Ok, I have been rolling this around in my head for about a week now, and it has been bothering the crap out of me! I need to get some advice on what everyone else thinks of this, because I dont think it is as innocent as it may seem to my beloved husband. Although your going to have to sit through the back story to understand. Sorry :}
Anyways, my husband has been my best friend since we were in 8th grade, and in highschool, he started dating one of my very close friends. We'll call her Rena. Now, Rena was quite the skank back in that day, and at this point, i was madly in love with him, so when Rena told me about sleeping around on him with several different people, i sprang at the opportunity and told him immidiately. They broke up. We started hanging out. He tried to shoot my ex. (Not joking, but thats a story for another day) We got together. End of story.
Rena and myself did NOT get along after all of that, and didnt speak until about a year ago, and that happened only because we were tricked into it by a mutual friend, but we got everything out in the open and let bygon's be bygon's. Yet i still felt EXTREMELY uncomfortable when the 3 of us got around each other. You see, before me, Rena was my husbands first...well, everything. Girlfriend, kiss, fuck, ect. She is the only person he has a "Serious history" with, and that gives me the wiggins.
Last year, while having a going away party for my husband before he went to Iraq, Rena showed up. This was the first time they had seen each other in the past 3 years we had been together. My stomach did backflips. For most of the night, i was connected to his hip, but at one point when I was making myself yet another drink (So that I could shoot it down to try to shake this nasty feeling in my stomach) I turn around to see the two of them sitting next to each other on the couch in quiet conversation. Their heads were a little too close for my liking, so I yelled to my dear husband "Baby, can you come fix this drink for me? I cant make it as good as you!" He gave me a sideways look from the couch and smiled. He knew what I was doing.
As he rambled into the kitchen, he took my head in his hands and said "Dont be so edgy. you have nothing to worry about!" and then he Laid one on me, which was weird for my hubbs because, being in the AF, he has a huge problem with PDA, and we were surrounded by people. I didnt care though. I could feel Rena's eyes burning into my back. My head was screaming Take that BIATCH! There were a few more incedents in the following hours. Like Rena getting motion sick and then deciding that getting into the BATHTUB would help her feel better, and then my hubbs "Accidently" stumbling into the bathroom while she is sprawled out naked in my bathtub. Luckly, i slammed the door in his face before he had a chance to see anything.( And guys, THATS why girls follow each other to the bathroom all the time.To make sure no one sees our friend naked. especially our hubby's)
Later that week, after my hubbs was packing up for Iraq, i found out that he drunkely told Rena that "He still had feelings for her." When I confronted him, he laughed a whole belly laugh and said "Baby, I was just tryin to get a 3way!" and laughed again.
Yeah, not funny.
(But, knowing my hubbs, most likey true.)
Anyways getting to the point. Last week my hubbs was here for the weekend, and Rena came over again. We decided to get drunk. Dont ask me why. As i was in the kitchen (fixing myself a drink for the same reason as the last time the three of us were in the same room together) I hear a crash, and turn around to see the two of them on my floor, my hubby laying on Rena's back, and has her in a headlock.
THEY WERE WRESTLING EACH OTHER IN MY LIVING ROOM!
I stood in shock and awe, unable to comprehend what my eye-balls were looking at! There is NO WAY that these two could be that FUCKING STUPID! Its impossible!
I blinked. It didnt go away. I beleive that was the point that smoke began to billow out of my ears and RED began to rise in my face. I was Furious.
When Rena went to the bathroom, I gave my hubbs the biggest "Go to hell" look i could muster up from within myself, and if you ask BitterSweet, you dont want to see this look coming from me. Because there is a very good chance that you just might DIE!.
Anyways, when I (As calmly as possible) told my husband that this made me extremely uncomfortable, he blew up at me. All he kept saying is "All I want is for me and her to be able to be friends! Im treating her like I would treat any other friend, and I cant do that because every time i look over at you, you look like your either about to kill me, or cry. Im sick of it." SO he picked up a drink, poured it all over Rena's lap, got into an argument with her over it, and went to bed. I followed him into the bedroom and asked him about it, he said "I did that for you so that she would hate me, so that you would have nothing to worry about!"
Shennanigans!
He did that because he thought it would be funny, and when it wasnt funny, he found a way to turn it into my fault so that he could make me feel bad! SO ladies and gentelman, now that I have THAT SHIT off my chest, i want your oppinions on this.
WTF are these two doing to me? Are they doing this on purpose, or is my husband trying to torture me for all the things he thinks I did to help in the destruction of our current marriage? Because If i dont find out whats going on soon, i think my head is going to explode.
*BOOM*
