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Posted in Pet peeve 412# on 2008-05-31 19:00:51

It's been done that way for many many years here in the Motor City. Guess everyone, over the years, has just accepted and gotten used to it. I don't get the paper delivered (since I usually only buy a Sunday edition). If you buy a Sunday edition, from a local store, everything is together.

Posted in Piece Of Cake !!!!!!! on 2008-05-31 12:45:17

Saw this one years ago ... good to read it again. All things do work together for good to those who love the Lord. He "always has" and "always will" have it all under control. Peace.

Posted in To My Thoughts Friends.......... on 2008-05-31 12:42:16

I pray these words for you also, dear Hollis. Peace Be With You

Posted in Positive Attitude.... on 2008-05-31 12:39:30

It's so hard to do this, but necessary if one is to live a peaceful contented life. For me (when it comes to positive thoughts) it's one step forward and two steps back ... but I keep on keeping on. Thanks for the reminder.

Posted in People Suck!! on 2008-05-31 12:33:14

My verdict -- you did good ... handled the man in the check out line perfectly. We all need a "wake up call" or "kick in the pants" from time to time. You gave him just that. He was acting child like and you basically told him to straighten up. Peace & Smiles

Posted in Smile... on 2008-05-31 12:26:46

Well said and quite eloquently I might add. A kinder gentler world starts within ourselves. Here's smiling at you, Douglas. Peace.

Posted in OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES...... on 2008-05-31 12:16:44

"I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." -- Jesus How special. Children are my greatest teachers. The world is in need of a million Riley's. May God bless his kind heart and giving spirit. Peace.

Posted in Mystery Man (a story part 4) Marie on 2008-05-31 12:03:14

Part 4 was fantastic and so well written. A real page turner, Marie. Loved every word.

Posted in My friend.... on 2008-05-31 11:41:39

One of my favorites also. Enjoyed reading and reflecting on it this morning.

Posted in I hid and He found me.... on 2008-05-31 10:38:35

"The question of whether or not there is a God or truth or reality, or whatever you like to call it, can never be answered by books, by priests, philosophers or saviors. Nobody and nothing can answer the question but you yourself and that is why you must know yourself." -- Krishnamurti Peace & Love On Your Journey of Discovery and Enlightenment.

Posted in kissing fool on 2008-05-31 10:25:01

What causes mental suffering is not the environment but the mind itself. -- Muso Kokushi Please Refer to Chapter 78 in your Personal Bible

Posted in kissing fool on 2008-05-31 01:24:15

Meri -- You are human and at the moment in a vulnerable spot. It's hard to live life minus a steady flow of human touch. Kisses are one of the things I miss most living a life without romantic love. As I read your post I thought what would I have done in this situation ... heck ... I would have made out with the guy too and I'm in my mid 50's. There might be a few awkward moments come Monday morning, but in no time at all it will all blow over and settle down. Forgive and be easy on yourself. Peace, Hugs & Love

Posted in Question of the Day on 2008-05-31 00:56:06

I have not crushed on anyone here on thoughts. I had two Internet relationships end in heartbreak and I came to thoughts to hide out, heal and improve my writing skills. At this point in my life I have no desire to put my heart out there to be trampled on and broken. One thing missing from my life is girlfriends. It's a mystery to me how (in my mid 50's) I ended up with not one girlfriend. Quite to my surprise I have found lots of girl pals here on thoughts. I'm overjoyed to have finally found a group of women who accept, care about, support, love and pray for me.

Posted in I hid and He found me.... on 2008-05-31 00:30:58

Cheb -- Please delete the comment above ... this is the one to keep... Cheb -- What a beautiful expression of your heart felt thoughts and feelings. When it comes to spiritual matters I believe everyone has to find the path that's right for them. For me it's not about religion or labels .... it's about a relationship with a Loving Heavenly Father. A Father who before He formed me in the womb knew me ... before I was born He set me apart as His special child. He loves not with a human love ... but with an everlasting love. He's a gentleman who will never force you to believe in Him ... but like a smitten lover he will woe you to the ends of the earth. Could you ever turn your back on Stanley ... not in a million years .... not even if he rejected you. That's the kind of love God has for His children. He hears and answers the prayers said on their behalf even if those children don't believe He exists. I have seen to many miracle moments to ever believe in mere coincidences. I wish you many blessings and miracles as you embark on this journey of faith and discovery. You have been in my prayers since I read your first post and that will not be changing. Peace & Love

Posted in As long as I have Penny I will be OK on 2008-05-30 22:33:49

Loved the Season Finale of "Lost". For me it was the best one ever. Also loved your thoughts and insights on the characters of Jack and Locke. I think your insights are correct. In each episode I draw parallels to my life and take away a lesson or two. Penny and Desmond were destined to be together. She never gave up on him even though he had. Just like in life when we believe for another who has lost all faith and hope. The faith and love of one person can be enough for both. The next season of "Lost" should be most interesting. I'm looking forward to it. Peace.

Posted in Mystery Man (a story part 4) Marie on 2008-05-30 12:51:05

Printing out Part 4 to put on my night stand. Of late your writings have been my bedtime stories. I'm in love and hooked on your characters. How blessed I am to have found you and your amazing writing. This needs to be in print for the world to enjoy. Peace.

Posted in Got a Light? on 2008-05-30 12:36:26

Just what I needed to read today. Even in your time of difficulty you are speaking words of healing and truth to the walking wounded. I know (without a doubt) I wouldn't be the compassionate, caring person I am today had it not been for life's trials. When we are an eye witness to the Almighty showing himself strong on our behalf our faith is increased. Nothing is to hard for God. The hope and faith held in our hearts is out of the reach of humanity. The promises of the creator of the universe are true ... He truly knows the plans He has for us ... plans to prosper us ... to keep harm at bay ... plans that include hope and a wonderful future. Blessings Of Hope, Love & Peace

Posted in Freaky Friday Freakin alarm clock on 2008-05-30 12:15:00

I'm so not a morning person. But then most nights finds me drifting off to dreamland at 3:00 - 4:00 a.m. I'm so thankful that, as a Realtor, most people want to view homes during the late afternoon or evening hours. If I had a job with regular hours I would have to work the afternoon shift. Have a wonderful weekend. It's now around 2:00 a.m. Australian time. Hope you are having a wonderful dream and sleeping peacefully. Peace.

Posted in Everybody has a Hungryheart on 2008-05-30 12:06:31

I have been in both situations and since every situation is unique I will speak of my personal experience. For me the harder of the two was the man at the tip of my fingertips as I couldn't tell him my feelings. For many years I pretended to be "just his friend" so I could be near him. Since I was married I knew (because of his belief system) that if I ever let my real feelings show I would be gone from his life in a flash. With the faraway man I was at least able to say "I Love You", flirt with him and send him cards with words of love and devotion. The feelings of love are way to powerful to have to be held in secret. It's pure torture (at least it was for me) when absolutely no way of expression is an available option.

Posted in Question Of The Day on 2008-05-30 00:54:43

Difficult Soul -- Spiritual Mentor, Deep Thinker, Sometimes Mysterious, beautiful kind heart, loving, caring, compassionate, speaker of the truth. I'm praying for you, DS DavisTheBlackEagle -- Positive ... Speaks the truth in love Meredith -- Amazing Author, Cinderella searching for her Prince Charming, Tender Hearted, Caring, Kind, Passionate, Vulnerable, Genuine, Beautiful inside and out. BootLady -- Witty and Funny AngelWings -- Always there with a kind or encouraging word. Sensitive, Caring, Empathic SoulUnderConstruction -- Polite, good manners, a true gentleman, wise Geordiedreamer -- Could teach most men a thing or two about being a man. Has a tender caring side, knows how to use his words, admits when he's wrong and is not afraid to show feeling and emotion ... Great Father Chebtastic -- Courageous, genuine, caring, kind, when she had a chance at happiness she reached out and grabbed it. She makes me believe that dreams can and do come true. Anotherdaze -- New friend, beautiful heart and spirit, caring, dedicated wife and mother. Looking forward to getting to know her better. BlueMoomInMyEye - Fantastic writer who can see a bit of humor in the worst situations. Honest and direct ... doesn't beat around the bush ... a trait I greatly admire in people. KeepDreaming -- Caring, kind, never gives up on anyone EasyToSay -- Friend, A shoulder to cry on ... Saint ... Tigress when it comes to her children. Genuine, open, vulnerable, courageous and honest. Any man who wins her heart will be one lucky man. Roe -- Unique, love her writing style and use of color. In many situations we see life the same way. Whiteknight -- A man of integrity who takes his promises and commitments to heart. Worthy of appreciation, love and happiness. Trevorjohn -- heart of gold ... leader ... pioneer ... she will make a huge difference in this world. Bullseye -- Deserves the Father of the Year Award in the true sense. He could teach every man out there a thing or two about being a father. Lastblastk -- Woman of courage who is just beginning to see the beauty she possesses. Beacon of hope to any woman who is in (or has been) in an abusive relationship. Living proof there is hope and new beginnings on the other side of darkness. MissMarie -- Story Teller, Kind Caring, Sweet, Passionate HungryHeart -- Kind hearted man, Gentleman. Took the time to speak to me at a time I was feeling very unlovable. He deals with the difficulties in his life with grace and dignity. Hollis -- Chicken Soup For My Soul, inspirational, caring, kind, prayer warrior TonyRayHutchinson -- Poet, great father, kind, caring, passionate, vulnerable and a brand new Detroit Red Wing fan :) Prelude2it -- Courageous, kind, caring, vulnerable, genuine, honest. The night I read her entire story I cried buckets. Another Cinderella in search of her Prince Charming. Loves unconditionally. Ellie -- wise, sensible, strong, courageous, prayer warrior, knows who she is, not afraid to let go so she can receive something better, teacher, mentor, woman of faith. I miss you Ellie. KP -- Courageous, kind, caring, genuine, vulnerable, honest, another person who carries her trials with dignity and grace. Douglas -- A wise sage SeanBarr -- Great descriptive writer, dedicated family man, genuine, a gentleman, helpful StanleyThomas -- Cute, adorable, precious. I know I have forgotten someone. There are so many amazing wonderful people here. Each one of you bless my life in your own unique way. The diary I would like to read ... DavisTheBlackEagle. I know he has faced some challenges and would like to know his entire story as I know he would include the lessons he has learned. Peace To All

Posted in Life, Thought of the Day.... on 2008-05-29 23:24:51

My drink of choice ... a fruit smoothie.

Posted in No Dream Guy in my Bad Dream on 2008-05-29 16:37:15

I agree with what's been said above. Reading your dream was like reading every worry and fear you have posted about and having each one come true. When I was grieving the suicide death of a friend I learned the term "crazy with grief". You are grieving my sweet friend and grief doesn't stop when sleep overtakes our body, mind and spirit. I love Indian culture and the traditions that are so prevalent in the Southwestern United States. When I visited the Grand Canyon I bought a dream catcher. It's hung in the sleeping area and it's purpose is to catch all dreams, good or bad. The bad dreams caught in the webbing are burned off by the first morning light. Good dreams that are caught know their way to the hole in the center and filter down into the feathers, being held there to be dreamed another night. I know it's a legend, but one that appeals to me. I have been alone in my bed for over 10 years. When I first found myself alone I bought a cute cuddly Teddy bear. When I awaken from a bad dream I grab him. While this may seem very immature and childish it's something that works for me. We can't always have the life we wish for ... or a warm body beside us at night. Like someone I used to know always said .... "Lord help me be creative." Peace & Sweet Dreams, EasyToSay

Posted in Life, Thought of the Day.... on 2008-05-29 16:17:04

Amen ... and a double Amen to chocolate. Great Post ... Loved It!!!!!

Posted in I Got Puked On - But Couldn't Be Happier! on 2008-05-29 12:28:14

Hi Cheb -- I'm not a Mum so don't have first hand experience dealing with what you are experiencing, but I'm enjoying reading about this part of the journey. I'm glad the breastfeeding went well. When it doesn't there can much drama and worry for a woman. My mom wanted to breast feed, but her milk never came in. She was just devastated and felt like a failure. Didn't help matters that I was a colicky baby who couldn't seem to keep the formula down. Your joy in all this is contagious. Your recent posts never fail to bring a smile to my face. Peace.

Posted in As I See Myself Through The Eyes Of A Mother on 2008-05-29 01:45:04

Beautiful poem. Thank you for posting it here for all to enjoy. I always felt less than and not beautiful as a child also ... never finding my place to fit in. There are many days those childhood feelings visit me in the here and now. Welcome to thoughts. I look forward to reading more penned from your hand. Peace.

Posted in What do we really need? on 2008-05-28 17:07:22

I read all the way to the end and couldn't agree more. I don't have cable TV or a large screen plasma TV. I learned a long time ago that "stuff" doesn't make you happy. Usually more miserable as something isn't working properly, needs repairing or has to be upgraded. Contrary to popular belief the best gifts can't be found at Target or any other store for that matter. A walk in a park, a picnic under a shade tree, a hug, a hand to hold, a kiss, cuddling in front of a campfire, a flower, a butterfly, a rainbow, or an ocean sunset are just some of the things that hold meaning for me. I'm going to email you the link to a little movie I think you might enjoy. It takes a few minutes to load so patience is required. Peace.

Posted in An empty place... on 2008-05-28 16:44:55

Hi Douglas -- I was so blown away by the comment you left Meredith that I came over here to meet the man behind the words. I'm glad you didn't make this post private as I wouldn't have had the opportunity to meet your Grandfather and learn from his wisdom. I loved when you said .... "He taught me that my imagination would take something good and pure and twist it to something bad... that I had to think of good things first, but be prepared for bad." He sounds like a fantastic man. I still grieve and shed tears for people who have been gone 10 years. Remember Douglas ..... big boys don't cry ..... real men do. Peace.

Posted in It is not all about you on 2008-05-28 15:01:26

Link to the story http://www.startribune.com/lifestyle/faith/19059069.html

Posted in The Heat is On on 2008-05-28 01:16:15

Great post. You had me going girl. The ending came as a complete surprise. Superb writing, Easy.

Posted in Question of the Day on 2008-05-28 01:01:41

I really like this question too. Another song that holds much meaning for me, at this time in my life, is "The Heart of the Matter" by India Arie. I started out my very first post, here on thoughts, with the following words from the song .... "The more I know, the less I understand All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again."

Posted in English by birth, Geordie by the grace of God on 2008-05-27 20:58:34

Stan --- Sounds like your day, spent in the glow of your daddy's love, was amazing. Hugs, cuddles, and kisses, little man from me to you. Love Aunt Colorado

Posted in Question of the Day on 2008-05-27 20:04:08

For me there isn't any one song that stands above the rest. More songs than I can count hold very special memories ... a few notes and I'm transported back to "another time --- another place." Each song spending time in that #1 position at different times in my life. One song "Color My World" by Chicago takes me back to the memory of my high school prom. As I walked into prom it was the song that was playing. That evening was so magical for me as it was my first formal dance. I felt like a princess in my long yellow formal dress. My boyfriend presented me with a small bouquet of sweet smelling pink carnations. Before that night I had never smelled a carnation. From that day forth pink carnations have been my favorite flower ... another reminder of that special evening so long ago.

Posted in Always bet on black lung on 2008-05-27 19:13:41

This post reminded me of something Maya Angelou talked about in an interview. She was saying how some people like to torture others with small digs throughout the day ... digs that slowly wear down the self esteem and spirit of another. Maya referred to this practice as being pecked to death by ducks. She went on to say she would much rather prefer a clean kill.

Posted in Question of the Day - all responses welcome on 2008-05-27 01:20:42

As a teenager I visited the beautiful state of Colorado and fell in love with all the beauty found there. It took me over 30 years to return. The majestic peaks, sweet smelling pines, abundant wildflowers and Aspens (yellow in the higher elevations ... during my visit) were what my spirit had been longing for. The mountains bring peace and calm to my spirit. Colorado feels like "home" to me ... I can't wait to visit again. I'm a person who deals with homesickness when I'm away from home so I find it a bit odd as I go about my days in Michigan that I'm homesick for Colorado. Therefore my screen name borrowed from the Mamas and Papas' song "California Dreamin" ... I changed the state name to Colorado to reflect the place I dream about. Peace.

Posted in Love Yourself on 2008-05-27 00:45:14

Angel ... poetry comes in all different forms and styles. What makes a poem good is the feeling and emotion it conveys to the reader. This poem conveyed both to this reader. Buy a blank greeting card for your guy and tuck this inside. Life is to short to keep the loving words in our hearts hidden. Peace.

Posted in I Quit on 2008-05-26 23:54:35

Congratulations on quitting smoking. Good luck also with the guy you met online. He sounds very special. Peace.

Posted in It amazes me how dumb my wife thinks I am on 2008-05-26 23:50:09

You are most welcome. I was a bit worried I had been to direct with you. Beating around the bush doesn't seem to be my style. It's very easy for the mind to run away with things, especially when those things involve the heart. Happens to me more times than I care to admit. It's good that you are addressing this situation in an adult manner with respect and honesty. I wish you and your wife much luck, love and happiness. Peace.

Posted in SCOTTIES TRIBUTE..... on 2008-05-26 19:52:10

Karen -- This post so touched my heart. What a beautiful and meaningful way to honor this special little boy. A little boy who graced this world for a short time, but whose spirit will grace the hearts of everyone who knew him for all time. Peace.

Posted in flying without wings on 2008-05-26 19:07:26

I so enjoy these "happy" update posts. Babies change and grow so very quickly ... stay in the moment and enjoy each and every second of these precious moments of childhood. It sounds like you are already doing just that. Peace, Hugs & Love To All Of You.

Posted in Storm on 2008-05-26 18:55:47

Beautiful song ... reminds me of my favorite prayer that always brings a sense of peace and calm to my spirit. The Prayer for Protection The light of God surrounds me; The love of God enfolds me; The power of God protects me; The presence of God watches over me; Wherever I am, God is, and all is well! Amen

Posted in My Question of the Day is.... on 2008-05-26 18:51:29

I can't seem to pick one, Hollis, as I could write a book on the things I would like to change, so decided to pick three..... I wish I had not spent so many years living in fear, guilt and shame and allowing myself to be a doormat for others to step on. I wish I could change where I live. I wish I had better eyesight. I have always hated wearing glasses ... contacts don't work for me anymore and either will lasik.

Posted in question of the day on 2008-05-26 00:38:37

Summer evenings .... when fireflies light up the night and the symphony of the crickets lull me to sleep. I love the quiet of the night .... my creative juices flow and it's when my best writing ideas are conceived. I love to stay up late writing or curled up with a good book. There is less noise ... no distractions and no voices to listen to or converse with.

Posted in It amazes me how dumb my wife thinks I am on 2008-05-25 23:58:31

Welcome to thoughts Screwedagain. Sorry that troubled times bring you to our little blogging community. The first thing you need to realize is you have absolutely no control over what another person does. The only control you have is your response to the actions of another. If you wife wants to see this former boyfriend she will do it. People can be very creative when it comes to these sorts of things. Trouble in a marriage doesn't come out of the blue. It brews for awhile and then explodes like a volcano. You did not say how long you have been married or if you and your wife are close. From your post it's pretty obvious there is trouble in paradise. The barn door is open and the horse is very restless and eyeing the barn door. The fact that your wife refused to talk with you about this and your response was to sneak around and figure out a way to get into her email account tells me there is a lack of communication and respect in your marriage. Problems and thoughts and feelings most likely are not discussed openly and honestly. Actually I don't think your wife thinks you are dumb. When people embark on an affair part of them wants to get caught. Since your wife can't talk to you in words and communicate what the problem is in your marriage she is using the cell phone bill to communicate with you. The message being that things are not going well ... her needs are not being met .... something is missing in your marriage .... she is lonely ... etc. etc. For any relationship to work, open honest communication is a requirement, not an option. Stop sneaking around reading her emails and go to her. Voice your concerns about the lack of communication in your marriage. Tell her you want things to be better (only if you do, of course) and ask her what changes could be made to get things back on the right track. If you are someone who could handle going to a counselor suggest that. You can't force her to open up and talk to you ... all you can do is try. Hopefully it's not to late to mend what is wrong in this relationship. I wish you much luck in all this. Peace.

Posted in Here I am, World! on 2008-05-25 22:02:57

Welcome to thoughts. You would be very surprised how many people care (and read) what one has to say. I also disagree that you can't write ... this was one of the finest first posts I have read in quite some time. If I may make one tiny suggestion ... you might want to consider using a bigger font. I had to copy and paste your post into notepad so I could read it without eye strain. Of course I'm much older than you and the eyes aren't what they used to be. Hope you enjoy the thoughts experience. Peace.

Posted in My Amazing Lady on 2008-05-25 20:31:52

David -- When we are used to handling things on our own and keeping our real thoughts and feelings hidden because the people around us don't understand or make fun of us it takes time to change those patterns. I'm sure Cheb knows in her heart that you are there .... that she can tell you anything, but it's not something she is used to doing. My mother-in-law was a difficult person to get along with. As a diabetic she wouldn't allow my father-in-law to have any kind of candy or sweets in the house. "Dad" loved sweets so he would hide them from her. One day (several years after her death) I was visiting "Dad" and came across this huge stash of candy hidden away in a drawer. Dad didn't have to hide his candy anymore, but he was so used to doing it that he still did. Rome wasn't built in a day, David. It takes time to let go and change the survival skills that life has forced us to implement. You are actually handling this correctly .... keep doing what you are doing. Opening up and trusting another takes time ... especially for any woman who has been in an abusive relationship. Peace.

Posted in Something to start your Weekend... on 2008-05-25 14:49:04

The warm fuzzies are taking a holiday along with the rest of us. Enjoy the holiday weekend, Hollis. Peace.

Posted in Magic Mim and the thoughts devotee on 2008-05-25 14:27:15

Blazing Hot ... Chili Pepper Hot ... Post, Easy ... Loved It!

Posted in My First Cuddle on 2008-05-25 01:42:40

Hi Stan -- Sounds like a very busy day for someone so new to this world. How wonderful that you got to share a "first" cuddle with your Mum and Dad. You will find that Grandmothers are wonderful. They will spoil you rotten, shower you with gifts and feed you yummy treats from the cookie jar. Naps are very important ... even when you are all grown up. Was very pleased that you used your wait time wisely to catch 40 winks. Take Care. Lots of Hugs & Kisses - Aunt Colorado

Posted in whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 00:10:45

I'm not a Mum, but many of my girlfriends and my own Mother went through this. Your body is doing a lot of adjusting right now and remember you just had major surgery (c-section) so your body is healing as well as dealing with a rush of hormonal changes. Remember the Beatles song .... "Let It Be". It will pass and everything will settle down for you. Be honest with your feelings .... talk it all out with David or your Mum. This is nothing to feel shameful or embarrassed about. Many movie actresses and public figures, here in the States, have gone public talking openly about their experience with post partum depression. Lean on others ... now is not the time to be superwoman and try and do it all on your own. I remember how overwhelmed my sister was after her daughter was born. Her mind was racing and she was thinking about school, college etc. Finally she just had to tell herself to get a grip. Raising a child is a step by step process. She made herself focus on the moment at hand and the next thing that needed doing ... whether it was changing a nappy (diaper), feeding or giving a bath. Stay in the moment, remember to breathe and enjoy every second of being a Mum. Peace & Love To You

Posted in today i held my boy on 2008-05-24 23:56:24

Sloppy is perfect for such an occasion as this. What a beautiful, heartwarming, priceless moment. Thank you for sharing it with all of us. Looking forward to your next update. Peace.

Posted in I AM BOILING MAD!!!!!!! on 2008-05-24 21:23:21

Amen Roe ... On Grey's that would be Dr. George O'Malley played by actor, T.R. Knight

Posted in HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY BOY!!!! on 2008-05-24 20:49:25

Happy Birthday Scottie! My First Birthday in Heaven Calling all the angels-- It's a special day today! For Scottie's turning 6 years old! Here's what he has to say: "Mommy, please dry all your tears; I know you miss me so. And if it had been up to me, I'd never have chosen to go." "For I knew that you would miss me And the things that we could do, And I wish I could have stayed on earth And lived down there with you." "But, Mommy, now I'm well and whole; I sing and play all day With all the angel boys and girls Who've come to heaven to stay." "Lord Jesus holds us in His arms And tells us of His love; He knew that we were hurting-- That's why we came above." "I love you, Mommy, every day; I send you kisses, too. And some day you will join me here And I'll always be with you." "I've got to go--the party's on! We'll sing and dance and play. But I am always in your heart And never far away." "Please find a way to celebrate, Even if you cry; Perhaps you'll send me some balloons Soaring to the sky." "And I will know they came from you, And I'll be flying near. I send you love and kisses, too. I love you, Mommy, dear." Adapted From A Poem Written By: Saralyn McAfee Smith robbiesmith.com

Posted in Thrown together .. yes I'm bored! on 2008-05-24 19:43:07

Beautiful poem. Loved the line "hearing the rhythm of your voice". RF (the guy who shares my birthday) had the greatest voice in the world. Hearing him would make my heart flutter and bring feelings of calmness and safety to my spirit. That I will most likely never hear his voice again makes me sad. Just like Katydids said our poems and words do captivate each other's feelings. Peace.

Posted in How do guys do it?? ... really?? on 2008-05-24 19:34:13

It's the same here in Michigan. More women mowers than men. Before I had allergies and asthma I did all the mowing, edging and whipper snipping (known as weed whacking) here. Knew all about the mower, the oil etc. Also about unplugging the spark plug when cleaning underneath near the blade. I actually enjoyed it and was quite particular about the whole thing. I would cut diagonally because it looked nicer and at times even go over the lawn twice (once in straight lines and again diagonally). I mowed twice a week as the less you take off at one time the less stress it puts on the lawn. If possible it's best to leave the clippings on the lawn as it puts nutrients back into the soil and makes for a healthy root system. Also no worries about emptying the catcher. Now I have to make other arrangements for the lawn cutting. It doesn't look as neat and tidy as when I did it, but it gets done. Just last week my business partner and I were waiting at a house we were going to show a client. As we were waiting we watched a woman mowing the grass and I commented to him that when I was growing up in the (50's and 60's) you rarely saw a woman mowing the lawn and now it's mostly women who are doing it. So Easy here in the U.S. you would have lots of female company when you were out mowing. Peace & Love To You

Posted in My Happy Hair Dance on 2008-05-23 23:06:16

Great post. I have tried coloring myself, but never liked the results. Several months ago I said forget it, I'm 55 now and I'm going natural. After my last hair cut I looked in the mirror and to my horror there it was ... a huge patch of grey right in the front. I made an appointment immediately to have this taken care of. Seems I'm not ready for gray .... maybe when I turn 60. With allergies and super sensitive skin my scalp feels like crap for days. This time however I tried a new salon ... the color they use is from Italy and is yogurt based. No burning or watering eyes when applied and my scalp feels fine today ... if I had known about the Happy Hair Dance I would have boogied down right in the salon ... next time I will. For those sensitive types like myself the brand name of the color is Kemon.

Posted in Aren't we a clever mummy and daddy?? on 2008-05-23 21:27:27

Ran across Stan's blog earlier today before reading this post. When I saw it I thought ... what a wonderful brilliant idea. I couldn't wait to leave a comment and put in a request for Stan to be my friend. This little guy is very special to all of us on thoughts. Thank you for sharing your son. I'm blessed to have you, Cheb and Stan in my life. Peace.

Posted in Eyes to break a thousand hearts.... on 2008-05-23 21:15:59

Thanks for the update, David. What a magical and special time for you and Cheb. I was especially touched when you said you were a sensitive soul and would be there to help Cheb deal with all the adjustments a woman goes through after giving birth. The love you and Cheb share inspires me. Sending along lots of hugs and good wishes. Peace.

Posted in steven curtis chapman on 2008-05-23 20:11:23

Hi Sandra -- Was wondering if anyone on thoughts had posted about this. Did a search and found your blog. This family has been on my mind all day. I think Steven's music has touched all of us at one time or another. I have seen him in concert several times ... one time even driving out of state to attend a concert. They must be devastated. I especially feel sorry for the son who accidently ran his little sister over. The whole family is so in need of many prayers and they are most certainly in mine. Peace.

Posted in a black fly in my chardonnay on 2008-05-23 15:28:51

Thanks for the invite to the pity party. I host quite a few myself. I feel the same way you do ... just no desire to meet anyone or go out. My heart is still in a cast from the last two men who broke my heart and my physical therapy sessions have not been going well. I feel myself withdrawing. On the plus side I'm writing and reading books that have sat unread on my bookshelf for years. If I lived in New York we could go the spa and both have a massage. Sorry can't buy the old thing .... I'm a 55 year old woman who sadly feels older everyday. Happy Memorial Day weekend Meredith. If you can't find anything to do .... root for the Detroit Red Wings .... the Stanley Cup playoffs start tomorrow. This Motown girl would appreciate your support. Peace.

Posted in I helped foty ... or did I !???? on 2008-05-23 14:03:07

Easy .... again handled with brilliance. You need to write a book on dealing with these kind of situations ... maybe even a book geared at children who are dealing with the new routines and changes that divorce brings. Others could benefit from all you are learning. I know it would be a best seller and then you would have the money when it comes time to pay FOTY the rest of the money. Peace.

Posted in Girls listen .. found out a male Secret!! on 2008-05-23 13:15:29

Great post that brought a smile to my face. Anotherdaze ... the thing about fire worried me to ... keep a robe right by the bed ... so if the house is burning down you can grab it on the way out. Peace.

Posted in The Irony is not lost .... 4th July.... on 2008-05-23 13:00:49

The 4th of July is my favorite holiday. I'll bring the sparklers and watermelon. This post reminded me of the song "Independence Day" by Martina McBride. While your situation is not the same as the women in the song (she's in a violent relationship) you share common ground with her as a woman who has been crushed and hurt by a man who promised to love, cherish and keep your heart safe. The chorus goes as follows...... Let freedom ring Let the white dove sing Let the whole world know that today is a day of a reckoning Let the weak be strong Let the right be wrong Roll the stone away Let the guilty pay It's Independence Day I'll email you the link for the video. Peace.

Posted in Hang on ... wait a minute ... whats this on 2008-05-23 12:44:40

Great post, Easy. Passion and emotion (many emotions) are a part of being alive. Many of our hearts are wounded and bleeding. An open heart is a vulnerable heart. As our wounds bump into each other there's bound to be some disagreements, misunderstandings and hurt feelings. When I lost my desire to control others I found that my words offended less often. I'm barely getting along in my own life ... how can I know or make any kind of judgment about the life of another. People are doing the best they can with the hand that life has dealt them. Many years ago, a priest during his homily, said something that I will never forget ... "life is very messy ... while we would like it to be all neat and tidy it just isn't ... learn to make peace with messiness". I would love to have a magic wand that would fix and help each person on here, but that's not within my power. All I can do is encourage and love others in their brokenness and hope the same grace is extended to me. There is a quote by J. Masai that I love ..... "Feelings are everywhere -- be gentle." Peace & Love

Posted in my grand entrance! on 2008-05-23 12:05:29

Welcome to thoughts and to the world, Stan. I just couldn't resist your cute and adorable picture so here I am leaving you a comment. Everyone here loves your Mum and Dad. We hold them in our thoughts and prayers daily. You also, my dear Stan, have been prayed for and everyone on thoughts feels like a proud Aunt and Uncle now that you have arrived safe and sound. Sleep peacefully, my sweet baby boy. You not only have your parents love, but a whole community of bloggers love, care and are praying for you. Sending lots of hugs and cuddles. Peace & Love - Aunt Colorado

Posted in Is there anybody out there? on 2008-05-23 11:45:32

Hi Kaybee -- Welcome to thoughts. Loved your first post and hope to read more penned from your hand (or computer keyboard). I joined last December and it has been a great experience. I expected to find a place to put down my thoughts and feelings, but didn't expect to find a community of caring, kind people. Again welcome to the community. Enjoy your stay here. Peace.

Posted in When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 00:43:40

Cheb -- What an awesome reflective post, filled with great advise. Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful son. Cheb, from your very first post I have felt a connection with you. Through all the twists and turns (leaving your abusive relationship, your pregnancy, birth of Stan etc) I have prayed for you asking God to surround you with his blessings, love and protection. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you as little Stan grows stronger and bigger each day. I wish You, David and Stan all the best. Take care of yourself and enjoy every minute of being a Mum. Peace, Love & Hugs

Posted in Pain Inside.... on 2008-05-22 01:04:16

I care and am praying for you.

Posted in Alone.... on 2008-05-22 01:01:31

Be merciful to me, O Lord, for I am in distress; my eyes grow weak with sorrow, my soul and my body with grief. But I trust in you, O Lord; I say, "You are my God." My times are in your hands; Hollis -- So many times when I have been beside myself there you were with words of encouragement and a cyber hug. So many nights when I felt alone I came to your blog, listened to the music and read your inspirational posts and came away feeling someone in this world cared about me. Tonight it's my turn to care for you. Sending along caring thoughts and many cyber hugs. I'm just a mouse click away. Take care my sweet friend. Hope tomorrow finds your dark night of the soul a distant memory.

Posted in Update on 2008-05-21 23:16:20

Gush away ... you are so entitled. I'll be offering a prayer of thanksgiving for baby Stan's safe arrival and asking God to send His angels to watch over and keep Stan safe and well. Peace.

Posted in Giving Foty "How to be a better parent" on 2008-05-21 17:26:24

Another great job maneuvering through the mine fields of your "new" life. I took a very deep breath before reading your post so I could get through it calmly and not end up leaving a "rant". Take care my sweet friend. Give those little ones a hug from Auntie Colorado. Peace.

Posted in for my boy with love from daddy on 2008-05-21 17:17:44

What a perfect lullaby for an amazingly beautiful perfect little boy. Congratulations again on the arrival of your precious little one. Peace & Love

Posted in The necklace on 2008-05-21 17:11:58

Heartwarming post. Loved It.

Posted in Have I Ever on 2008-05-21 16:47:31

Just beautiful. As someone who has experienced love via a computer screen I can relate to all the feelings and emotions the author is feeling. Thanks for much for sharing this. Peace.

Posted in Waiting on 2008-05-21 16:43:25

Great quotes. Thanks for sharing.

Posted in don't give me any static! on 2008-05-21 16:32:51

Beautifully said. Wishing you a static free day ... perfect in every way. Peace.

Posted in My Pup, My Sunshine on 2008-05-21 16:19:26

Oh Angel, my heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry for you loss. I have never had a pet, but remember how I fell in love (in 10 minutes time) holding that little puppy at the pet store a few weeks back. How wonderful that this little guy had someone as loving and kind as you to care for him during his short life. Lots of *cyber hugs* from me to you. Peace & Love

Posted in I'm Thankful on 2008-05-21 16:07:35

I'm thankful for this post that lifted my spirits and brought to mind all the ordinary things that grace my life on a daily basis. Peace.

Posted in UNDERWEAR DUST on 2008-05-21 16:01:09

Good one ... thanks for the smiles today. Peace.

Posted in Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 14:24:31

What wonderful news. I spent most of last night praying for you guys. Welcome to the world Stanley Thomas. You, Cheb and Stan will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Give Cheb and Stan a big hug from me. Congratulations. Peace.

Posted in Happy Birthday to ROE (21st May 2008) on 2008-05-21 14:07:02

Sent you an email, Roe, but will also add my birthday wishes here. Happy Birthday, Roe. Hope your day is perfect in every way.

Posted in My kinda place!! What do you think? on 2008-05-21 14:04:08

How nice. The thoughts community is a placed filled with many caring, kind real friends. I would be lost and very lonely without this place. Peace.

Posted in Hockeytown Red Alert on 2008-05-21 12:47:05

The Stanley Cup is the most coveted ice hockey club championship trophy in the world, awarded annually to the National Hockey League (NHL) champion. Much more information and picture of the Stanley Cup can be found at .... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanley_Cup

Posted in Urgent Help Needed!!!!!! Please Read! on 2008-05-21 12:40:02

Sending along many prayers.

Posted in Living a Health Life after Breast Cancer on 2008-05-21 01:12:24

Welcome to thoughts. Glad that your cancer is behind you and you are enjoying good health. I totally agree Faith and Attitude (and Hope) make all the difference ... during the storms in our lives and during our most ordinary days. Hope you enjoy writing here. Peace.

Posted in the birds and the bees talk on 2008-05-21 01:05:30

Great post. I loved it.

Posted in Do you just know?? on 2008-05-21 01:02:05

Just stopped by to catch up with you ... loved the post and the many wonderful insightful comments. The things of love remain a mystery to me so I have nothing to add to the comments here. Peace.

Posted in Sorry on 2008-05-21 00:06:57

Good luck with the move, MissMarie.

Posted in Stanley Cup on 2008-05-21 00:02:53

Let the games begin. Should be a most interesting series. As a Motown girl I'll be rooting my Red Wings on. May the best team win. Peace.

Posted in An Anniversary passes.... on 2008-05-20 23:47:05

Crystal -- What a beautiful song and lovely tribute to your Dad. May you feel him watching over you from heaven. Peace.

Posted in Walk with me on 2008-05-20 17:48:03

Well said White Knight. Better to live life alone than be with the wrong one. I think the second choice is even lonelier than the first. Peace.

Posted in I Got a Book Deal! on 2008-05-20 15:55:39

Congratulations what awesome news. Will keep you in thought and prayer as you race to meet your many deadlines. Peace.

Posted in Lie Detector test .. anyone? on 2008-05-20 15:43:55

EasyToSay ... You are truly amazing. I guess it's a good thing I was never blessed with children as I could never do what you are doing. FOTY's words "So what do we do?" really got to me. It's like he's another child and you are the Mum to him also. He looks to you to wipe his nose and put a bandage on his booboos. The guys a grown man ... time he stood on his own two feet, took responsibility for his actions and was allowed to suffer the consequences for his screw ups. If he can't figure out how to have a relationship with his kids ... tough sh**. My heart breaks everytime I read of your two little darlings crying and not wanting to go to daddy's for a sleep over. Bless you Easy and Bless your two precious little ones. Sorry for the rant. I'm now taking a deep calming breath to calm down from reading this post. Peace & Love

Posted in I Told Her Today on 2008-05-20 11:11:33

The truth sets you free. Even though sharing your true feelings with N was difficult and risky it's good that everything is out in the open, as now you can work through the feelings together. While this situation is far from resolved, as there is much more to work out and the feelings of another to deeply consider at least a dialogue has begun. Even if it's decided that no action (on these feelings) will be taken at this time, peace of mind is found when all that needs to be said is said. Good luck to you and N as you move through the twists and turns that life has brought to your door.

Posted in Calling all bodyguards on thoughts. on 2008-05-20 10:48:43

This post brings back the nightmare of my school days. Seems the more things change the more they stay the same. Lots of hugs and kisses are being sent across the miles for your daughter. I agree wtih Meredith ... several "swirlies" for the meanies involved in this.

Posted in I need help with my homework this week on 2008-05-20 10:41:36

Machine Moving mountains or just a pile of dirt. After an earthquake, flood or tornado Calls for relief and assistance go out Help and caring hearts and hands are on the way. In times of disaster, need or crisis Nothing can stop the power of a well oiled human spirit Each heart a living breathing force of nature to be reckoned with.

Posted in Who's got a secret? on 2008-05-19 14:57:19

You should not be offended or hurt. Women are very private beings ... I know this girl is. HungryHeart did a post on this very subject. I think you would find it enlightening. The post was written March 9, 2008 entitled "The Hidden Part Of A Woman". I have read in many psychology and relationship books that it's 100 times more difficult, for women, to share the secrets in your hearts with someone they are romantically involved with. Sex changes things. In my life (and I'm in my 50's) there have only been 2 people who I have shared most (not all) of my secrets with. I was not married nor involved sexually with either one of them. Best of luck to you. Peace.

Posted in Loving someone who does not love you on 2008-05-19 02:06:13

Prelude -- I would be honored, anytime you are having a pity party, to be on the guest list. Breakups are like having the flu or a really bad cold. You just have to wait it out and let your body heal itself. Like others have already told you ... there will be good days and bad days. Remember God is close to the brokenhearted and those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace & Love

Posted in Love Letter on 2008-05-18 18:51:39

Beautiful letter. Good luck to you as you open your heart and true feelings to this special lady. Peace.

Posted in Your Book is Being Written on 2008-05-17 23:37:41

"He gives out confidence and peace of mind freely...all we have to do is receive it...with open arms." .... Amen DS. Beautiful post. Peace, Truth and Light are wished for you today.

Posted in The Radio is Speaking to Me on 2008-05-17 22:13:02

Where would we be without the poets of song composing the lyrics of our lives. Great post.

Posted in internet relationships on 2008-05-17 21:27:11

Could never forget your Tony. Your poems have touched my heart in countless ways. Be well and at peace, my friend.

Posted in Portrait Of Friendship on 2008-05-17 21:05:08

An outstanding friendship poem depicting how a healthy friendship should be lived out. The Michael W. Smith song was perfect accompaniment. Peace & Love

Posted in Calling All Computer Geeks on 2008-05-17 11:58:15

Thanks for the input anotherdaze. From my research I learned that a hard drive going bad usually makes a grinding noise, not a buzzing one. Yes the fan is working. This morning I backed up all my files on a CD just in case. For now I'm staying away from videos and all is quiet. Thanks again for your help.

Posted in Luggage, 2 part videos, NEED TO WATCH on 2008-05-16 22:17:26

Tried to watch these but for some reason my computer makes a horrible buzzing noise when I try to watch videos. I don't want to be without a computer for a week or two while they try and figure out what's wrong so I'm trying to make due with the way it is. I'm sure this is very good as everything you post is wonderful. Just wanted you to know why I wasn't commenting. Peace.

Posted in RAIN.......A MUST SEE VIDEO.. on 2008-05-16 21:33:20

Great post. Thank you for sharing.

Posted in Alan knows best on 2008-05-16 21:20:12

Great post. What a blessing to have this wonderful boss/friend in your life.

Posted in LAST KID.......JIMMY.....WHAT A TRIP!!!! on 2008-05-16 21:05:56

I enjoyed meeting James. These family posts were great and fun to read. Peace.

Posted in CHILD # 3........HEATHER ...... on 2008-05-16 21:02:11

Another amazing daughter. I loved how Heather saw herself winning the horse. She willed her dream into existence. Excellent post. Peace.

Posted in a quiet day in geordieland on 2008-05-16 20:48:09

A good moan is needed at times. May time fly by at lightning speed until you are in each other's arms. Peace.

Posted in where are you ...?? on 2008-05-16 16:49:04

Sweetie, I'm so sorry you are experiencing a dark night of the soul. Saying a prayer that you will see a tiny glimmer of hope and light in the murky waters of grief and sorrow. In the meantime I'm sending along caring thoughts and lots of hugs. Peace.

Posted in Do you ever feel wierd? on 2008-05-16 01:56:56

"I believe that our intuition and the feelings we get inside at times are the little piece of Him that he put in each of us." Well said, Prelude! Just stopped by to check in on you. Keeping you in thought and prayer during this difficult and lonely time. Peace & Love

Posted in on the rivers edge on 2008-05-16 01:20:09

Asking God to shower your heart and spirit with peace, strength, calmness and love. Go to your place and just be. Sometimes we have to stop trying and just roll up in a ball and rest. Your profile doesn't say if you are a Christian. I have a song that has gotten me through some very dark days. It is a Christian song and some people are uncomfortable with religious songs and such. I so believe that when it comes to spiritual matters, everyone has to find the path that is right for them. Email me if you would like me to send you the words to the song. Peace.

Posted in friend river on 2008-05-16 01:11:45

Great poem. We have to know and find ourselves because we can reach out and love another. In her book, "In The Meantime" Iyanla Vanzant says "We go into a relationship looking for love, not realizing that we must bring love with us. We must bring a strong sense of self and purpose into a relationship. We must bring a sense of value, of who we are. We must move into relationships willing to share what we have, rather than being afraid of someone taking it."

Posted in Our week in Paradise on 2008-05-16 00:38:36

I'm so glad you had a great time. The sea shells in that area are very abundant. I have a couple jars, filled with shells, from my long ago visit to Sanibel and Captiva Islands. Your post brought back happy memories and reminded me of the beautiful sunsets and warm waters of the Gulf of Mexico. Peace.

Posted in Missing Person -Difficultsoul - Please help on 2008-05-15 17:13:48

Hope you're safe and sound, DS. Hurry back to us ... your friends, here on thoughts, love and miss you.

Posted in The Stranger, my smile and the reminder on 2008-05-14 23:50:01

Thanks so much for sharing your encounter with this wisdom filled stranger. Reminds of the verse in Hebrews .... "Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it." Each one of us has the power to turn another's day completely around. And now that you have shared his wisdom with all of us this man not only touched your life, but the lives of everyone here on thoughts. The power of a smile, a kind word or a caring act can never be underestimated. There are no coincidences in life. What a precious gift to receive from the universe. Peace.

Posted in Count it all Joy! on 2008-05-14 22:49:04

Thanks for this uplifting post. Psalm 30:5 is one of my favorites. I always say and truly believe that the problems and difficulties we face are just for today and NOT for all time. Peace.

Posted in Six Months on Thoughts on 2008-05-14 22:43:56

"An angel of understanding and caring" ...**Blush** **Blush**. Thank you so much for the most kind compliment. No repayment necessary. After all you read and listen to my whining and complaining also. This is a great place and I can't, for one second, imagine thoughts not being a part of my life. The love, support and acceptance I have found here is amazing and has made such a difference in my life. I'm blessed to count you as my dear friend. Happy 6th month anniversary ... with many more to come as our life journeys continue. Peace.

Posted in Does it matter! on 2008-05-14 20:22:52

Nice to catch a few "rays" while reading a happy post. May the sunshine, you find in your heart today, be with you always. Peace.

Posted in All Bets are OFF - which way did you go?? on 2008-05-14 00:17:50

This man can't stop showing us who he is. I agree with Miss Marie you must have the patience of a saint. I know many women who would have given him the lap top. I don't feel you are bitter ... you are better, my dear, and getting stronger every day. One amazing woman who I'm proud to call my friend. A woman who is teaching many of us, here on thoughts, the correct way to stand up for ourselves and not be taken advantage of. Peace.

Posted in Calling for a DNA Test on 2008-05-14 00:10:36

EasyToSay -- Family relationships can be very challenging. Many times when people act badly it comes from a place of pain. You had used the words "painfully single" in regard to her. I'm wondering if she secretly feels jealous because you have children and she doesn't. I think most women (even if they don't admit to it) want to be a Mom. Or maybe with your divorce she feels you are getting more attention. For some reason jealousy seems to play a part especially among sisters. Or perhaps she doesn't have the patience for children ... some women don't. She is hurting just as much as you are. Two people dealing with pain .... makes for a disastrous combination. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this at a time when your plate is full with other things. Sending along caring thoughts, hugs and much love. Peace.

Posted in I'm Alive on 2008-05-13 00:34:34

It's never to late to be the person you might have been. I hope you grab hold of life and live it to the fullest. Peace.

Posted in You have been gone for so long. on 2008-05-13 00:22:42

What wonderful news. I'm so happy for you. Peace.

Posted in mothers day as special as our kids on 2008-05-12 01:42:16

Glad you had a lovely Mother's Day.

Posted in I have to leave you on 2008-05-12 01:09:28

It's so painful and hard to try and try and finally have to let go. A decision starts the process of changing course and allowing something new to enter our lives. Please read my post entitled "Departure" (2008-05-07). You are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.

Posted in The man who let you go is an A$@ on 2008-05-12 00:56:11

Tony I don't know how you do it, but your posts always make me feel better. Thank you for this ... it spoke to my heart. There are so many good kind caring women who try so hard to understand and care for the men in their lives only to be dumped, cheated on and thrown away like yesterday's garbage. Thanks for reminding me that there are a few good men out there who truly appreciate a good woman. Peace & Love

Posted in Mothers Day 2008 - Part 2 on 2008-05-11 19:16:43

So sorry your day wasn't perfect in every way. We are all human and lose it from time to time. I agree with Tony, a child's love is unconditional ... and by apologizing and declaring your love for them they learned the valuable lesson of how to correctly handle melt downs. Sending hugs and lots of positive loving thoughts your way.

Posted in Mothers Day 2008 - Part 1 on 2008-05-11 19:04:15

Happy Mother's Day EasyToSay. Sounds like your precious little ones made the day extra special.

Posted in For Mom on 2008-05-11 19:01:04

Yes, TrevorJohn I really wrote it. While hosting a new construction open house the idea came to me and I scribbled the words down on a legal pad. Thanks for stopping by for a visit.

Posted in Finally Friday! on 2008-05-11 01:00:36

Just stopped by to see how things are going with you. Hope your weekend, in Orlando, is perfect in every way. Peace.

Posted in I'd like to know you better on 2008-05-11 00:36:51

I don't think she will be hurt by this ... it's beautiful, honest and from the heart. If she's going through a difficult time her confidence may be low. She might be feeling like no one would be interested or want to get to know her better. Sometimes a "have a nice day" or "thinking of you" email is nice. While not to pushy it can open up the lines of communication a bit. Good luck to you.

Posted in Just my thoughts on 2008-05-11 00:20:30

Hollis ... I have just spent the last hour reading your posts and listening to the inspirational music. My spirit feels calm and at peace. Thank You for being you. This thoughts reader appreciates all you bring to this site. Peace.

Posted in Do They See Jesus In Me.....Lyrics and Song on 2008-05-11 00:15:24

To show love, compassion, mercy and grace to every person who crosses our path. What a beautiful way to live ... what blessings would be returned to us if we lived that way. Thanks for sharing this song.

Posted in Our Deepest Fear... on 2008-05-11 00:07:50

This is one of my favorite quotes. Many times Marianne Williamson's words have been just what I needed to hear at a time when I was going through something. Thanks for this great post.

Posted in I GIVE TO YOU............... on 2008-05-11 00:01:26

What a heartfelt and beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing this 5 star post. Peace.

Posted in Love................ on 2008-05-10 23:56:25

Loved these quotes on love. Hugs and Love To You.

Posted in Planting my Garden..... on 2008-05-10 23:54:43

Perfect Springtime Post. Loved It.

Posted in Some Beautiful Graphics.... on 2008-05-10 23:54:02

Thanks Hollis. Pictures add so much to posts, but sometimes I don't have the time or know where to look. Thanks for tracking these sites down for us. Peace.

Posted in Move Me..Lyrics and Song.. on 2008-05-10 23:51:08

Beautiful song ... with very moving lyrics. "A cry without the tears". What a unique way to express that thought. Many live their entire lives and never see ... May you see Him today in all things. Peace & Love To You.

Posted in Some Awesome Quotes!!!!!! on 2008-05-10 23:41:37

These are great. I'm off to find a pencil so in the future I can erase my mistakes :) Thanks for sharing. Peace.