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 Ten things guys should learn
  1. If you're not interested in us then don't just ignore us... let us know in a non-rude way that you're not interested...
                     Acceptable: "I just don't feel like it's going to work out right now... I'm sorry."
                     Unacceptable: "I don't want to date you." < only unacceptable if said in a snarky tone.

        2.  Make sure we're actually interested in you before attempting to "hit on us." There's nothing I hate more  
             than trying to act polite to a guy we're just not interested in.

        3.  Pick your battles... we know we can be irrational sometimes (or at least once a month) but let us be
             irrational once in awhile (don't let us get out of control but pick your battles and we'll do the same).

        4.  Cute surprises here and there can make our day. I'm not talking large surprises...

                     Example: write a cute note and leave it under our windshield wiper on our car < simple yet effective

        5.  Foreplay should not be an option... iT SHOULD BE A NECCESITY... even a little kissing on the neck can
             work... Just don't walk in and be like, "wanna do it..." cause that's just not sexy.

        6.  Don't just act like we mean the world to you when we're alone... Act like it when we're with others as
             well... especially your good friends... we want to feel like we're the girl that they've been hearing about
             for awhile... like you're proud to be with us

        7.  If we get all dressed up to go out with you... tell us we look beautiful... because chances are we spent a
             lot of time and energy to look good for you

        8.  Never drink whiskey... most men end up either being beligerent or angry... and believe me guys... we
             don't find either attractive.... not to mention the whole idea of "liquor dick."

        9.  Go out with us in a public setting and don't feel obligated to stand by our side the entire night... however,
             don't ignore us all night either... spend some time with us... and maybe give the tush a little squeeze if
             you happen to be behind us ; )

       10.  Guys naturally misunderstand some girls as flirting with them. However, in a lot of instances we're just
               being nice. We do enjoy having guys as our friends... just because we're nice doesn't mean we want
               to necessarily date you or jump into bed with you... Refer to number two...


Well that's all I have for tonight... think about it guys... and of course I would appreciate feedback...


... until next time...

here's to life... love... and making it out alive...

xoxo
Annabella

    Posted by DemotedPrincess on 2008-03-25 22:23:53 | Rating: | Views: 382
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11. Never underestimate the power of words. Small little words like: wow you look pretty, you have the softest skin, your hair is so shiny. Kind words are a great aphrodiasiac(sp).
Posted by  shemelts  on 2008-03-26 10:49:32 
  
How about just a lil' respect?
Good info for dating men.
I like your style- blunt.
I like to be like that too.
Saves time and energy.
Thanks for the comment.
Posted by  DifficultSoul  on 2008-03-26 10:55:36 
  
I love this! It is SO true! Nice blog! :)
Posted by  Mandie142  on 2008-03-26 11:23:49 
  
Thanks guys... I appreciate the positive feedback... I'm thinking about starting a manifesto ha ha...
Posted by  DemotedPrincess  on 2008-03-26 20:33:58 
  
Awesome post. Agree with every word.
Posted by  whoiam  on 2008-03-26 20:46:16 
  
Nice blog. Guys could take notes from it.
Posted by  prelude2it  on 2008-03-26 20:55:08 
  
Being a guy myself I strongly agree with your 10 commandments for being with a girl. I think we end up being so comfortable with the person we are with that we take them for granted. I especially like number 4 and 6. Nice to get a female's view on this kind of stuff. I'm eagerly awaiting your manifesto :-)
Posted by  unusvita  on 2008-03-27 12:08:31 
  
I especially liked No. 6 since I went away with a guy who pretty much ignored me around his friends. At 38 years old, he should have known better! Nice blog.
Posted by  meredith  on 2008-03-27 16:09:06 
  
Good rules. And #10 is a must. I like having guy friends. I and even respect the "I want to *&%$ you." because it's straight up and honest. It's said I say no and it's always been the end of it. Honesty I can deal with.
Posted by  Faith  on 2008-03-27 17:14:18 
  
Great list, guys - listen up!
Posted by  Ellie2008  on 2008-04-16 19:56:34 
  
i love this! it is so so so true!!!! i am all about #1!!!
Posted by  april_michelle  on 2008-07-09 11:23:10 
  
those are all so true! and number one is especially important, cause people usually think of it as being the other way around but that's not always the case.
Posted by  StoriesOfAGirl  on 2008-08-11 04:52:17 
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