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Stressed out on 2008-03-28 09:04:57 |
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Please read my blog, 5 wishes, it will maybe give you somewhere to start with finding yourself. It's helped me in my little quest to finding myself.
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Weird on 2008-03-12 09:22:06 |
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You sound like me, especially the lying about being happy to make others believe you're something you're not so that they don't see past the walls you built and realise that you're actually in pain - always. I don't tell people my issues....hence I blog!
Your blogs are interesting - keep it up!
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Hate. on 2008-03-12 09:15:37 |
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I been going through something at work where this witch is spreading stories about me and I can totally hear what you saying. It sux..... then life goes on!
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Forever Ripped in Two on 2008-03-12 09:06:44 |
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WoW stunning. Good theory.
I can relate to what you saying.
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Misunderstandings on 2008-03-10 09:18:19 |
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You are fortunate to have had the conversation that led to him clarifying that he didn't mean it. It's difficult to talk about feelings. I give you a big thumbs up for talking about it.
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Meeting Mr. Ego on 2008-03-10 05:46:00 |
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you write the words and I read every word and relate to it to the extent that it could have been written by me. Obviously not as well put together. This explains ME. Guess there is someone who can relate to you.....
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i like to think that im stong on 2008-03-06 08:45:02 |
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Hey, your story sounds familiar. My friends bf did the same thing---the whole break thing. We went to his house and he was getting ready to go out for a movie and supper with the stranger sitting in his moms house. His new gf. My friend spent hours on the phone with me telling me how unexpected this was and they don't have problems so why does he need a break....Point is - he was waiting to see how it works out with the new girl and then decide whether he needs my friend. It did work out and he dumped her. It was easier because he hadn't spoken to her for 2 weeks, he e-mailed saying he missed her still wants to be with her and then he dropped the Bomb. I love you but I can't do this anymore. I want out!
He is still with this other girl. Open your eyes sweety, breaks are a prelude to a break-up.
I hope this is not your case and his not getting to know another girl a bit better while keeping you on a string. Just keep your eyes open and don't open yourself up too much. Much love xxx
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Dear Dru, on 2008-03-06 01:16:47 |
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Dear Bubblydi,
I haven't had the courage to give it to him yet? Thanks for the reassurance. I am glad I can relate to someone, it's lonely in my head sometimes.
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The Possession on 2008-03-04 08:44:48 |
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Hi,
I am a newbie here. South African blogs are slow and not as interesting as international - meaning this site.
I enjoy reading your work..... You are amazing!!! Much respect!!!
Deana from Sunny South Africa
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Wild, wasted Friday nights on 2008-03-03 06:36:45 |
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I thought my Boyfriends family & friends were messed up, you take the cup brother! LoL ..... In south africa you'll get fucked up really bad if you left without paying. Count yourself lucky.
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What is Love? on 2008-03-03 03:59:38 |
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A quote describes love as "a friendship that has caught fire".
Love, in an intimate relationship, has some common elements:
ยท "There are feelings of warmth and affection, a strong emotional attachment for another person. A feeling that the other person is important and that you care for and about them.
There is some commitment to the other person. This means that we reach out to the other person and that giving to the other is a pleasure, not a duty. Being committed means that we know that conflict, disagreement and arguments will not result in the relationship breaking up but that we will still love and accept each other.
Love requires some action and hard work. It means that we have to share our feelings and show our caring for the other person. We all show love in different ways, by actions and behaviours, by giving presents, or washing the dishes; by words - by listening and telling, or by touch - kissing, hugging or making love.
Love means we have to take risks and be courageous. There is always a danger of being rejected when we move close to another person or when we share our inner feelings and expose ourselves. We need to encourage the other to share as well and also to accept we can never know everything about them.
Love means that we have to accept the person for what they are - there are some things about them that will never change.
Love means that we are prepared to look at ourselves and our behaviour and to change what we can, if it is hurting the other.
Love means we can accept the other person's differences, respect their ideas, feelings and attitudes.
LOVE IS NOT
total agreement
total admiration and approval
instant understanding
letting someone use you
using someone for your own benefit.
It does not mean someone will rescue us from all our difficulties. Love does not mean that we can hold the other person responsible for our total happiness.
The strong physical attraction, the passion and intense feelings we have in new relationships may develop into something less passionate but just as exciting. As we get to know and understand the other person, we develop confidence, trust and total tolerance for their imperfections. We can remain loyal to them through good and bad times, we can live in the present, plan for the future and let go of the past. We can accept and respect our similarities and differences, we can let them be separate from us and not control or possess them.
Our ability to love and be loved depends very much on our sense of self-worth or self-esteem. We can only truly love someone if we love and respect ourselves. How well do you know yourself, your thoughts and feelings, your emotional needs, your attitudes and values, your behaviour. Can you accept who you are, change the things you dislike and accept the things you can't change. Are you secure enough to be open and honest and to express the love you have inside you ? Learn to love both yourself and the other for, with love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you lack; without it nothing else will be enough.
Hope the above helps you and others in understanding- it sure helped me alot!!! Hugz Deana
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ME on 2008-03-03 02:23:41 |
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Hello to my readers:
Thank you for the comments and I actually told hubby about blogging this weekend, he had no ides what it was and doesn't understand why I tell the world my business but not him. I will definitely write more. Get in touch with me I guess. Lotsa Love Deana
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