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I think this calls for a rant.. Today i read an article that said new spy tech is being developed to catch cheating lovers and read up on the intricacies of teenage childrens lives. One gadget is called something like the Five Minute Infidelity Check and it allows testing of a woman's (or man I guess) underpants. Another one unlocks deleted messages from a person's phone. Now, the serious potential for misuse of these gadgets has been massively underestimated. Many, almost all, spousal killings have to do with sexual jealousy. A woman is more likely to get murdered by her partner, ex partner or male family member than a stranger... and in the case of a partner, it is often the man's sexual jealousy/combined with controlling behaviour and paranoia that drives his final violent expression of aggravation. So now all these controlling psychopaths who probably beat their wives have more information to feed their psychotic paranoia with. imagine a text from a colleague from work named 'Max'
Had a lovely night Bess, thanks a lot for taking me out babe.
How would you read this? A psycho controlling husband would say, "She is sleeping with this Max fellow!" Alternative scenario. Maxine just broke up with her boyfriend and needed a shoulder to cry on, and Bess was nice enough to take her out for a few vodkas to forget her emotional trauma! Argh.
And the issue with teenagers. Children are not a parents "property" and they have their own needs, desires, and lives. Caging them will only alienate them, and if you track their every move like a warped FBI agent, they will grow to view you as someone to be wary of and probably someone they'll dislike- a lot. I'd rather have my kids respect- or at least not have them hate me. (i do not have kids, but whatever...)
So, what else... Um, I had a fight with a friend. I have no friends or a boyfriend right now. Good thing i'm too hung over to care. i wish there was something on TV.
I saw something on relationships which said couples who most likely will perish display four behaviours: Critical, defensive, avoidant type behaviour. (When it comes to arguing.) I forget the forth. I can see how you'd develop contempt for someone over a long period of time. I would have to estimate, as all my potential long termers run screaming in the other direction (what is it, too much perfume?) Ah, fuck em. Give me a nice deserted house on the beach/in the country/ a scary castle where I can leave in peace away from the antics of emotionally stingy male humanoids. Hmm, i'm putting myself in a bad mood again. i feel sick. Better not drink again for a while.
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I was in the mall shopping for a picture frame for a relatively close friend of mine. She had just come home from her honeymoon and we were getting together this coming weekend to catch up and look at her photos . As I was walking into the store I made eye contact with her husband, surprisingly he approached me and we began speaking to one another. Now, I had only met him about three or four times before because after they met she stopped seeing many of her friends as with most new relationships. It was a brief dating period for them, in fact, they were married within five months of meeting each other. He was very pleasant, in fact he was overly nice and was leading into conversations that were making me feel a little uneasy. He started asking personal questions about my relationships and made an inquiry about me going out with a newly married man and how he could really show me a good time. He asked for my cellphone number and would not stop until I gave in,"WHAT A FOOL I AM" Now I don't know what to do, I can't tell my her because it will end my friendship for sure and I can't possibly go to her home and pretend this didn't happen. I confided with another close friend of mine and she told me about this site http://urajerk.com/ At first I thought is was just another one of those sites that pop up here and there but I checked it out. I must say I like it and thats why I am spreading the word. I was able to send him a few cards with some personal anonymous messages, he will know they are from me, but no one else will. I love this site because I can at least tell him that he is a F#%//ng JERK. Has anyone else gone through this crap before? How can men be such assholes? I mean JERKS!!
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Posted by lina4u
on 2008-07-29 06:40:53
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