 12 months ago, and your first blog in here about it, shows you have amazing strength and character. Your husband obviously did not recognise that. I wish you all the best sweetie ... drop by and say Hi sometimes ..... hugz

Posted in wickedly awesome day! on 2008-04-30 02:17:44
I always have a wickedly awesome time cleaning the cat tray, except the (devil) cat always ruins the moment by immediately pooping or peeing in it ... I guess he doesn't like wickedly clean toilets!!!!!! Had a wickedly awesome day too .... thats to all you guys!!! :)

Posted in this is for easytosay on 2008-04-30 00:22:12
Tony, you are a friend among great friends, this poem brought a tear to my eye, you caught it so well. Thank you so much, I really appreciate my wonderful friends in here - I don't know how I would deal with all he hands out if I wasn't for beautiful people like you. You all serioulsy give me strength and wisdom to go on with dignity & pride. Thank you so much :)

Posted in My readers on 2008-04-29 18:15:44
Mer - I write for me first and foremost, but I too admit that I enjoy comments of friends and "strangers". Mind you often strangers give me a good dose of "WTF"!! I sometimes write to share information .. eg. TIM TAMS. But mostly I write what I'm feeling at the time, and also because I don't want to go on about what a SHIT FOTY is to my friends - cause My little munchkins hear me saying those things, but in here it is private. At the risk of making this comment longer than your blog .... I have a few REAL life people read my blogs, and I love hearing their feedback, but there are alot of Real Life people I'd prefer not to read me. I just know I feel a real warmth and uplifting feeling when my friends in here, and I mean my true friends in here comment on my thoughts. And I genuinley think alot of my friends in here are real friends, and if I lived in USA (oh how I wish that were true) I would definitely cross the blogging line and met up with you all for coffee, beer, wine, champagne .. or whatever is appropriate. I also very much welcome newbies (hey BE) to make comments, and I try not to be offended..... I say WRITE ON......

Posted in Our Children Are Watching... on 2008-04-29 07:37:01
OH yes they are!!! and they are listening and they are observing. They see so much more than we even realise. They might be children and they might appear young, but they are sooo smart! Great Post!

Posted in Going for the record on 2008-04-29 04:05:48
okay, so what do we do?? wanna go together ... see if we can get a two for one deal?? Why don't doctors & dentists do that??

Posted in Always Behind the TV Screen, Always on the Phone on 2008-04-29 04:04:46
Hey brainstormer, just wanted to let you know I read your post. I offer NO advice, No stories .. just wanted to let you know I've read this :) and wanted to say HI!

Posted in What I wouldn't Give !?! on 2008-04-29 03:04:26
and *cough*, *cough* I know from experience that it doesn't matter how much you give of yourself - it wont necessarily mean you will have it returned or live happily ever after. It's all about searching for that balance, or sometimes NOT searching just having fun and it may well fall into your lap! :) Enjoy yourself Long ... enjoy it everyday.....

Posted in In The Dusty Draw on 2008-04-29 03:00:39
oh okay Long, it was at work ... hmmm good idea to put it in a desk drawer somewhere ... probably should've put it in your wallet and taken it home ... isn't hidesight a wonderful thing! :)

Posted in Tuesday ... loop hole?? on 2008-04-29 00:15:59
:) Tony you make me smile .. you know that!!!! thanks for pointing out the irony in my post:)

Posted in There will be no more Tiffanie posts on 2008-04-28 23:42:37
Tony ... I'm with you, I like you writing style more than I like the topic, meaning yes I will continue to read your blogs :) ... so WRITE ON and LIVE IT UP!! :)

Posted in What Would Your Super-Power Be? on 2008-04-28 23:38:41
Awwwww that is so nice of you....I grant you those powers now...*poof*... Oh I'm still here!! damn :) We'll we can keep working on it. Good has to overthrow evil eventually.

Posted in Early afternoon rant on 2008-04-28 16:42:29
hey this was lovely and well written. i think I've said it before, take it as a lesson and make your life richer for the ... ehh... umm experience. Your heart will be stronger, your mind wiser. You write so well!

Posted in Remember When on 2008-04-28 16:29:26
* I remember going to McDonalds and saying "Two all beef patties, special sauce, lettuce cheese and a pickle on a sesameseed bun" within 20 seconds(?) just to win a world series Cricket Poster. * I remember when KFC was called Kentucky Fried Chicken * I remember when they had lollies called FAGS ... not FADS * I remember watching Hey Hey It's Saturday, I Dream of Jeanie, Bewitched and Charlie's Angels. * I remember turning 11 on the 11 of the 11th and playing basketball wearing the number 11 top, and trying to score 11 points .... i scored 10 :)! * I remember buying hot (music) singles for 99c in vinyl! ahhh the good old days.

Posted in New Toy on 2008-04-28 16:14:03
That looks great, really, wow good luck growing your tomatoes & peppers. Keep us up to date on the progress! :)

Posted in our 2 puppies are poodles of joy on 2008-04-28 16:07:17
Yaaayyy a Puppy story!! I've been wondering how your little ones have been since the chocolate story awhile ago. You are so right about dogs, they are loyal and lets be clear here they are our people's friend. :)

Posted in Yesterday's Meltdown on 2008-04-28 11:54:38
Why do guys do that ?? Honestly!? FOTY used to do that .. he'd leave two piles of clothes on the floor, not in the basket! one was dirty, one was for not quite dirty and okay to wear again!! Oh and yerr he knocked me back a coupla times and I just accepted it. But if I said NO! WELL that was a different story. You need to do what you want to do, I wont tell you what to do ... cause once you are ready you will .... OH is that such a girls answer!! :) Have a great week my friend.

Posted in MONDAY ... fun-day on 2008-04-28 11:25:51
:) smiling ... smiling :) I am .. and it's 1:25am in the fucking morning!!! HAHA and I am smiling because you guys are all ACE!!! I wanna come over there where the smiles are everywhere :) :) :) :)

Posted in MONDAY ... fun-day on 2008-04-28 11:20:54
Ahhhhh that is so funny .. you have definitely made me smile and laugh .. mmmmm .... and given me an idea ... just kidding .. thank you!

Posted in Finding Balance on 2008-04-28 11:18:52
Hey I'm with you .. no place for cheaters or liars in my mind .... :) You are doing great!

Posted in Costa Rica - Pura Vida! on 2008-04-28 11:16:43
MERRRRRRIIIIIIIII ..... you're back ... :) How are you!? postcard in the mail I assume? Sounds like a great vacation! Sounds like you've come back to work for a rest! Glad you are back :)

Posted in MONDAY ... fun-day on 2008-04-28 11:11:41
Ah pita - you make me smile .. :) thank you my good friend

Posted in Had enough of the idiots on 2008-04-28 11:06:07
Mmmm - you know what you should SING his praises - tell her you love him and he's perfect .. that's how my mum used to turn me against some of my boyfriends!!! LOL

Posted in today, in the news... a Letterman monologue on 2008-04-28 10:47:26
haha - great post - I recall hearing the Lindsay Lohan news on our radio here this morning ... in Oz!

Posted in instead of writing, I spent my time reading on 2008-04-28 03:55:21
what a great post - enjoyed it. Loved your airport analogy. I am also interested to know what your novel is about that you are currently writing/thinking about writing ... and lastly what's the name of the movie??

Posted in i feel ok, just need to get a move on on 2008-04-27 16:50:26
Hey, I wish you the best. I've been where you are now. Give yourself time, don't rush it, go do somethings that you really enjoy :)

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 16:21:31
Nutshell - keep your posts coming .. they are funny ... even if you do ditch Thoughts for porn!!!!!! LOL

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 16:20:36
LastB (Kazza!) - Nope I'm not leaving, I'm feeling the love!! :)

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 16:19:37
Hey Ellie, maybe we can convince once of the gents on here to rent us a Limo for the evening!!! :)

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 16:18:35
Auntie E - Hope you can achieve alot and I cant wait for your book..

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 16:17:58
TonyRay - YES!!! Bring Back Moomanda!!!

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 16:17:29
YAY - Meredith is back!! I guess the postcard is still in transit? :)

Posted in HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!! on 2008-04-27 16:02:54
YIPEEEEEEE - Candles, Cake, Birthday Wishes .... a new attitude, a bright sunny morning ... the whole wide world is YOURS. BEST WISHES

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 07:28:00
Brainstormer .. did you actually read from the top?? or you still going blind *LOL* I'm NOT leaving ... or are you just not stopping by anymore?? BTW - loved your little story .. you tree killer!!!! :)

Posted in hustler.com, playboy.com on 2008-04-26 23:49:08
Hey wanted to let you know I read to the end ... you forgot to ask!!! :) Cake is better than ice-cream (cause they can be low fat!!!! :) Lobster is healthier than Pizza - but give me PIZZA anyday Lasagna definitely over Prime Rib Lamb Chops nicer than Pork Chops Hmmmmm Thoughts over a Porn Site .... Give me Thoughts.com anyday ! HAHAHAHA

Posted in Where do I go from Here? on 2008-04-26 22:58:27
Hey, you can't eat an elephant in one sitting ... small bites at a time... work out what you want to achieve and then make small goals that will head you that way.... baby steps my friend, baby steps.

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-26 18:23:12
Prelude2it - thanks for stopping by :) you did?? Where is it .... let me at them!! :O I believe if you can't say anything NICE then don't say ANYTHING at ALL! Oh and maybe one day when I come over there we will tear up the town!!

Posted in High School Hell on 2008-04-26 18:04:58
Hi there, I read your post and could hear a very intelligent lady. In High School here in Australia my friends ostracized me in year 9. They wouldn't talk to me for 3 months - I know nothing on what you've experienced. But I held my head high and didn't let them see how much they hurt me! I even died my hair because they teased me for having Red Hair. In the end they asked me to be their friends again - and I accepted - but I looked at them differently. Friends don't do this to friends. The next 3 years of High School were purely an education for me as I sought people outside school to spend my time with. I am now much older & wiser and have some very good friends - I had trust issues for a long time. So hold your head up high, search for things that make you happy.... and never let those people who are so shallow and don't bother to get to know you beat you. You can do anything you want if you put your mind to it ... I guess you just need to find out what you want. (Hey by the way I'm still looking for what I truly want to be when I grow up!! :) I'll check back in with you to read your posts .... Nice to come across you!

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-26 11:59:57
Blue - you know what I agree .. sometimes I almost feel like I have to ask permission to take a leave of absence from my normal posts - so I can say the bizarre things that sometimes pop into my head. But in the end they are just thoughts, so I say GO FOR IT. Okay ..here I go - I hope JS falls off the pole that she dances on and FOTY's penise shrinks to the size of his brain .. if that's possible!!! LOL There you go... and Oh if you want to write about drinking bleach and disappearing off the face of the earth well I say do it - just make sure you put a footnote on it letting all know you are having a "moment"! :)

Posted in Somebody Said.............. on 2008-04-26 11:36:41
Hollis - what a beautiful post - and so true ... thanks for sharing :)

Posted in Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-26 10:48:55
Bootlady - HAHA, sorry it's thoughts, it seems to play font games with me.

Posted in Bottom Of The Ninth on 2008-04-26 06:33:38
Oh Templar, oh no .... I'm sorry :) there is always next season???....

Posted in In The Dusty Draw on 2008-04-26 05:27:12
Very nice .. and you discarded it .. temporarily??

Posted in Figured out meaning of life......NO bullshit!! on 2008-04-26 03:48:12
Hey Nutshell, I hear you - be your best - never sell yourself short by half hearted effort. If you are doing something you enjoy then you can usually do your best and have fun while you are... hmmm I still dont know what I want to be when I grow up! :)

Posted in Notting hill on 2008-04-26 03:34:43
I LOVE that movie .. by the way his name in the movie is William Thacker not Tracker... cheers :)

Posted in Toast to no worries :) on 2008-04-26 00:37:28
when you wake up ... please read this !!! Guten Morgan Pita! I did German in school for a year

Posted in Up to Today's Date on 2008-04-25 17:57:18
wow ... thank you for sharing, your story was very captivating, and I enjoyed reading it - hope you don't mind :)

Posted in still asleep on 2008-04-25 08:58:43
Ahhh - it's nice to be that organised. My Friday is almost over and it was a really nice day .. hope yours is the same

Posted in Congrats EasyToSay and Bullseye on 2008-04-25 08:44:46
PP - can I adopt you ?? You are like the Aunt I never had, or the older sister I always wanted. (I know, enough with the "older" right!) I consider you a true friend, I'm glad to have met you ... oh and a psychic (heavily medicated)neighbour .. mmm that could come in handy ... what were those numbers again?? Thanks PP you're the best....

Posted in All things nice on 2008-04-25 08:24:47
Cute picture ..... sorry I have to add ..... Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens Brown paper packages tied up with strings These are a few of my favorite things .... Girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes Snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes Silver white winters that melt into springs These are a few of my favorite things LOVE that movie - you reminded me of it :)

Posted in It Doesn't Get Any Better on 2008-04-25 06:39:10
Totally agree .. family & home is where your heart should always be FIRST and FOREMOST. What a lovely post .. thank you

Posted in Sunday Morning Sex on 2008-04-25 06:18:58
haha thats good! :)

Posted in we only have a short time, start dancing on 2008-04-25 06:17:39
Ahhh to dance and have fun ... what a lovely idea. Thanks for suggesting it.

Posted in I Vow & No More on 2008-04-25 04:56:48
Hello my friend, what a lovely post. You have such a way with words. It's so nice to hear it. HEY and YOU HAVE A HAPPY BIRTHDAY on SUNDAY 27th APRIL! ... look forward to reading about your celebration. *********************************

Posted in This Time Last Year on 2008-04-25 04:34:04
Angel thank you for your kind words, .... Don't feel like your challenges are insignificant. We all face different challenges and they are no less important than anothers. But it is up to us to get over them, I used to get upset over the smallest things like a throw away comment from a friend - but now I put things into perspective. Plus there is always another person facing a BIGGER challenge than I'm dealing with in my life. Love you too Angel .... and love that punch in the face for him !! :) LOL

Posted in SPOUSE WANTS ME BACK...... on 2008-04-25 02:04:00
Hey I think that everyday - why is HIS life so good, he's engaged, he LIVES with his fiancee, he's got a great salary and child maintenance only dents his wallet. Me on the other hand, I have the total responsibility of our 2 kids, we have had to cut so much out of our lives ... and to top it off I have to pay him OUT an obscene amount!! Where's the justice?? But when we open ourselves up to possibilities and options things do change. You can do this ... not only that but YOU ARE DOING THIS ... each day it will be a little easier, each night a little less scary ... because you HAVE got friends, YOU are an intelligent woman and THE WORLD really can be yours all you have to do is believe again. Luv You K. Hugz from me over the ocean

Posted in Let's Talk about Sex .. baby! on 2008-04-25 01:51:57
Thanks my friends for all the congrats!!! .... just wondering why you picked a post about sex to "do it" in!!?? Just kidding around - you are all wonderful - and yes he makes me very happy.

Posted in Killer Cramps on 2008-04-25 01:50:45
Pita - thanks I will ... although according to Brainstormer I just have to stop writing about sex then I won't get cramps in my calves!! ....LMAO

Posted in Killer Cramps on 2008-04-25 01:49:48
Brainstormer - You crack me up!! Are you serious?? You think talking about it gives you cramps .... What is it that you guys go blind from?? ... can you read this?? HAHA Yes my friend (?) I have kids and I'm proud of the fact :)... why??

Posted in I HATE Tiger Woods on 2008-04-24 12:59:14
let me get this right .. you hate a person because they are making money doing something he does well?? Sorry have I missed the point?

Posted in The blog here on 2008-04-24 10:47:55
Look under the menu system above - "Make a Post" that takes you to do a blog.... hope that helps

Posted in Let's Talk about Sex .. baby! on 2008-04-24 10:43:56
well, sort of can relate to the FIRST time not necessarily being a particularly Good One! Fortunately I guess Mother Natures keeps pushing us, cause if we rated it on our first times, maybe we'd never do it again! HAHA

Posted in a thought for this day on 2008-04-24 09:53:10
Wow, that's a great quote. Thank you for sharing

Posted in Suicide on 2008-04-24 08:46:27
Imagine it was your CHILD that was saying these things ... How would you feel if someone like you said something like that to YOUR child ... I think you'll change your opinion once your child is born. You may not like another person's view on their own life - but you need to respect what harsh words could do...

Posted in My decision on 2008-04-23 21:35:26
OMG ... you really need to read THEOTHER woman's posts. She is in your situation but four years down the track .... I'd recommend you read her posts from start to finish before you make the decisions you are faced with .....

Posted in My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-23 08:13:09
KP - yes definitely 5 packets (each), and we may even have to bring along that genie, for the non stop refill!!! :)

Posted in My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-23 08:12:05
BL - Sure why not ... send me your address in an email and I'll ship over a packet .. but the deal is ... only 1 packet!!! LOL

Posted in The tears he doesn't see... on 2008-04-23 08:11:14
Angel, you are so kind, thank you .. by the way it takes one to know one! :) (amazing women ... I'm surrounded by them here on thoughts ..and never want you all to leave me !!)

Posted in The tears he doesn't see... on 2008-04-23 08:09:58
CaringAdvis - thank you, you really do speak so much common sense and wisdom on these situations, and I really do appreciate your advice.

Posted in Happy Earth Day on 2008-04-23 03:27:13
CD - thank you for reminding me! :)

Posted in Turn Turn Turn on 2008-04-23 03:26:41
CD - thanks for sharing this moment in your life, it sounds like it is a happy memory for you as well as a sad reflective one. You've shared a lovely warm story and shown how thoughtful you always are. I appreciate knowing you my friend.

Posted in questions on 2008-04-22 16:51:41
I hear you, I stay in the "friends zone" but am saddened at the amount of younger people who are so unhappy in their lives and can't see days ahead of them. I often wonder whether we can do anything for them, when our lives are so challenged without that thought.....

Posted in The Kinder shuffle ... and the frustrations on 2008-04-22 16:01:55
CD - you know what, that's exactly what I've been thinking too. I might sound bad for saying so, but I'm leaving the situation and hoping she'll just change her mind! Not fair I know because I agree with you ...btw I offered her money to do it - she refused it, I offered to bring bread etc as she gives him lunch, but she declined. She IS doing it to help me out, so I feel bad IF Master 5 is be difficult. She's doing me a favour - I remind myself of that, even when she is teling my business to our hairdresser!!!!

Posted in My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-22 15:57:54
dreampower - absolutely they can be sent to the states .... happy to oblige for you my friend!

Posted in My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-22 10:46:06
KP - Oh we will so have to get together one day and drink our hot chocolates through a TIM TAM ... or 5!!!! YUMM!

Posted in A Message To All The Haters… on 2008-04-22 10:22:24
Hi Mandie, Well said... good for you for blowing off steam ... isn't that what blogging is all about?? thanks for sharing! :)

Posted in My obscene OBSESSION on 2008-04-22 09:56:05
PP - HAHA that is soooo funny! Hey if I get a free packet I'd be happy... they are definitely worth it! YUM!

Posted in Lest we Forget. on 2008-04-22 09:51:01
KP - great post ... we will be going to a dawn service on Friday (if M5 is well) My Grandpa still marches too. I'm so proud of him and all those who fought alongside him, but what a waste of lives....

Posted in The tears he doesn't see... on 2008-04-22 09:21:13
PP50 - how can they do it and have a clear conscience?? really!? I mean I know he's human underneath all that ... how can he??

Posted in The tears he doesn't see... on 2008-04-22 09:19:11
Ummm .. I used to believe he was from MARS .... but now I think he's definitely from Uranus.

Posted in No sense of direction -buckle up on 2008-04-22 08:40:20
Oh I hear you ... all I need for Christmas is my SatNav - GPS thingy.... but I'm just wondering how I'm going to be able to turn it up the right way so the map is going the way I'm going .... haha just kidding, I know they do it for you in those little beauties! I really do need one .... I am your typical Geographically challenged female, and proud to admit it! It's a little bit funny isn't it ... btw LOVED your Post .. as usual! :)

Posted in Nothing and everything on 2008-04-22 08:31:31
people have their opinions .. some are good and some are just way off centre. I guess we have to learn to take what helps us and ignore the statements that are destructive. Constructive feedback is good, outright criticism is just plain mean! Thanks for your post, I enjoyed reading it. I hope the rest of your day is great.

Posted in Me on 2008-04-22 08:19:52
Oh I love Ghostbusters and the Goonies ... and have introduced them to my children who also now love them!!! good post!

Posted in The Most Beautiful Person I Know on 2008-04-22 06:37:29
I noticed those photo's .. they are fantastic sculptures! I loved to hear about your brother, he is amazing, and it puts life into perspective for those of us complaining about such small trivial things, while this man is just living life to the fullest.

Posted in The Kinder shuffle ... and the frustrations on 2008-04-21 18:59:09
and the other frustrating thing is that FOTY prior to leaving had promised to help out with the Monday running around schedule - he's declined to help now because he refuses to see my parents, not because they've said anything but because I assume he's ashamed/embarrassed or something!

Posted in POETS OF THOUGHTS.COM on 2008-04-21 17:09:43
That is a great idea, I've printed some out lately, but putting them into a verse type book is great. Clever thinking LB!!

Posted in Lets talk about sex on 2008-04-21 16:36:25
okay, I remember reading somewhere that when women have "sex" a chemical is released in their brain which makes them want to attach themselves to their chosen sexual partner, which can be destructive, especially if that partner isn't interested in more than they've got. Yes apparently Men do not have the same chemical reaction!! :) Another thing, don't feel like you have to do it because others are. Sex is good, but in my opinion sex should be with someone you love and trust. *sigh* just my humble opinion though.

Posted in A thought on the support or suppression of illegal on 2008-04-21 16:33:30
Australia also has a lot of issues with "Illegal Immigrants", and although I don't think I know all the facts, it drives me mad wondering why we pay to detain them, and then eventually set them up anyway. What kind of deterrant is that for others thinking of doing the same!?

Posted in CMON THOUGHTS, FIX YOUR STUPID WEBSITE on 2008-04-21 15:52:25
oh, but, I don't think it is a stupid website! :)

Posted in CMON THOUGHTS, FIX YOUR STUPID WEBSITE on 2008-04-21 15:51:50
here, here!! Agree with you :)

Posted in Mixed Emotions on the day on 2008-04-21 07:07:49
E. You are right, and I appreciate you sharing your experience with me. I have let go, I just need to forgive him. That's coming as I'm growing in myself.... and the next man in my life will out class him tenfold.. thank you again my friend.

Posted in Marriage on 2008-04-21 04:28:26
great post, thanks for the smile :)

Posted in Sometimes We Need To Fall Apart.... on 2008-04-21 03:26:44
You are so right, yesterday and a bit of today was my fall about days!! I'm regrouping though, and with the help of a loving friend I am going to be stronger than ever ready to face whatever life throws. Thank you.

Posted in You on 2008-04-21 03:12:16
thank you, what a lovely post. So nice to read something so nice.

Posted in how I feel about how I feel on 2008-04-21 03:11:06
Your pain will ease, and you will grow and learn from what Tiffanie unknowingly taught you. Just a thought but maybe she was your bridge to a better you, to a better life, maybe that's the job she was assigned by the Angels when you met her and fell in love with her. I wish you a speedy trip through your pain. *I send you smiles & warm wishes*

Posted in Mixed Emotions on the day on 2008-04-21 03:03:27
Angel, thank you so much ... it is so nice to see you back on Thoughts. It is friends like you that do help me to smile...thank you

Posted in Mixed Emotions on the day on 2008-04-21 02:56:49
HH - thank you for your very sweet comment, they really do help me & my moods :) I do long for the day I'm happy with another. I am not bitter and twisted about ALL men, just the one that did this... Thank you again :)

Posted in Mixed Emotions on the day on 2008-04-21 02:55:38
PP50 - you mean it never goes away!!!! :) arrggghhhh think i'll go buy some coffee mugs. Thank goodness I've got friends like you. I really appreciate you.

Posted in The Art of Blogging on 2008-04-20 09:46:16
Gotta be a catchy title, and a good first 3 lines... but then you have to have something to say.... something conversational, something humorous, something that others can relate to. Ask Nutshell ... look at his titles!!! Often have nothing to do with his story... oh well see that contradicts it all... Good Luck! Oh and if you comment on others posts they will often visit your posts... it's almost obligatory!

Posted in The Need To Be Perfect on 2008-04-20 09:30:14
Hey templar, I fell across your blogs and they are perfect as they are ..typos or grammatical errors?? Where I didn't see any! Write on!

Posted in My pee stinks...... on 2008-04-20 09:07:45
duly noted that i was here........ no other comment comes to mind!!! haha

Posted in Fiance made-out with some dude....so I get oral !! on 2008-04-20 05:17:42
I read to the bottom.... how was your roast chicken ... had boring pasta here!!! :) Umm so you don't mind her "kissing" others?? Interesting really!

Posted in Burger King - Dane Cook on 2008-04-19 22:21:49
never heard of this guy ... maybe I'll check him out

Posted in IS ANYONE OUT THERE???!!!! on 2008-04-19 22:20:47
OMG - 'sup with you today :) I am out here :) I've been busy ... hope you are great! I'll try commenting a bit more.

Posted in brother is upset on 2008-04-19 21:44:11
have a great night .. enjoy

Posted in Dying To Be Cool on 2008-04-19 18:22:16
TK- wow, thank you so much for sharing this. There is someone that I love dearly (who smokes) , and I am going to get him to read this.

Posted in My life of changing Saturdays on 2008-04-19 09:09:34
KP - thank you my friend. Tomorrow although the day of celebration for Master 5, as you know also marks 12 months to the day that he moved out - but I plan on having a great day ... the beginning of a new Year.... a continuation of a new life.

Posted in Older and Wiser....Not So Much... on 2008-04-19 08:56:55
Oh BL.... you poor thing. We did that once in the spa in summer ... drank and got sunburnt that is! :) Hope it isn't too painful for you. Funny post all the same.

Posted in Dear Meri: Please lock me. From, your Diary on 2008-04-19 05:42:25
Mer - enjoy your vacation (or as we say your Holiday!) If you are still concerned about being found out ... create a new Profile with a crazy name like I did ... but make sure you email your friends so we can keep up on your blogs, I for one would miss you very much if you stopped altogether. .. have a ball!

Posted in my wedding day with kissable lips on 2008-04-19 03:24:57
Wow, what a great story. ... HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!.... to you and Joe. best wishes

Posted in It's getting frustrating! on 2008-04-19 03:21:37
It might be only 'bloody' laundry! But you've asked for his help ... that is why he should be happy to do it ... for you! You do alot for him I'm sure, so why he can't help you with such a small insignificant request? I hear your frustration ... been there done that! DON'T fall into the trap of doing it all yourself. You deserve help, you deserve support! Good Luck :)

Posted in Learning to Trust again .... on 2008-04-18 20:59:26
Ellie - thank you .. I appreciate that.

Posted in When it don't come easy on 2008-04-18 19:22:48
Oh Pita, that event changed the world, I know here in Australia we were devastated at the event, and the Bali Bombing & London Bus bombing which followed showed us the world really has changed.

Posted in True Love on 2008-04-18 09:44:05
don't you just love Fridays ... we've already had ours, so now I'm looking forward to enjoying Saturday and Sunday. Enjoy!

Posted in (Poor) FOTY and Master 5's celebration on 2008-04-18 09:07:23
BS - guess I dodged that bullet!! :) PP50- thank you and yes he will FOTY FREE or not .... :)

Posted in PET SPIDER - Harry turned out to be Harriet on 2008-04-18 08:41:39
See I love spiders and snakes .. not necessarily to "play" with but I have a .. some would say "Sick" fascination with them ... I want to know all about them ....crazy huh. YES we have WOLF spiders here, infact often they are confused with the huntsman spider. But from what I've read WOLF spiders prefer outdoors, HUNTSMAN prefer Indoors! Apparently there is a difference, with appearance but I'd be interested in looking at both!!!! See told you I'm crazy!

Posted in TOP TEN REASONS TO GO TO WORK NAKED on 2008-04-18 08:02:51
Excellent ... don't think I'll try it though!

Posted in Send my regards to the soy people on 2008-04-18 07:48:09
AHhh Pita, you give me so much to look forward to !!!!! LOL :)

Posted in Doing the right thing for myself on 2008-04-18 07:39:00
Pita - (smiling and about to repeat what's already been said but ..) I knew you were a pretty amazing person just from your words and posts..... but WOW that is one of the most self-less things you could have done for someone else. I do not think you were stupid, I think you gave the gift of LIFE to a family and a little girl .. you are truly a living angel. ... trying to think of something funny here to make you laugh, but this isn't the time for it .. All Hail Pitapie :)

Posted in Learning to Trust again .... on 2008-04-18 06:40:40
Mer & E - thank you both so much ... I appreciate your encouraging and nice comments.

Posted in I just can’t be bothered on 2008-04-18 05:46:45
Hey I love it when I can do that .. infact most Saturdays when I'm child free I often waste the whole day ... I'm trying lately to be more productive...but don't feel guilty .. you deserve a break every now and again.

Posted in Breakup poem (this really sucks!) on 2008-04-18 04:23:04
write away .. hope it will help you ... enjoyed it :)

Posted in Bo! AHHHHHH! on 2008-04-18 04:20:49
get some fresh flowers ..... and a bowl of salt .... sit down with her grab yourself a strong drink and talk and drink until she speaks loud enough for you to hear her .... Maybe she's scared of the dark .. could you buy a nightlight for her? Cheaper than electricity?? :) can't wait for your next update.

Posted in My Girl Sort Of Cont. on 2008-04-18 04:18:18
She might need you to be nice to her ... all the time ... and I'm sure she'd appreciate some fresh flowers .... good for room cleansing too!! :)

Posted in 10 Things I hope are not true on 2008-04-18 04:03:11
Freethinker - thanks appreciated your input .. just have to disagree that a single woman with kids is baggage.!!

Posted in Ooops a CLM ...... on 2008-04-17 16:00:20
KP - I hear you ... usually we do a "contribute" to a cake any month where it is someone's birthday - and end up buying one from the local Cheesecake shop. But Boss chose to stay quiet. I'm wondering if he knew of the other birthday in "his" month he might have done things differently?

Posted in If You're Not The One on 2008-04-17 15:54:53
CD - Hey I love these words .. thank you for sharing with me :)

Posted in A SUMMER TIME SHARE WITH DARTH VADER... on 2008-04-17 09:23:37
haha... very funny! :)

Posted in 10 Things I hope are not true on 2008-04-17 08:35:20
YES!!! Realism .... replaces the word pessimissm !!! Totally agree :) and oh yes Optimism = dreamers

Posted in Aidan vs. Mr. Big (Camera Guy vs. Brian) on 2008-04-17 08:21:05
Okay, I maybe wrong but I think the thing with Brian is that the HIGHs are really highs, but they are far & few between.... and although the low's aren't that bad, they are longer lasting - which Makes the HIGH so exciting and helps you forget about the lows. Now Camera Guy - how do you know he doesn't have a hidden talent in the bedroom??? How do you know that that is where his secret lies.... maybe he will turn your world upside down and You'll start longing for his touch??? Maybe you do need to just "jump in" and let fate play it's hand!??? just a thought.

Posted in My girl(ghost) on 2008-04-17 07:54:08
This is a brilliant post, thank you .... please keep me up to date :)

Posted in What makes you read a blog? on 2008-04-17 03:52:44
I like to read words from the heart, I like to read smooth flowing posts that I can read without scratching my head or correcting the spelling in my mind. I like to read about things I can relate to ... like living life, having fun, being sad, others experiences, I like to read well written poetry (cause I can't write poetry!! I'm too literal!) I like to read and smile ... how about you??

Posted in Im a MESS on 2008-04-17 03:49:48
AW - your mind is trying to process what your heart is feeling........ been there ... seeing the light at the end of the tunnel finally... took awhile ... but the flame is there. Don't go, your SOULMATES post caught my interest and I've been coming back to see what else you say - to show me that I'm not the only one. You write so well, your thoughts are so raw - stay a little bit longer, you have friends here - we all go through that feeling - hang in there - it gets better ... it gets much better :)

Posted in make a comment? on 2008-04-16 22:33:09
I love your comments, whatever you want to say, its your opinion and that is why it counts. Please give it to me straight if you think i need it! :)

Posted in Is HE a CYBER BULLY? on 2008-04-16 08:08:59
I agree with you whole-heartedly! I certainly watch Miss 8 when she gets on, that's why I was blown away by this 14 year old kid!

Posted in A small worry on 2008-04-15 16:37:39
maybe he was just having a moment? Maybe men do have mood swings like us, just they don't usually let us know it because they are too pre-occupied with TV, or sport or whatever? I'd be in the wait and see moment if I was you, but if you're happy and he's happy then it must mean something right?

Posted in Wash that man right out of my hair on 2008-04-15 16:32:22
Mer - I think I married my "Brian", no matter what he showed me, I too felt like we were meant to be in each others' lives .. . and look where it got me! Close the door, and don't walk back through it. Be confident, be happy when you are around him - don't settle for "almost" right. You go for absolutely right! Enjoy the game, hope your team wins.

Posted in Thanks on 2008-04-15 15:44:42
WK - blog for you ... don't worry about the popular posts board.... write what you need to get out, not what you think your readers want to hear.

Posted in Believe in Love Again on 2008-04-15 08:38:51
Hi L. I believe you ... I didn't probably 6 months ago,, but today I believe you! :)

Posted in Sibling rivallry on 2008-04-15 08:23:57
Hey Neil, Loved your post, really!!! Oh and I'm a Melbournian!!!! through and through ... what you write is so true! LOL

Posted in She's not heavy, she's my daughter! on 2008-04-15 07:54:46
Oh E, you are such a great descriptive writer, I felt for each of those parents, and made me feel warmer about the role I play in my children's lives. And you are right,no matter how high up you are, you are the real you when you are with your most precious and amazing achievement .. your children. Thank you

Posted in Cybermetaphisiwhatsit Nightmare on 2008-04-15 04:28:51
Hey Brilliant, that was really good. Wow ... I got lost in your words, and your descriptive passages... well done.

Posted in Best cat is a Flat cat????? .........hmmm on 2008-04-15 00:16:18
:) ahh see cats know it! I'm not sure what Tiger's telling me though, maybe I don't feed him enough?? Or maybe it's because I won't let him go outside .... my face isn't too bad now, just wont be able to get my eyebrows waxed for a little while :)

Posted in The Day I got the TV Back!!!! on 2008-04-14 23:45:09
HAHA yes absolutely :)

Posted in What is wrong with people? on 2008-04-14 17:13:11
I cannot believe that children could do that to another child. That is so sad. Like the 3 year old that was abducted, and tortured and eventually murdered by two 7 year olds in the UK all those years ago - that still haunts me. I am so protective over my kids due to things like this, the world certainly has changed.

Posted in What I'd like to blog about! on 2008-04-14 16:30:30
Mer, you know I'd never stop posting - just might not be so detailed!!! :)

Posted in Best cat is a Flat cat????? .........hmmm on 2008-04-14 16:28:55
Pitapie - I know, I laugh myself at the image of the cat stuck to my face!! Little buggar! :) Otis and Tiger huh! sounds like a good kids book, then again would give nightmares to the younger ones LOL

Posted in When is it really over? on 2008-04-14 07:19:49
I don't think you ever really get over your ex. Not because you want them back, but because they've taught you a lot or you've learnt alot about yourself from them. However it is important that if you've closed the DOOR you should not go back through it. Good Luck.

Posted in Soulmates on 2008-04-14 06:14:14
WOW ... your words ... wow this is amazing! I know exactly how you are feeling above .... exactly! I believe in SOULMATES! Good Luck... good luck

Posted in the start on 2008-04-14 04:55:07
nice introductory post, hope to see you around.

Posted in Random Thoughts on 2008-04-14 00:06:15
Glad to hear you are enjoying yourself. I was interested to read you like photography, that's one of my interests. Maybe you should pursue these things that you know you enjoy... fill some of your spare time with them (if you have any spare time that is!) :) Glad you had a great weekend

Posted in Spring is For The Birds! on 2008-04-13 16:45:04
Fantastic! Love this post, not only educational, but I see glimpses of the human species in these descriptions.

Posted in Angel V's Devil on 2008-04-13 07:44:43
Great post, Miss 8 has R.E. (religious education) at school, and she loves it. I agree with you - children need to learn for themselves & who are we to tell them what to believe or not believe, the WHOLE WIDE WORLD is THEIRS!

Posted in Not The End on 2008-04-12 23:03:31
CD - this is again a beautiful post.

Posted in A week of highs and lows on Thoughts on 2008-04-12 21:44:48
E. It is so nice to have met you here in thoughts. Sometimes it's easier to blog negatives, I try to do both, funny how the negative ones get more hits! :) It is wonderful to have such positive friends who I agree with you, I would never have crossed paths with. Hope your week was great too.

Posted in THE FOG HAS LIFTED :) on 2008-04-12 20:30:30
the fog will lift and the sun will shine, just be ready for it. Because you deserve it my friend, you definitely deserve it.

Posted in Stepping into the shadow. on 2008-04-12 20:03:47
KP - although no authority on anyone's life, I support you and think you are speaking from the wisdom you have within. It takes a strong person to walk away when it would be easier to stay and play. It will all work out for the best in the end, whichever way that goes. I look forward to your ramblings of a crazed woman - LOL - you'll fit right in with the rest of us crazy women!!! No offense :)

Posted in BEING A MOTHER ! on 2008-04-12 19:42:58
:) Ohhhh yes, that "Somebody" person has a big mouth ... and seems to have lots of doubles!!! HAHA.. that somebody is definitely not a mother.

Posted in A GIRLS NIGHT OUT????? on 2008-04-12 19:37:58
Oh that is so funny!!!! :) Nice post..

Posted in The Physio, Coco the Clown and Me on 2008-04-12 09:34:39
That is funny, always good to laugh at yourself. Like the time I noticed a person come out of the toilet with toilet paper trailing behind attached to he