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| The C word... |
You know the word I'm talking about... it can keep you awake at night... Some people run to it for it's sense of safety... while others run away from it as fast as they can... I'm of course talking about Commitment. I'm one of the people that runs away from it (it most cases I guess) Anyway... If you read my last manifesto "Ten things guys should learn," well this is the second installment... drum roll please...
Ten things to do / don't do when you're interested in a girl...
1. Don't come on too strong... nobody wants someone who's clingy... an air of mystery is always a good starting point...
2. Give subtle hints... buy us a drink... tell us a joke... act interested in what we're saying (and actually try to be interested)... tell us we look good... simple things that can make a huge impact...
3. DO NOT GET DRUNK AND GROPY... and by gropy I mean don't get drunk and all touchy feely with us... especially if we have just been friends thus far... it can make for an awkward confrontation...
4. In the fashion of number three... If you're going to make an actual move... make sure we're feeling it too...
5. Throw away all those stupid rules guys try to have like waiting three days to call... just do what you feel is appropriate for you..
6. Don't try to jump right into bed with us... Granted a lot of guys are only looking for sex (I didn't say all... but a lot)... The last thing you want to do if you're actually interested in the girl is to jump into bed with her.. especially if she's been drinking... then you end up looking like the guy who let her make a mistake... and trust me... that's not sexy...
7. If she's willing to go on a date with you (an actual date)... when it's over don't necessarily expect to come back to her place with her... drop her off... kiss her goodnight (once again only if it looks like she wants you to)...and leave her wanting more... and by that I mean go home and leave the evening at that...
8. Use good eye contact.... enough said
9. Don't make us feel pressured... for example don't continuously ask us how we feel about you (this is assuming you've already made it known to us that you like us) If we like you too we'll tell you
10. Sometimes you just have to understand that we may not be interested in you.. never rule out being just our friend... sometimes that can lead somewhere else... but you have to understand sometimes people just aren't ready... once again... give it time...
JUST LIKE THE LAST "TEN THINGS" I'D LOVE FEEDBACK...
...until next time...
here's to life... love... and making it out alive...
xoxo
Annabella
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