My day off ... yay ... time to spend alone time with me ... yay ...... Today Miss 8 unwell, Master 5 goes out in Sympathy.  Suddenly I am not alone, I do not have free time.  I do... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-01 10:17:21
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Today started like no other this week, instead of waking with my alarm and dragging myself out of bed to the shower.  I hit the snooze button so many times that when I finally decided to get... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-02 03:25:27
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Here I sit every Friday evening ... just chatting to Geoff and waiting.... waiting for my favorite part of my Fridays for the past coupla weeks.... Where oh Where are you LUCI????????... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-02 08:36:17
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Miss 8 is unwell at the moment, and I let her have yesterday and today off school. It was funny she got up this morning and gave me the “I don’t feel quite right, can I stay at... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-02 09:34:59
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Oh I forgot to mention I somehow forgot to get back to my solicitor/lawyer regarding organising a date to sign the Divorce papers ... mmmm it takes 4-6 weeks after I've signed them for it to be... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-02 10:12:13
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Today was a mixed bag, Miss 8 woke telling me she didn't want to go with her Dad because she was sick!  I empathized with her, but let her know she needs her "Daddy... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-03 03:59:51
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Foty dropped the kids off just after 5 today, and left as soon as he could .... normal. The kids tell me they had a nice day with him, and how JS only turned up a little while before they... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-03 04:35:02
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I have two of them, they are both purple.  A co-worker has a couple which sound like something you'd only believe if you saw.  A good friend has a couple that do more than vibrate... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-05 04:25:40
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It doesn't take much to get me this way A push or a nudge or a harsh word said in play You feel it too, you've been there aswell Like mine your life felt like a hot day in hell. So... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-06 05:47:22
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It appears the day has snuck up on us again.  This Sunday the 11th May is Mothers Day. That special day of the year where Mothers all over the world are thanked for their endless,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-06 07:03:52
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For over a week now I've been avoiding my own solicitor, why?  Because I didn't want to make an appointment to sign the Divorce papers.  FOTY applied for them, "as a Joint... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-07 03:44:42
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I know most of you clean your monitor screens from the outside but did you know dust can build up on the inside of your monitor also. Please take a few seconds to clean the inside of your... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-07 06:29:37
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I've been singing this in my head to the tune of "All I want for christmas is my two front teeth!" since the start of the week.   Oh I know I am not going to get a GPS or a... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-07 11:18:04
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Foty calls to speak to Miss 8 tonight, and she's chatting away and then gets this "stinky" look on her face and hands me the phone...... "He wants to talk to you! I DONT... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-07 11:38:15
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With the thought that I've actually dodged a bullet with FOTY showing his true colors before I was too old to start a new life, I've been contemplating having a "D" Party.... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-07 12:10:58
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Today was an interesting Friday with too much time spent in a team meeting.  Now those of you who attend regular team meetings will probably face the same routine. Boss reads... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-09 08:16:31
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I've talked about the cat on here before.. the kitten... the devil ... the re-creation of the ALIEN SCENE!! So it will be no surprise when you finish reading this blog. What usually... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-09 09:05:55
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I've tried so hard today not to blog about him... I've been sitting on my hands in between dog, cat and ebola co-worker who lost his sneeze... but I have to, it's bugging me!!!  So bear... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-09 09:29:19
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Yes you read it right - Mothers Day 2008 - Part 2 ... where is part 1 you might ask??  Well Part 1 is the good bit of my day - which I will blog about ... but right now I am really... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-11 05:09:04
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My Mothers Day started with Master 5's warm little arms around my neck as he snuggled in at 6am. Then at 6:30am Miss 8 announced in the doorway that it was Mothers Day, and did I want... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-11 09:23:41
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Remember the funny guy at my work?? Or should I say Ebola guy or lost his Sneeze guy, well he told us another joke yesterday, we thought it was funny so I thought I'd share it.... This guy... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-13 06:34:30
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A few weeks back you may recall I received an email from my sister asking why I wanted to "reconnect" with long lost relatives and yet didn't want to re-connect with her. My reply to... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-13 07:06:15
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I'm sure most of my family/friends here on thoughts would have expected FOTY to take GOLF over his kids .... and well for those of you silly enough to put money the other way ... guess what you... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-13 07:20:36
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I received a very funny email from a fellow blogger on here ... another Aussie ... Come on Down KP!!!! KP had heard a news flash on the radio while doing the school pick up ... anyway she... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-13 07:54:08
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I have this habit or should I say I have an annoying saying which BE has probably gotten sick of and that is the justification of things men do with the comment :- "Oh... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-13 08:32:49
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Came home late today with my munchkins.  Miss 8 had dancing, Master 5 was playing at a friends and I got a new "hair doo".  It was dark when I put my hand inside the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-14 07:31:22
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I dropped Master 5 at kinder and Miss 8 at school on time today!  Which is always a challenge on my day off.  Today is the beginning of Miss 8's schools book fair. Which is... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-14 19:59:57
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Tonight on the phone foty has suggested to Miss 8 that she have a sleep over at his house next Friday... not this week (cause he's going to play Golf instead).  But the next... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-15 07:11:07
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I want that man in the photo to come and smile at me I want that man in the photo to come and set me free He's not really smiling but I know he hides it well I want that man in the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-16 05:15:16
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Well I got a response to my email from my solicitor/lawyer  or whatever you want to call him. He said no need to go to court ... nope .. no need to go! He basically told me I can... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-16 05:41:29
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So here I am, another Friday night ALONE and HOME I'm sure FRIDAY nights are meant to be shared, I'm sure you are supposed to do things on Friday nights. But again I'm here, at home, alone,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-16 05:57:28
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Friends only post - cause only my friends will understand and not call the white coated men. And HEY we all need a night like this don't we ?? Well I do, even if you don't You know what... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-16 06:13:48
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When I needed you most where were you when I was having a hard time where were you I try to stay positive, alert and real but sometimes its hard I needed you I need you here... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-16 06:41:36
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We almost, I say almost had a complete foty free week-end. As you may recall he chose to go away on a GOLF week-end instead of spending time with his children on Saturday. Now he... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-18 09:49:25
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This week is going to be a particularly busy one for me. As I've blogged on occassion I have been given the audacious task of being a project manager for a major upgrade, as well as... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-18 10:50:25
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Well my Monday has been a crazy one.  I woke up same time as usual, finding myself very tired with a sore throat. I was not really looking forward to the day ahead. Then I had... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-19 05:55:28
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When I am upset about something, or feeling blue I rally the committee and talk. When I'm confused and maybe a tad emotional I call a hearing, which sometimes consists of several phone... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-19 06:52:19
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He's abandoned them He's left them He treats them with content He hasn't been around for them Doesn't realise his Daddy license's spent He doesn't see them much Thinks they'll be... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-19 20:41:05
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It's Tuesday and my friends you all know what that means don't you! Yes it's foty time.  He arrives somewhere after 6:30pm. I quickly usher them all down the other end of the house so... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-20 06:30:29
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Miss 8 is still upset with her Dad, so I decide I have to call him tonight.  Otherwise she is NOT going to sleep. So I ask her again what happened. It goes like this .. Foty puts the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-20 07:38:45
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My name is Easy and I'm a Coffee SNOB! I didn't want to admit it, but I think today I am strong enough to do so! And I have to admit I am not just a coffee drinker - I am a COFFEE SNOB -... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-20 08:52:58
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Sometimes I wonder what makes you see me Sometimes I wonder will I ever be free It's not that easy to forget the past But I'm sure when I do, I'll be having a blast This is to catch... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-20 22:53:35
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It's been a very tiring day for me. I found myself having to concentrating hard while driving home (on the freeway), just so I wouldnt close my eyes. We had the second of our all day... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-21 03:15:06
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She told us all about it She said it very nice It's my birthday soon, she said .... I don't wanna tell you twice So HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROE Have a lovely DAY May all your wishes... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-21 06:11:13
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Tonight while we waited for Miss 8 to get home from Dancing foty rings me on my mobile. Normally he calls on the home phone, and with caller ID I can chose to let it go to message bank or... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-21 08:52:09
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It appears you are all missing the point in any drama that happens here on Thoughts between the members...... So I'm going to say it out loud to all those who will bother reading this ...... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-22 00:03:05
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Today I was discussing my pending divorce hearing, which is on 3rd June 2008. I have been advised that I do not need to attend, and the whole process will take about 5 minutes.... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-22 05:02:43
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It's 6:30 I think about waking you But then I remember your number won't get me through I wonder how you slept in another bed I hope you drifted off easily, without thoughts racing... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-22 05:49:04
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Tonight I went to the movies immediately after foty took the kids to his place.... (more about that later). Yes folks I dated myself again!  Second date, if you don't count the coffee... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-23 08:26:05
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Tonight was planned to be a huge event for FOTY!   Only been attempted ONCE in the last 13months.... he was putting on the I'm a real Dad Costume  and having his kids... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-23 10:01:31
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Here's a song that we share ... It's been playing in my head all day today (Saturday). Hope everything is going well - and you get Internet again real soon ...    xoxo... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-24 04:51:00
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Oh no!!! I now know how to embed songs into my blogs!!!! Look out. Now before you go running down the page and hit the play button, I want to tell you this girl is a 16 year old Aussie girl... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-24 07:04:31
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Today was almost a full day of ME ... ME ... ME  ... Now I'll bet you are wondering how I spent it, I'll bet you want to hear all about it.  Of course you do .... sorry ...... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-24 07:29:07
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Dammit I'm missing you It's only been a day or two I'm used to hearing the rhythm of your voice But today it seems I still have no choice You are busy, you have things to do But... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-24 09:06:02
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My parents have gone away for the week-end and asked me to go over and feed their pets. On our way over there, we experienced plenty of "Sunday" drivers.  You know the ones,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-25 03:09:02
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***WARNING ... STEAMY SCENES MAY FOLLOW *****    You have been warned!!!!! ........................... .........................................................   You... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-25 08:15:05
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Yesterday it was all simple and clear Today confusion has set in and I have no idea Why you feel that I am someone to fear Suddenly I am filled with such despair If we are we friends, Is that... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-25 23:24:30
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She glanced at her watch and tapped her slippered foot impatiently.   Again he had her waiting.  Third time this month.  She wouldn't mind if he left her satisfied.  But... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-26 20:45:45
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Do you ever go through a moment where everything feels like it has suddenly changed? Yesterday I think that happened.  I'm not sure what triggered it and I'm still not 100% sure... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-26 21:06:23
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I want that man to hold me, to make me feel just right I want that man to kiss my tears, when crying through the night I want him to embrace me, and squeeze me soft and tight I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-26 22:18:17
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Following on from Anotherdaze fun for all of us here on thoughts.com to do, I take the baton from Hollis.. thank you my friend ... and it is my chance to ask the question of the day.......... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-27 00:05:00
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Tonight I am just about to say good night to Miss 8 and Master 5 who are in bed when the phone rings ... who could it be...... Miss 8 dives on the phone and it is foty !!!   It is... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-28 06:43:25
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I woke up scared and apprehensive about 4am this morning. I had just had a bad dream. Disorientated and half asleep, it took me a few minutes to realise that it was just a dream. I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-29 02:56:15
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Well again, third Friday in a row my alarm clock decides it wants a sleep in. Today I'm lying in bed, fast asleep (no dreams!!) and suddenly I hear Miss 8 chirping .. "Mum,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-30 10:00:22
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You may recall that Master 5 had a birthday party to go to on Saturday at 2:30pm.  Being that it was his best (little) friend from Kinder there was no way I was going to blow it off for time... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-31 20:46:07
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The scene was set Master 5 had his brand new Carlton (Blues) footy guernsey, Miss 8 the Supporters Scarf and team windcheater (sweatshirt for you americans!! :)).  Even I had on my... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-31 22:32:40
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Okay, so I admit it, I get waxed every 6 weeks or so.... Something that foty actually convinced me to start.  (At Bee Brazilian  = click for link) I'll confess, I used to shave... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-31 23:00:29
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It's Sunday here and the weather is cold, Today is the 1st of JUNE! First DAY of winter for us in the Australian part of the globe. We are not on the bottom of the world, you are just looking... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-31 23:19:13
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