Jealousy is really negative energy...and, honestly, I wouldn't give anyone my passwords...I don't want anyone reading my diary, or looking in my pocketbook, or listening in on my phone calls...those are my moments...my private moments....and for the jealous person, I think that there are never enough assurances you can ever give them...to let your sig. other have that kind of power is being co-dependent...I agree with you that jealousy is an inherently ugly and bad, bad thing.

funfreak-..
In all reality...a relationship is a co-dependent union in the fullest sense of the word.
Secrecy really has no place in real intimacy.
Jealousy has hurt me, and in the process of trust building again, complete openness with another human being, is a sacred union.
Trust should be pushed at all limits to assure ones love to another.
That is just human decency.
Romantic love to me is...a bit spiritual alchemy..
It is for two souls to lose themselves in one another..so your term in the comment, is totally different than my interprtation of the term.
Romantic Love...should have no secrets in my opinion...

All of this was a bit difficult to read...and it made me think of the show I am currently watching:P The old Incredible Hulk live action show. Jealousy...monsters...green. It seems so infectuous...and like something I can't just get out of my system. But, I don't think I ever saw it that way. I don't want to think I am infected...

Does this mean good news for you? Or, are you still healing?

Hi sweetie!
Once again, very insightful...but,
ALL my passwords? heehee!
:)
All love to you!

*goes to get a shovel* Can your light be anymore bright? I dare to imagine such. Thank you for shining. I soothes me often. Thank you.

peace2u....you said it just right...'it is a wretched poison.
It breaks and rots a person's spirit.

hatgirl-...ditto..yep.

brainstormer-..
I am sorry that my opinion was hard to take.
This means that healing is pretty much in place.
I can write about just anything now..'with no pain.
All of my experiences, have turned into the past..and it is
used in the best of my writing.
I like to write and make people aware, of what other people are
thinking about them.
Hmm..
Healing..that is exactly what it means.
Healing is when you can hear another's opinion..and it does
not change yours in any way, shape, or form.

smilinirisheyes-..
Yes, ALL of my passwords.
My evidence.
hehe.

evanescence-..
Only as bright as you are my dear, only as bright as you.

Reminds me of that song "Hey Jealousy". I'm glad to see personal growth experience. The trials in life are so immense I know. Keep spreading your good karmar dear! Like I said, you have inspired me and given me tools for the toolbox of my heart! Love you. ooxx

Jealousy dwells in the deepest pit of our souls,
Subversion and ruins its cruelest goal
when least expecting it , it then rears its head
Tainting the heart until dying or dead,
It has no compassion, winner takes it all
Its very unbaised , it regard to the "Fall"
It tears at two hearts, So seemingly strong,Spawning destruction
It doesnt take long , No stones left untunred ,Doubting in its path
Sparking wildfires of fury,frenzy and wrath, It's accusative sword
cuts so sharp and sure and the damages done are left with no cure,
It feed on suspicion and distrust tearing at foundation till
crumble to dust , It posins the mind till falsites seem true
Firing , anger, Unreason and hatred on cue
It creeps on your beind, no signal nor sound
Consuming completely , no empathy found
Tenacious reproach this you defend
Till vows onf security are tossed in the wind,
this "Green monster" Dwells in all of us
And we are never prepared when it comes to call
"But if loyalty and reason dare take a firm stand"
This emotion called "Jealousy" cant get out of hand...
Love you!
Starryskye!

I need to learn trust...I hate jealousy, but there are times....
Great post again DS...:)

wow, this is some real life lessons for all the people out there who has struggles in relationships.. jealousy is such a back-stabbing demon that can hit all around us. and we have to evade it. trust is the only way, it is the backbone of long-lasting love and an enemy of jealousy :) great post. love you writings..

The green-eyed monster will destroy love, the tongue can destroy, as well. So sad that some people see jealousy as a badge of honor, a way to show love or be loved. Great post and wonderful insights. Much healing and love to you. xo