it should be more than once a month !
you would deserve atleast 15 mins a day for your self

maybe devote a day every week that you get with your friends. every saturday? Then, maybe an hour alone to yourself while the kids are at school, between chores or something.

Why discriminate and talk only about moms? Everyone needs time for themself, to do their own thing and be with friends.

I know that everyone needs time for themself, but I also think that moms should have time for themself alittle more because they have other peoples lives in their hands. Having to be on alert 24/7. So going out and having fun once a month isn't that bad.

you need time for yourself sweetie. its your life. you should be happy, you deserve it!

I think the phrase "stay at home mom" sounds very depressing. You're the mom so you should be able to have fun when ever you like. You can have fun and be responsible at the same time you know. Or take your kids places if you want to be with them. Just don't waist away at home.