Back in the 80's there was a band called Noiseworks and they played some great songs, and were especially popular at pubs!  So when we heard they were getting back together for some GIGS we... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-02 05:56:23
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Saturday morning after my evening out with the girls to see a band, I was up by 8am.  I had to shower and go pick up my children before FOTY arrived to take them out for the day. Now to... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-02 06:14:18
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Foty arrives just as we finish covering our cats body in his burial site.  FOTY's all happy and excited he had a surprise for the children today!  But Miss 8 who is visibly upset... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-02 06:43:28
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After FOTY stormed out at 11am, an hour after he arrived, the children were visibly relieved and instantly at ease with being left home with me on a Saturday, which is their usual time to spend... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-02 14:28:45
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When FOTY first walked out on us a person from his work let me know that he'd been seeing JS for quite some time - in the form of jogging with her at lunch times, having coffee with her and also... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-02 14:45:58
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Now I realise that a lot of you reading this (or not) will think how crazy to have a funeral for a "bloody" cat.  But why not have a funeral for a cat.  How many times have you... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-02 15:31:15
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Remember HWG? Well I must admit that I think alot my conversations with him.   I know I hear you saying for goodness sakes girl - get over it!   But the part of him I still... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-03 06:17:50
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After our ordinary week-end I was extremely surprised to receive an email from FOTY around 11am today (Monday)... with the subject SATURDAY.    Well I must admit up front everytime... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-03 06:37:58
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On the way home from my Friday night out with the girls to see NOISEWORKS (have i told you I went to see NOISEWORKS ... Jon STEVENS MMMMMmMMMM), the discussion came up about the men we... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-03 06:54:40
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Short story my kids and I made up - which had them in fits of laughter ... some of it true... no admitting anything!   Once there was a silent, but smelly fart who popped out of a... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-03 07:34:36
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Do you like reading other people's posts?? Do you feel like you are peeking on another life?  Do you get addicted to the lives of others?  Or the stories the crafty talented authors... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-03 15:11:11
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Okay I've been going on about Noiseworks for a few posts now, and I promise to stop soon - I don't want to drive you all crazy ... well crazier than we all already are anyway.  I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-03 15:32:35
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It's Tuesday, which means FOTY is coming .... hip hip hooray ....??? Nah not quite! But you will be pleased to hear I did not make him dinner tonight.  Which I normally do on Tuesday... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-04 04:42:16
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When is it time to give up on a relationship?  Do the amount of years you have been together factor in? Or is it the amount of money or assets you have accumulated together that make the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-04 05:18:53
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I'm not sure what it is, but I'm restless tonight.  I want to hit out and release the hurt I feel built up in me. We all have pressures, and there is always someone worse off than we are,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-04 06:16:35
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If one more person tells me I need to make more of an effort with FOTY I think I am going to scream!  Do my feelings not count after a certain amount of time? Should I forget that he... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-04 07:34:15
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Normally I dont blog dreams, but this is too freaky not to blog.. Forgive me if I sound crazy, life does that to you sometimes. Last night I dreamt my ex was smoking while having a coffee... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-04 15:48:44
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I came to the realisation - or maybe I already knew it, that I'd much prefer to be alone than be with the wrong man.  We should ALL think this way (oh guys I'd put in wrong lady in here... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-06 01:32:39
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That is my favorite song at the moment - Lips of An Angel. The reason being when I dated/saw/got together with HWG he always called me late at night.  He also for part of it had his... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-06 05:49:59
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Another aspect of separating with two young children is working together during the Festival times. After all Easter Bunny & Santa Claus are not parent related when children are young.... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-06 16:13:40
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Whoever invented the Chuppa Chup - obviously had me in mind. But they couldn't make it an ever lasting sucker!  In saying that I must clarify.  I am a sucker, I am a naive and trusting... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-07 02:18:53
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Okay, a silly post to follow my serious ones.....  First let me confess I love TOMATO SAUCE (or as most of you reading this would call it KETCHUP). It has been a staple part of my dinners... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-07 02:42:32
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Today 8th March 2008 is my 11th wedding anniversary... or it would have been if the man I married, the man I trusted didn't turn into a cheating, lying, weak, spineless, gutless a-hole!... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-08 02:25:56
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Why does it take 5 minutes to cook 2 minute noodles? I have just purchased a few packets of two minute noodles they used to be my favorites - but once again I stopped eating them due to... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-08 02:55:47
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HWG has some excellent qualities and one of them is his choice in music, movies and books.  . . Well I think so anyway.  And in his drunken state the other night, he set me a challenge,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-08 04:25:32
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 well you are obviously a user of THOUGHTS.com if you are reading this, so I would like your feedback - opinion - suggestion on this if you have a minute... I have met some great people... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-09 01:40:22
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Have you read any of my "hot" post way back in January ?? Here is one :- http://www.thoughts.com/EasyToSay/blog/the-beginning-of-a-better-sex-life-44842/ I am in... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-09 03:10:23
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i can't get him out of my head, its probably because I can't have him? Or maybe it is because I haven't opened my life to meet somebody else yet. He's got so much in common with me?? Or... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-09 06:46:27
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After having a few champagnes last night with friends I was surprisingly not in the mood to send HWG many many text messages like he did to me. Instead I sent two: The first let him... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-09 17:28:11
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I think FOTY has finally lost the plot! Tonight when he rang Miss 8 - he puts the girlfriend/fiancee (JS) on the phone to her. I happened to be sitting next to Miss 8, and notice her face change... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-10 08:16:30
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After gettting off the phone from JS - I think about my options.  I have discussed these with my solicitor and he has gently confirmed to me that I cannot stop the kids meeting or spending... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-10 08:32:12
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I talked to Miss 8 about WHY she doesn't not want to go to her Dads (FOTY), and she has revealed a few things that make me mad, and make me want to confront this jerk I used to call my best... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-10 15:43:16
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I feel like I'm stuck in a bad soap opera. After the shoot out last night and Miss 8 being upset and having another bad dream that her Dad and JS will keep her at his house, I get an email from... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-10 19:04:49
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Well it was always going to be an interesting night, after the phone conversation of the night before.  The emails of this morning and the preceding phone exchange. So when FOTY arrived... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-11 07:53:26
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Miss 8 is a beautiful child as I've said many times before, as is Master 4. Last night Miss 8 and I talked about her Nana's wedding this coming Saturday (FOTY's mother). And she decided she... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-12 22:04:13
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After the wedding on Saturday night we will be going to Queensland... YAY. However before we get to Sunday, I have to do packing for 3. Prepare for a wedding where I am going to be the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-13 06:01:44
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I am an organiser, If there is something to be done, I do it. I always get the comment from friends less busy than me - "Oh you are soo organised, how do you do it?" Well lately... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-13 06:09:57
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Should I re-phrase that ?? I'm almost a SOLE MORTGAGE owner. This week on Tuesday I received an email from my solicitor - which probably cost me a billing hour!! That let me know that the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-13 06:23:37
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Well the day I have been dreading is fast arriving. Tomorrow is the (almost ex) mother in laws second wedding..... and I am not looking forward to it at all.  I am the photographer for the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-14 07:00:42
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I wanted to update you all before I go to bed, because you've all been so wonderful to me ... a complete stranger who now I hope you consider a "cyber" friend. The wedding was today,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-15 09:45:58
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I've really enjoyed the past week, yes I can say I even enjoyed the wedding. It was the first "family" holiday since FOTY left us.  I thought it would be tough, I thought it... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-24 06:25:48
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The sun gets up early in Queensland, this much I remember from previous family holidays where the children are up and ready to go to the beach at 5:30am .... but this day was a bit different, we'd... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-24 06:46:19
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Today we were determined to get to the bus stop before the 9am bus, we aimed for 8:30am and we were there on time and so was the bus! YAY! We arrived at Dreamworld at 9:15am and thanks to... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-24 07:00:05
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Today we were up nice and early, we were excited! We didn't have to catch any bloody buses! Wendy's Dad was driving 3 of us and the other 5 were going in the Rent-a-bomb! I mean Rent a car. It... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-24 07:25:04
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Well fortunately when Miss 9 woke up this morning she had stopped vomitting and feeling unwell.  We all breathed a sigh of relief, I took an extra sigh - because I can now admit I am a total... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-25 06:37:54
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After a rest day we were biting at the chomp to do something energetic and totally exhausting again! Even though it was Good Friday all of the "worlds" were still opening. So we... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-25 06:56:46
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Woke up today strangely happy, I thought I'd be all sad and wanting to stay.  But I guess I was never one to want to hide from my reality or escape it for too long - I'm more of an attack it... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-25 07:18:30
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This time last year FOTY still lived with us, he was on the verge of moving out - but never the less he was living with us, he was sleeping with me like a husband & wife would, and he was... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-25 07:58:07
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He came bearing gifts tonight for Easter - you know the Event that isn't important enough to see your children for!  So he came tonight instead - Tuesday ... two days too late as far as I'm... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-25 08:21:34
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Okay, I've been siting on this thought for awhile and now that I know the door is closed I wanted to release it from my head. Remember HWG?  The guy I feel for during a three week... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-26 04:50:08
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Tomorrow night I'm going to go on a Date, and I'm getting really excited. Not sure where I'll be going yet, whether it be the movies, dinner, a late coffee or maybe just a DVD in front of my... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-26 07:24:29
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Well I did it, I accepted the first date challenge and I think I passed with flying colours. There were a few moments where I wasn't sure if it would go ahead, two main reasons 1) Master 4... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-27 07:24:30
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It had been a long time coming, they'd both waited patiently for the right time.  He wasn't sure she'd ever be ready, she wasn't sure he'd wait.  He sat on the hard airport chairs... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-27 08:10:59
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They sat on the couch talking, she lost herself in his kind gentle eyes, she longed to stay there forever.  He wanted to kiss her, protect her, never let anything harm her... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-27 10:22:02
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Here I was saying how I felt bad for him, telling you all how I saw sorrow and maybe the tiniest speck of regret in his eyes on Tuesday when he came over to see the kids..... and today I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-28 02:05:42
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My date was a success the other night. That being my date with myself. Some call it going out alone, I prefer to call it a date.  Going out alone sounds lonely..... dating sounds fun and... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-28 07:34:25
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Okay, so I have a confession to make! I have an interest in Stars, in Astrology, in fate, in tarot cards etc. A healthy interest I must clarify.  I am not obsessed, I don't set my week by my... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-29 02:25:00
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This morning FOTY (Father of the year) arrived late (surprise surprise), lucky really as we'd slept in, and it gave me time to get the kids ready.  Miss 8 woke up and the first thing she... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-29 02:30:00
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I knew he couldn't resist it, I knew he wouldnt respect Miss 8's request.  And he didn't. FOTY took the kids today - which again wasn't an easy task (as blogged earlier). They... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-29 02:55:00
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Beware kind folks in THOUGHTS.com ... if you edit an OLD blog, the way the new date field is now working, your old blog will be "stamped" with today's date (or the date you edit your... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-29 10:15:00
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Okay, I'm now officially tortured by that excuse for "commercialism" at it's best day of the year. Yes, you know the one..... Valentines Day! Everywhere I look I see the red... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-29 11:40:00
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What you should know about my Ex-husband:- He actually left me because he'd been having an affair with a girl from his work for 2 years! He does deny this though. He moved 40 minutes away... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-29 22:55:00
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Imagine getting what you wanted when you wanted it. Think what would happen if we said it, and it was so. Would we like it if life was too easy?  Forget challenges, put your hand... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-30 03:45:00
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To be fair to FOTY I wanted to record this event.... Today I got an email from him!!   Which mind you I always always dread, it always makes me think of the worst, and I get a deep... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-31 03:25:00
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It had been a long, anxious trip but it was worth every second of their wait.. Every letter, every phone call they'd shared was never quite enough to provide them with the validation they sought... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-03-31 15:45:00
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