Sign Up |  Login

     
 
    My Blog |  Popular Posts |  Top 100 Blogs |  Recent Blogs |  Random Blogs |  Write a Blog |  Manage Categories  
   View Blog
 Real Intimacy

"Our culture has brainwashed us into believing that sex is only good if it's with someone new and involves startling techniques.  But good sex is lovemaking performed with generosity and enthusiasm.  It is not a competition or an opportunity to display prowess.  It is a moment to connect with your partner with complete emotional and physical empathy.  Who is more empathetic, a lover who has come to know his partner's body over time, or a sex partner on the first date?"

"The Velveteen Principles - A Guide To Becoming Real"
Author: Toni Rainten-D'Antonio.

    Posted by ColoradoDreamin on 2008-01-13 15:50:09 | Rating: | Views: 145
  Email This to a Friend  

  Bookmark:
Permalink:  
   Blog Comments
  
Keep the writing coming,we all love the words you have for us.
Posted by  Sexyback  on 2008-01-13 20:16:17 
  
How sad that the two acts are so easily confused!
Posted by  trevorjohn  on 2008-01-14 09:31:54 
  
I agree, good sex is better when both partners give themselves self-lessly to each other during the act. Fantastic sex is when you know that your partner in the act gives themself to you above and beyond the act.

For me it is when I know the person will be there for me afterwards, and knowing they actually care about me, not just the act. :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2008-01-15 15:24:03 
  
Sex is only good when the heart is in it.
Peace.
Posted by  DifficultSoul  on 2008-01-16 16:23:13 
Would you like to comment?

    (Maximum characters: 5000)
    You have characters left.
  
  Security code:  
                        
                         Refresh Image
                         
  Blog Information
 

ColoradoDreamin
Michigan, United States

Latest Posts

 Questions
 Memories - Year 7 --...
 School Daze - Writing...
 Writing Challenge #2
 Memories - Year 7

ColoradoDreamin's Links

 National...
 Big Girls...
 Jesus Take...
 I'm...
 Everything
 Anyway
 You Want...
 The Glow...

Blog Categories

 Writing Challenge

Blog Archive

 September 2008 (3)
 August 2008 (10)
 July 2008 (7)
 June 2008 (12)
 May 2008 (20)
 April 2008 (13)
 March 2008 (17)
 February 2008 (14)
 January 2008 (17)
 December 2007 (5)

Comment Archives

 September 2008 (19)
 August 2008 (154)
 July 2008 (164)
 June 2008 (140)
 May 2008 (198)
 April 2008 (101)
 March 2008 (118)
 February 2008 (125)
 January 2008 (154)
 December 2007 (23)