This site is in the Beta phase.
The staff are doing their best to change certain areas to make this site better.
Give them a little time.
I am sure you will find nowhere better.xx

Thanks Bubblydi & Wayne.

That's right. we are in the process of transferring the site to a more powerful server and are working on a new and improved version that will address many of these issues...

In addition. I can assure you that all those who work on this site already have quite "a life", and not only that...a heck of a lot of heart as well...