Why must you beat the ones you love?

There is one thing about today's society that I definitely don't understand. The number of domestic violence cases has definitely risen by a unbelievable margin in recent years. I've noticed that the new breed of American males are getting more violent with their wives and girlfriends. And when I say violent I mean extremely violent and this does not necessarily mean a physical violence, but verbally and emotionally as well. Why does a man feel like he has to assault the person he's supposedly in love with? I'll tell you why. The reason why this happens is because he feels like a tough guy, pimp, or a so-called gangsta. In reality 99% of these so-called gangsta's are insecure about their own manhood and other various reasons. Hey it's OK I'm a guy and I see. I've seen different scenarios countless and countless times and I still don't understand it. And a lot of what I've seen has not been physical violence but it was vertebral and emotional violence. I have witnessed a lot of this with various ex-girlfriend's and regular friends for that matter.

And girls this isn't just the guys fault. Some of the fault falls on you to. Because isn't the famous line I love him but I can change him. The truth is you can't turn a gangsta and to an altar boy, just like as the saying goes you can't turn a whore into a housewife. Because you can't believe me I've tried that last one

Here's something I heard all the time. Some girls would say that's it I'm going to leave. Here's the thing they never do even when they have the chance, they don't. The only time they realize that it is time past due is when the guy fucks up her face so bad that the girl looks like Freddy Krueger. And by then it's too late because of no one else wants to Fuck her when that happens