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Love

God...why cannot I quit writing about Love?

A redundant obsession.

We abuse the word Love.

We should never use that divine word to describe objects.

It is to express how we feel about a human being.

You can like scented candles....but Love them?

I think not.

I am guilty of over using that beautiful word.

Love should be designated for heart issues.

I am to the point now, that I love many people.

Not just like- but Love.

Loving to the point, if they were to pass on, my heart would ache a dreadful ache.

Every single person that I have ever loved, I still love them.

Love is Eternal.

If you can say that you no longer love someone, then you never truly loved them in the first place.

Regarding Romantic Love:

I care not who disagrees, it is not possible to fall out of love.

It was never love, if you can say...." I do not Love that person any longer."

Abusers of the Divine

There was a time when I had the nerve to say that I did not love my husband any longer.

In my mind, I thought, I could not have ever loved him- if I can say that I fell out of love with him.

I argue with myself alot in spirit.

I even had the hateful nerve to tell others that I had never been in love with him.

I was only trying to justify my selfish running away from him.

Like not loving him anymore, or never loving him, made it alright to break his heart.

No, I was selfish, and I wanted freedom.

Freedom to do what I wanted.

I proceeded to play with several men's hearts after I left him.

You know what finally woke up my selfish cold heart?

He got a girlfriend on me.

He suddenly seemed very interesting to me again.

Seeing him with another woman, made me see red....red...the color of blood.

My heart started bleeding the love that we had shared for the last 22 years.

I even threw his girlfriend out of his house, he stood there smirking.

Love never dies....we only hide it away....to please ourselves....or it was never love at all.

When we love someone, we have to live our lives around them, and it takes our freedom from us.

Love is Sacrifice of Self.

The only reason we leave someone that we promised "forever" to....is selfishness and a cold heart.

If we stay in the frame of mind....that we have fallen out of love.....

Then we are liars...we never "Fell Out of Love"...we never loved in the first place.

Love never dies.

So watch your mouth....do not dare use that Divine word.... unless you plan on forever.

Love is Divine...it is Eternal.

In romantic love, friendship love, and in family love.... Love ...never dies.

Love is reserved for Forever





Posted by DifficultSoul on 2008-02-16 00:42:49 | Rating: | Views: 273


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Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-16 01:48:15
 
ADIDAS-..
In romantic love, sometimes, people get lured away by someone else by lust.
Wanting to have sex with someone is not love.
Look at the pornography industry, they have sex, surely they do not love each other.
We all face temptation, every single one of us do, if we truly love someone we resist it.
Although, some of us fall for the temptation, and find out, it was only lust.
That temptation alone, sometimes makes us realize that we loved another...the original one that we thought we fell out of love with.
Does that answer your question?
If not, rephrase, and I will try again.
 
 

Posted by
bubblydi
on 2008-02-16 03:28:50
 
This is absolutely beautiful, yet again.
I feel like i am always repeating myself on your posts.
You are very wise woman DS.
Without your words i feel i could have made many mistakes.
You really make me stop and think.
I love you DS, and that is not an over use of the word, xx
 
 

Posted by
bubblydi
on 2008-02-16 07:44:04
 
i like your new picture, you are getting very quick in changing them.
I can't keep up he he, xx
 
 

Posted by
Pauligan
on 2008-02-16 08:39:26
 
Love is indeed eternal. Even if we say we hate former lovers it's really just pride trying to place the love into a form we can live with. xx
 
 

Posted by
curiosity
on 2008-02-16 09:59:25
 
I sympathize with your comment DS. Love is the hardest feeling to stay true to but it is ever present in our struggle. I am blessed to have a love that exceeds my expectations of faithfulness. I endeavor to live up to its example.
 
 

Posted by
Ellie2008
on 2008-02-16 10:14:48
 
Loved your honesty in this blog. It has made me think alot about love this morning. I agree, we never fall out of love with someone whom we once loved. I still love the father of my children who I am now divorced from, but don't want him back. Love is a very complicated thing. It's like annulling a marriage of 27 years to marry another person. Annullment is a man-made thing. We can't and shouldn't annul anything. They are life experiences and I think our hearts are huge. We have room for all types of loves. Let's not limit ourselves, but grow larger hearts.
 
 

Posted by
scotslad60
on 2008-02-16 10:50:24
 
"Love is Divine...it is Eternal. Love is reserved for Forever."

Excellent DS, I wish I could be so eloquent.
 
 

Posted by
keepdreaming
on 2008-02-16 15:08:57
 
You couldn't have spoken more true words!! Everyone I have ever truly loved, I still love dearly. The relationships I had in the past, that I lost that "love" for, I can look back and realize it never was true love. I had a once in a lifetime kind of "true Love" many, many years ago. That man will remain a part of me...who I am today. I love who I've become, partly due to the love we shared. But I was young, selfish, and didn't understand he wanted FOREVER, and I blew it. When I say, a "once in a lifetime" kind of true love, what I mean is...you can never LOVE the same way again. I love my husband now, but in a differnt way as my past love. The love of my past, is eternal, deep and part of my soul. My love in the present, is steady, strong, and full of purpose. Love...is always eternal. It lives with us, becomes part of us...a special piece of our souls puzzle. Beautiful new picture. God Bless!
 
 

Posted by
greensky
on 2008-02-16 15:13:30
 
Love was a deep mystery to me DS I have learned something today TY
 
 

Posted by
Forgetmeknot
on 2008-02-17 18:27:06
 
Great post DS. Love is such a wonderful thing.
 
 

Posted by
idowhatiwant
on 2008-02-17 20:27:54
 
hmmmmm! wonderful post. very true, it makes one think.
 
 

Posted by
ColoradoDreamin
on 2008-02-18 00:29:55
 
"Love is ... the emblem of eternity:
it confounds all notion of time:
effaces all memory of a beginning,
all fear of an end."
Madame De Stael
 
 

Posted by
trevorjohn
on 2008-02-18 08:58:36
 
I couldn't agree with you more DS
Once we love someone, we always will. The feeling may change, but the love will always remain.
 
 

Posted by
trevorjohn
on 2008-02-18 08:59:25
 
I like the new picture, kinda funky!
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 15:33:49
 
BubblyDiane-..
It is wise to learn from another's mistakes.
It saves us from pain that could destroy us.
May you always walk in Love and Peace.
I love you Diane.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 15:41:16
 
Sandybull-..
I disagree, surely one who wants to break a forever promise, has surely stopped loving someone.
Love would not abandon for reasons of self gratification.
Love is a sacrifice.
A sacrifice of self.
Love ...loves through all things.
I have proof, I lived it.
I surely stopped letting myself love my husband when I left him.
I loved my ego more, and I wanted my own way, because he refused to fulfill all of my desires.
Love is a noun, as well as a verb.
You do love, as well as embrace it.
Tread lightly on that valve that releases love, because at a moments notice it can open up again, and the one you closed off in heart....
May just be the one you decide to love again, and it may be too late.
Peace.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 15:43:23
 
BubblyDiane-..
I change my pictures for a very deep reason.
It is my face, my eyes, that shows the fullness of my soul.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 15:45:47
 
Pauligan-.."Love is indeed eternal. Even if we say we hate former lovers it's really just pride trying to place the love into a form we can live with."

That is a truth most of us will not admit my friend.
A deep truth.
Hate and Love, is a fine line.
I do not believe you can hate someone, unless we loved them once.
We may be able to dislike someone, but true hate...
Is Love on Fire...burning to ashes, a pile of cindered love.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 15:47:53
 
curiosity-..
Cherish that love you found.
Water it like a thirsty flower.
Never feel sympathy for me, all I have been through, has been for a purpose.
It has given me wisdom, to truly learn what love means, and to display it.
Peace.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 15:51:59
 
Ellie-..
I agree, we never stop loving someone we truly loved.
Being with someone sexually has nothing to do with love.
Sex is a bodily function, and love is what makes it sacred.
I love others, but I can only be married to one.
Just because I cannot be married to someone, does not take the love away.
Love is the greatest entity in this world.
It has no boundaries.
Truly, I love many men, truly love them, yet, I only give myself sexually to my husband.
Sex does not make love more special.
Love is equal in all forms.
Your comment made me think.
Peace.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:20:13
 
keepdreaming-..
All you said, is so profound, all I can respond with is quoting you...excellent words of deep truth:

"You couldn't have spoken more true words!! Everyone I have ever truly loved, I still love dearly. The relationships I had in the past, that I lost that "love" for, I can look back and realize it never was true love. I had a once in a lifetime kind of "true Love" many, many years ago. That man will remain a part of me...who I am today. I love who I've become, partly due to the love we shared. But I was young, selfish, and didn't understand he wanted FOREVER, and I blew it. When I say, a "once in a lifetime" kind of true love, what I mean is...you can never LOVE the same way again. I love my husband now, but in a differnt way as my past love. The love of my past, is eternal, deep and part of my soul. My love in the present, is steady, strong, and full of purpose. Love...is always eternal. It lives with us, becomes part of us...a special piece of our souls puzzle."
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:22:28
 
Greensky-..
Love is a mystery.
We will only have pieces of it, as in a puzzle, God holds the finishing piece in his hand.
Thank you for the sweet comment.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:24:17
 
Forgetmeknot-...
Love is a wonderful thing.
I am so glad that you found it Mrs. Namaste.
You are a blessing to one of my most admired friends.
You are love to Mr. Namaste.
Love and Blessings to you both.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:27:11
 
Scotslad-..
Love is Divine...it is eternal...that stands out...because it is truth.
You my friend, are eloquent in your own way.
If you could only see that.
Love and Peace to you..forever and always.
Namaste
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:28:12
 
idowhatiwant-..
That makes me very happy.
That is my purpose here, to make others think.
To think is to Live.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:30:51
 
Scarb-...
My heart will preach on 'til the end of of my life.
This preacher's heart in me will not let it rest.
Your comments are coveted my friend.
Your opinion means alot to me.
I love you my brother.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 16:58:13
 
ColoradoDreamin-..
Madame De Stael has written some very wise words.
They are beautiful, thank you for sharing them with me.
Love is very poetic indeed.
Love to you my friend.
 
 

Posted by
DifficultSoul
on 2008-02-18 17:01:02
 
trevorjohn-..
You said something very wise.
Feelings change constantly, love is a constant.
Like with one of my closest friends, she betrayed me, my feelings of trust in her changed, I no longer trust her, yet, I still love her very much.
Thank you for bringing about that point.
My picture funky?
Yes, I am a funky kind of girl.
(me smiling)
 
 

Posted by
trevorjohn
on 2008-02-19 17:50:27
 
Funky, as in I like it!!!!!!!!
You are BEAUTIFUL inside and out!
:)
 
 

Posted by
missmarie
on 2008-02-19 18:50:19
 
there was a time when i really believed that you couldnt fall out of love, i still believe it in fact, but i know the feelings i used to feel for a certain person were not love or i wouldn't feel nothing for that person now, so i know now that i wasn't in love to start with, maybe obsessed or scared to be alone, but not in love.

I am very guilty of using the word love to readily, i love jaffa cakes, i love scrubs....thats silly now i think of it, i am laughing now, i like those things, i may even be a little passionate about them (well jaffa cakes anyway) but i am not in love with them

i love you though Miss J
good post..as usual hehe xxxxx
 
 


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