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Posted in My weekend.... on 2008-03-31 23:53:53

"When people show you who they are, believe them." --Maya Angelou From reading all this I see a lot of caretaking by you ... planning the wedding ... finding a therapist .... etc. Your wife didn't have one "dream" on her wedding day so why is it a surprise that she doesn't have any dreams now. Sometimes we bring home an elephant and get all upset because it doesn't act like a dog. As much as we want someone to change there is only so much changing that one can do. And if she were to change to better suit you ... then she wouldn't be true to herself. She would be a movie actress moving through her day. Just putting a few things out there for you to think about. Peace.

Posted in Dates in THOUGHTS.com are a changing on 2008-03-30 11:47:12

Thoughts staff answered my message in community forums. This problem should be fixed either Monday or Tuesday of next week. The problem of posts not posting immediately will be fixed as well. I'm not sure how they are going to handle all the posts that are now out of order due to this problem. Thanks to EasyToSay's alert I left my past posts alone and will edit after all this is straightened away.

Posted in Dates in THOUGHTS.com are a changing on 2008-03-29 22:24:13

Thanks for the heads up on this. I tend to read my older posts and re-work the words. It appears if you do that the post is then out of order after saving the changes. I like my posts in order ... not wanting a Christmas post listed with the March ones. I went to the Community Forum and under Important Announcements there is "Save Draft & Scheduled Blog Postings" ... I left my concern there. I'm a person who likes to keep things simple ... more features often mean more hassle and problems. Thanks again for making me aware of this. Will save my editing of older posts until after this is fixed.

Posted in I'm playing around on 2008-03-29 00:51:32

The new profile picture is great. I really enjoyed looking at the photos of your family. Maybe I missed something along the way but don't know how Courtney fits into things.

Posted in Who plays you? on 2008-03-29 00:36:08

Meryl Streep. I made a strong connection with her when she played Francesca Johnson in "The Bridges of Madison County". That movie, in some ways, portrays events in my life. Meryl is also a bit serious, a deep thinker and intellectual ... all things I am as well.

Posted in a passion for writing has common denominators on 2008-03-28 23:47:55

I can so relate to every word in this post. My creativity kicks in after midnight and first thing upon awakening ... which is the time I choose to meditate. Like you once a thought is formed in the perfect way I can't let it get away. For me the words never come together the same way twice. That's why it's so devastating when I lose something, I have written, due to a computer malfunction or misplaced napkin. I'm lucky that my roommate is a pretty sound sleeper and my being up all night isn't a problem or disruption. My job (as a Realtor) also allows me the flexibility to write as most people want to look at homes during the early evening hours. Great post ... with great expression. Peace.

Posted in DRAWN TO HER! on 2008-03-28 00:27:04

Welcome to thoughts tinkerbell. I love your passion. I too was drawn to the person you are speaking of. Her story of abuse just broke my heart and brought tears to my eyes. She was like a tiny bird, with a broken wing, on the forest floor and someone came along and stepped on her. I'm very worried about her also and agree with your last two posts 100%. Compassion and grace need to prevail at all times. We complain about the state of affairs in this world, but change begins inside each one of us. The thoughts experience has turned out very different than I imagined. I joined to experience my passion for writing more fully. I had no idea I would be praying and worrying about the sweet people I have met on this site. To have the honor of offering words of kindness and encouragement to another human being has been good for my soul and helped me set aside the selfish part of me. My little problems and complaints seem small compared to what others are enduring. I only have this persons thoughts email address ... if you are able to contact her please tell her that she is in my prayers ... I wish her all the happiness in the world and miss her wonderful brave spirit. Peace.

Posted in New Blogger on 2008-03-27 23:41:03

Welcome to thoughts. I have been here since December and am still figuring out what to write about. I love ballet ... the Nutcracker being my favorite. Your picture is lovely ... the dress amazing. Enjoy your time here. Peace.

Posted in Baby Camryn passed away on 2008-03-27 01:25:41

This just breaks my heart. My prayers are with the family.

Posted in She’s just not that into me on 2008-03-27 01:24:18

I agree with your thinking on this matter. Apparently her life has taken a busy turn ... perhaps with work, a man or something else. I struggle in my relationships with women. Many times when I'm out I will see a group of women having lunch and think ... "now that would be nice". I feel like there is a secret sisterhood club, among women, and I don't have the password to join. Maybe it's because my life doesn't include a picket fence with children and grandchildren playing in the yard. Just one of those things I haven't quite figured out yet, but I'm sure I will, all in due time. Peace.

Posted in ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST! on 2008-03-26 20:29:03

Karen ... You are a remarkable woman with a beautiful spirit. Don't let someone's opinion become your reality. Like Hollis I come to your blog every day to check in with you. I also love you like a sister. I guess I have been lucky here as I haven't run into any nastiness. Although it was a concern to me when I signed up. The thing about "thoughts" is YOU have total control over who sees your posts. That in itself was a comfort to me and one of the reason I picked this site to blog. When you write your post under "Title" there is "Who Can View" ... click on the little blue arrow and click "friends and me". If someone is on your friend's list that you don't want to read your posts delete them. Take care and enjoy your trip. Whether you are here or not you will remain in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.

Posted in work on 2008-03-26 12:09:49

Glad things are going well, for you, after your surgery. Peace.

Posted in More than just a Blog on 2008-03-26 00:07:15

I agree Whitters. I was a new reader to Bullseye's blog and enjoyed his posts and hearing about his precious children. Whether people realize it or not everyone here is important and thoughts is not the same without them. Even though I know everyone here through a computer screen there is a connection as I worry, care and pray for each one. Peace.

Posted in Love Yourself if You Want to Find Love on 2008-03-25 23:57:00

Great Post ... Great Song Lyrics "You cannot get love from the outside until you are love from the inside. We go into a relationship looking for love, not realizing that we must bring love with us. We must bring a strong sense of self and purpose into a relationship. We must bring a sense of value, of who we are. We must bring an excitement about ourselves, our lives, and the vision we have for these two essential elements. We must bring a respect for wealth and abundance. Having achieved it to some satisfactory degree on our own, we must move into relationships willing to share what we have, rather than being afraid of someone taking it. Joyful sharing and excitement. Value, purpose, and vision. That's what love is about. When we bring these things to the relationship, love becomes a great multiplier and enhances the experience of life." From - "In The Meantime - Finding Yourself and the Love You Want" Page 27 Author: Iyanla Vanzant

Posted in The Joys of Feeding a Baby on 2008-03-25 23:43:57

What a wonderful feel good post. I love babies. You can't help but feel happy and content holding and caring for a little one. Haven't had the chance to be around a baby in quite some time. Thanks for putting happy thoughts in my mind. Peace.

Posted in What you want out of life? on 2008-03-25 23:36:49

I have to agree with cheb, even though I feel bad saying it. I know people who are perfectly happy and content just relaxing around the house and watching TV. They have no desire to see the world or try anything new. Maybe at one time you were compatible with your wife, but things change over time. I'm certainly not the same girl I was even 5 years ago. Hopefully you can come to some kind of resolution. I wish you all the best. Peace.

Posted in 300 - a look back on 2008-03-25 22:53:43

I'm glad you are not leaving. I'm a pretty new reader to your blog, but like the variety and deep thought found here. I'm glad you said there's not a right way, as I'm still trying to figure it all out. Looking forward to reading more penned from your hand. Peace.

Posted in are there some pretty wierd posts around here late on 2008-03-25 22:40:36

I have run across some strange posts as well. Know they are not for me and just move on. I currently am following 20 blogs. I especially like those who are brave enough to tell their story. I'm still trying to figure it all out here. Each of my posts are very different in nature ... if someone doesn't like one ... maybe the next one will be more to their fancy. But then I tend to be a complex person with many aspects and sides to my personality. I have to admit it does feel good to be listed in the popular posts. It's usually my posts that I don't think are that good that make it. Popularity is not my reason for being here. I have a burning passion in my heart for writing and frankly I don't know what to do with it. I'm here to try different writing styles and hopefully improve as a writer and communicator. I'm a person who likes everything all neat and tidy, but have decided to just post whatever is on my heart ... whether it goes with the day before or not. Maybe in time I'll figure out what I'm supposed to do with my writing. Peace.

Posted in I won this battle! on 2008-03-25 13:11:29

Bravo!!!!!!!! Glad this got resolved admirably for you. I totally get and understand why your husband's remark upset you. Men just seem to have a way of saying the most inappropriate things at the wrong time. Sometimes these kind of remarks come when a man feels uncomfortable ... and believe it or not my men friends tell me it's a sexual turn on when their women is assertive, stands up for what she believes and comes away a winner. I know .... I know ... not what you wanted to hear. I couldn't tell from your post if your husband was as upset and appalled by these events as you were. Maybe he felt inadequate and bad that he couldn't voice his concerns in public. In your husband's childhood, I'm wondering, how he was taught to deal with conflict. As I read your original post my thought was that in many places in the world your son, caught reading his bible, would have been thrown in a dark dungeon or put before a firing squad. Your whole family would most likely have suffered a similar fate as well. Things are far from perfect here, but I feel blessed each day to live in a country with so many religious freedoms. Now you are probably saying to yourself ... that's not the correct way to think ... where does that kind of thought come from. In my childhood there was always a worse situation brought up ... "eat your vegetables ... someone else doesn't have food to eat" .... when I didn't have the popular hip shoes and everyone made fun of me .... "be glad you have feet ... some people don't have feet". I was also taught not to make waves or trouble as it would only make things a 1,000 times worse. To this day I struggle with something that isn't working because a change might make it even worse ... at least it's working a little bit I tell myself. Perhaps your husband wanted to vent his anger at this situation, but was to fearful to do so. So that frustration came at the police officer instead. Kind of like when someone comes home from work after being yelled at by their boss and kicks the dog. Relationships and men continue to be a mystery for me. I know a lot of very passive men and they are not going to change for me or anyone else. There are many days when I just say .... bring on the convent .... maybe we can be roommates. Congrats on your win. Peace.

Posted in DO I LOOK ANY DIFFERENT? LOOK HARD! on 2008-03-25 00:03:09

Karen -- I will sleep better tonight knowing you are safe. After reading your posts of yesterday I was very concerned about you. I felt so helpless and wished I could come and rescue you myself. I tend to be quite the night owl so I just had a very long talk with God about you and your situation throughout most of last night. And here we are today ... you have left that monster and are safe and sound at your daughters. I will continue to knock on heaven's door on your behalf. Karen make a decision right now that you will never ever go back ... no matter what happens ... no matter what he says to you. I checked the web site of the shelter you spoke of in another post and was very impressed with all the services they offer. I'm so glad they will be walking with you throughout this process. I'm so proud of you and in awe of your strength and courage. May God hold you in the palm of His hand ... may His angels surround you and keep you safe from harm. Go in peace, my sister, to live a life filled with joy, peace, love and happiness. Hugs.

Posted in Do You Use Your Heart Or Your Head ? on 2008-03-22 22:03:45

Great post .... containing wise advice. It's so easy to get carried away when love is involved. All those warm fuzzy feelings can just take on a life of their own. Remember the advice we received as children when crossing the street ..... stop ..... look ..... listen. Much misery could be saved if we remembered those three words in all areas of our lives. Wishing you and your husband many more years of love and happiness. Thanks for stopping by my little place. I so appreciated your sweet comment. Peace.

Posted in Happy Easter!!!! on 2008-03-22 15:47:37

Wishing you a Blessed Easter and safe travels. Peace.

Posted in BRITISH SUMMERTIME....A HAHAHAHAHAHA.... on 2008-03-22 14:50:00

Hi Cheb -- Spring is hiding here also ... we received about 8-10 inches of snow last evening here in Michigan, USA. If you find Spring send her over my way. We switched to DST several weeks ago. All about more hours of evening daylight and since I'm not a morning person I'm most grateful. Even with the weather I know it's Spring and Summer in your heart with so many exciting happy things happening in your life. Peace and Love To You.

Posted in Give Me My Computer or Give Me Death! on 2008-03-22 14:36:28

Welcome Back, Hungry Heart! Thoughts was not the same without you. Peace, Love & Happy Easter.

Posted in I'm so glad it's Friday! on 2008-03-21 19:34:59

Wishing you a wonderful Easter weekend. Your plans sound fun. Maybe some time away, from Brian, will give you some perspective on where you are at with him. Happy Easter. Peace.

Posted in Angels come in all sizes and shapes on 2008-03-21 16:56:47

What an uplifting post. Angels do come in all shapes and sizes. How wonderful that you possess a thankful spirit and are able to see the little blessings and miracles each day holds. I'm glad your pain is better. Happy Easter. Peace. p.s. Thanks for the nice email message.

Posted in He hasnt called on 2008-03-21 16:47:38

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent". Eleanor Roosevelt First off, darling, respect yourself. Just because you have given your heart to someone doesn't mean you can't take it back. In all my relationships I have a little saying I abide to .... "I want you to want me." If someone doesn't have time for me or is not treating me with respect and dignity, then it's time to move on and find someone who will. There are many fish in the sea. Or as a friend of mine says ... "men are likes buses, a new one comes along every 10 minutes." We have no control over the actions of another ... the only thing we can control is our response to those actions. You are young, with a beautiful spirit ... you have your whole life ahead of you. Instead of staying home staring at the phone get out there. Join a club, take a class, get involved in an organization that helps the less fortunate. It's a great place to meet others who possess giving kind spirits plus helping others makes you feel good and takes your mind off your problems. You have so much love to give ... don't waste your time on someone who can't or won't return your feelings of love. Peace.

Posted in what makes me happy on 2008-03-21 16:27:53

Loved this uplifting post. Reading it has made me feel better. I'm going to do something I enjoy this evening and not worry about what others are thinking. Peace.

Posted in The Anti-Brian on 2008-03-21 16:20:45

I can so relate to this post. I remember years ago when asking for a little cuddle time in a relationship I was told "why do you have to be so needy, Colorado?". Of course I doubted myself thinking .... "what in the world is wrong with you, Colorado" .... along with guilt and shame quickly becoming my closest companions. It took me a long time to learn this, but just because a person has needs DOESN'T make them needy. The key is to find someone with similar needs who is compatible with my personality. I'm a person who loves touch ... holding hands, hugging etc. A person who is not into touching is not for me. I love to hear words of endearment. Someone with poor communication skills is not for me. I continue to learn new things each day. Just this past week I realized that I tend to pick people who are in a situation similar to mine thinking they want and are looking for the same thing I am .... NOT!!! There is a myth that everyone is compatible with everyone else. There are times you just have to acknowledge that you don't click and move on. Doing so is a blessing as each person is set free to pursue and find the "right" person for them. Peace.

Posted in On the Wings of Prayer on 2008-03-21 15:24:12

Thank for your this beautiful post and reminder that the answers, to all our concerns and problems, lie with the one who knew us before we were even formed. During this Holy Week I have been seeking His guidance more often. Many days my prayer life, while not formal in nature, is an endless running conversation. While nothing has changed in my life I do feel more peaceful about things. Wishing you an Easter blessed by God's love, grace and peace.

Posted in Transformation on 2008-03-21 15:10:04

TJ -- This is such wonderful news. Thanks be to God! And at such an appropriate time of year ... Easter and Spring, a time of rebirth and renewal. Each new day can be a new life. The mistakes of our past don't have to hold us hostage for all time. We can be set free to experience and live up to our God given potential. Thanking God for your kind heart and friendship. Wishing you and your family a Blessed Easter. Peace.

Posted in I am My Own World on 2008-03-21 14:54:48

Beautiful deep reflective post, DS. To analyze it would take away from all the truth, wisdom and beauty entailed here. Once again your words have lifted my mind and spirit to higher ground. Peace.

Posted in The 1 4 Me on 2008-03-21 01:58:22

We don't choose who we love. I agree with your post 100% ... well said WhiteKnight. Peace.

Posted in Walk to happiness on 2008-03-21 01:52:10

Consider my calendar marked :).

Posted in utterly butterly loved up.... on 2008-03-21 01:50:30

Stopped by to catch up with you. I'm glad your baby is OK. You did the right thing by telling David. The love you share is so special that holding back anything would not be the right thing to do. Take care of yourself. You and your little one remain in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.

Posted in Can You Reach My Friend on 2008-03-21 01:34:37

I love Helen Baylor ... Haven't listened to her music is quite some time. I love the song you spoke of in this post. Many years ago I met her and got her autograph. Thanks for this post and reminding me how meaningful and uplifting Helen Baylor's music is. Peace.

Posted in I NEED TO KNOW! on 2008-03-21 01:23:48

This post hits close to home. My last two relationships ended with no explanation and I'm left to wonder what on earth went wrong. One man left me no way to contact him. My email was returned because he had closed his account. With the other man my attempts to find out what happened were met by silence. I hope at some point in time you get the answers you are seeking. Peace.

Posted in God was There on 2008-03-21 01:06:55

Great post filled with truth and wisdom. I'm thrilled that God is revealing Himself to you, showing you new things each day and giving you a new outlook on life. The prayers I have been saying for you are being answered. Peace.

Posted in MAN, DID I PISS OFF THIS COMPUTER!! on 2008-03-20 23:52:45

The fatal error was not the fault of our computers or the operators of those computers. Any computer trying to access thoughts would have gotten the same message as the problem was with the thoughts web site. Glad it's fixed.

Posted in Worst Day in this week, but I feel a little better on 2008-03-19 01:26:23

Hi Stefanie -- Welcome to thoughts. I enjoyed reading your profile and learning about your children and pet mice. Your posts were enjoybale as well. I love your friendly, warm writing style. Hope your shoulder/neck pain is better soon. Peace.

Posted in What Love is to Me on 2008-03-19 01:09:29

Great post. I really enjoyed reading these wonderful quotes on love. My favorite love quote is .... "Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls... Stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, and the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow..." Kahlil Gibran

Posted in Jesus is here - in thoughts.com! on 2008-03-19 00:53:52

I read your posts from time to time, but was to shy to leave a comment. I'm one those people who have been hurt by church. I love your vision of how church should be. I totally agree with you. It should be a place for everyone ... a place where we can take off our masks and just be. Very few of us have perfect lives ... I most certainly don't. Your paragraph on breathing made me think of something I heard a long time ago ... "Jesus, he's as close as your next breath." I meet Jesus everyday here on thoughts. Countless people on this site have reached out to me, uplifted me, prayed for me and loved me. I'm blown away that strangers would extend God's love and grace to me. Wishing you a day filled with peace and many blessings. p.s. I'm from Michigan also.

Posted in 2008 Mar 18 on 2008-03-19 00:39:19

Hi Sondra -- Welcome to thoughts. This is a great place to become that writer you always wanted to be. I hope you enjoy it here as much as I do. Peace.

Posted in Walk to happiness on 2008-03-19 00:21:55

Your post lifted my spirits. Today was just one of those lonely days that found my spirit in a sad state of mind, much like the rain that fell against my window pane most of the day. I have never been to New York City, but for some reason it feels familiar and intrigues me. Maybe I lived there in another life. A strange way of explaining my feeling, but no other explanation comes to mind. I would love to visit someday, although have no desire to drive there. Years ago when I was on Mackinaw Island I lit a candle, in a very old church, for a friend I wanted to get to know better. God heard my prayers and a lasting friendship ensued. I hope God will answer your prayer as well for KP. I'm glad you spent the day doing something for yourself. Thanks for sharing your day. Hearing about NYC or seeing pictures always makes me feel peaceful inside. Peace.

Posted in Today is a better day on 2008-03-17 10:40:20

Happy St. Patrick's Day to you also, KP. I'm glad today is a better day. I'm saying a prayer for you and also asking God to give wisdom and guidance to your doctors, so all that can be done will be done. Peace.

Posted in I Hope You Dance.......... on 2008-03-17 01:01:52

Great post, Hollis .... I love this song ... a song that reminds me to live each day to the fullest ... a song filled with blessings and good wishes for another. The very things I need to bestow on those whom God has placed in my life. May God lead you beside still waters, through beautiful fields of wildflowers and along cool streams. Bless you Hollis, yet again you have lifted my spirits toward Heaven. Peace.

Posted in The things I couldn't tell you on 2008-03-17 00:46:25

KP -- My heart hurts and is filled with compassion for all you are having to endure. Like keepdreaming said above there are no words I could put here to make it all better for you. I care and am praying for you. Peace.

Posted in My prayer was answered. on 2008-03-17 00:38:26

"Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know." -- Jeremiah 33:3 Nadia -- Someone once told me that "God is as close as my next breath". I see God's fingerprints everywhere ... each time I step outside all of nature reveals His grandeur, love and beauty. The people who are sent my way are God's angels ... sent by Him to help me along life's journey. In my heart I feel the prayers being said on my behalf. I see God's protection and care daily. When I find that parking space .... when I almost forget my keys at the market and someone says "aren't those your keys?" When I'm crying and feeling down and the phone rings with a friend on the other end saying ..."I'm not even sure why I'm calling, Colorado, but I couldn't stop thinking of you today, are you OK." ..... These are just some of the ways God reveals himself to me. Take a moment ... Hear His care and concern, for you, in the gentle breeze. Smell his sweetness in a flower. Look into a starlit night sky and see His love shining there for you. Feel the solid earth beneath your feet and know that He will not let your foot slip. Let the rain wash over you and know that He can wash away every mistake in your life. I'm asking God to give you eyes to see Him as you go throughout your day. Peace.

Posted in An Irish Blessing on 2008-03-16 23:56:08

Thanks for the St. Patrick's Day wishes, KeepDreaming. May God grant your every wish. I feel very lucky to have your friendship in my life. Peace.

Posted in When betrayal becomes happily ever after.... on 2008-03-16 01:11:16

Thank you for posting this beautiful heartwarming "happily ever after" story. At times there seems to be so much sadness and heartbreak in the arena of love. Nice to read a story that ended differently. Peace.

Posted in An Irish Blessing on 2008-03-15 22:48:48

Thanks for stopping by Rose. I love the St. Patrick blessing you shared. May God hold you in the palm of His hand, keep you safe and give you every desire your heart holds. Peace.

Posted in I FELT MY BABY MOVE!!!!! on 2008-03-15 20:33:25

How wonderful. I have never been pregnant so can only imagine how amazing feeling the movement of the little life inside of you must be. Keeping you and your little one in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so happy for you. Peace.

Posted in Meeting Mr. Ego on 2008-03-14 21:28:14

DS -- I'm glad and blessed that you choose to share your thoughts and feelings with me. Every single one of your posts speaks to my heart and makes me feel not so alone in this world. Keep writing, your words speak volumes to many. Peace.

Posted in The Ship on 2008-03-14 20:58:47

I love this. When a close friend committed suicide, in 200l, I was inconsolable. I posted a request for prayer on an Internet prayer site. Many people reached out to me and one person sent this Henry Van Dyke poem. It brought me tremendous comfort and peace. When my father-in-law died I printed out this poem and put it right in the center of the bulletin board we made for him. This post will bring comfort to many. Peace.

Posted in wanna break free on 2008-03-14 20:01:45

Welcome to thoughts. I have found it very welcoming here, with little judgment. We're all here for the same reason ... to know ourselves better by writing the thoughts and feelings that live within our hearts. I'm glad your here, enjoy the experience. Peace.

Posted in scary afternoon on 2008-03-14 19:53:41

I'm so glad your little one is OK. I was saddened to read of your Grandmother's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving a comment. Peace.

Posted in Ode to Women Who Love EUMs on 2008-03-14 17:31:23

Great advice. We need more of this ... women empowering other women. This post was 100% right on. Thanks for sharing your wonderful insight and wisdom with all of us. I'm also cheering you on. Peace.

Posted in There just might be (A God) on 2008-03-14 16:30:20

I have been asking God to reveal Himself to you in a way you could understand. I see that He has answered my prayer by showing Himself to you through your children. Keep praying and know that others are praying for you as well. Peace. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." -- Jeremiah 29:11

Posted in The wedding, the ex & the girlfriend on 2008-03-14 15:44:41

Hoping that FOTY does the right thing. You have made very clear what will happen if he doesn't. It's on him and NOT on you if he messes up. For your sake and your children's sake I hope everything goes perfectly. Peace.

Posted in FROM THE FRYING PAN INTO THE FIRE AND BACK on 2008-03-14 15:06:39

I hate those nights when I toss and turn. I have many of them also. I have shared the following prayer and scripture verse with quite a few people on thoughts. The Prayer for Protection always calms me down ... even though, sometimes, I have to say it a couple of times. The Prayer for Protection The light of God surrounds me; The love of God enfolds me; The power of God protects me; The presence of God watches over me Wherever I am, God is, and all is well! Amen ------------------------------------------------------ My favorite book in the Bible is the book of Psalms. The following is from Psalm 46 ... I find the words comforting when I'm feeling fearful. "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress." Continuing to uplift you in prayer. Peace.

Posted in Maybe it gets better from here,,,I hope on 2008-03-14 14:24:52

Hang in there WhiteKnight, the 50's are fabulous!!!!!! My 40's were a difficult and unhappy time for me. I was a little mousie trying to please everyone and walking on egg shells as I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I let the fact that my wants might ruffle someone's feathers stop me from attaining happiness and living life to the fullest. At age 48 a close friend (who was my age) died. It was my wake up call. The biggest change I made was, I started being honest and real with people. Even though it meant telling someone very close to me that I didn't want to be exclusive with them anymore. It was so freeing getting it all out in the open. I have never regretted my honesty. In my 50's ... I have peace in my heart. I no longer feel the need to control others. I no longer let others shift blame on me for things that are their responsibility. I'm no longer a caretaker which allows others to take responsibility for themselves. I couldn't care less what someone else thinks of me. Lastly, I finally feel that I'm worthy and deserving of happiness. Like everyone else I have not arrived, but I'm settling in and getting comfortable in my own skin. May the years ahead bring nothing but joy and happiness your way. Peace.

Posted in Money, Sex, Power and Prostituion on 2008-03-13 14:48:00

Great post Davis. First off I wouldn't be humiliated in front of the world ... as I wouldn't let feelings of guilt or shame touch my heart. In all my relationships I have a little saying I abide to .... "I want you to want me." If my husband were sleeping with a prostitute I guess he's not wanting me. Furthermore if I can't make him happy, in the bedroom, then he is free to go and look elsewhere (love holds with an open hand). I can only try my best ... and if my best isn't good enough I have to walk away and leave it in the hands of God. I think many women have forgotten their true position in life and who their real Father is. I'm a child of the King of Kings and I have no reason to walk around, in silence, with my head down. I'm special, loved and blessed ... knit together by a God who delights in me. I realize blame shifting is the way many handle their sins and addictions .... seems to be the current way of not having to take responsibility for one's actions. But the truth of the matter is, not everything is my fault. Peace.

Posted in climbing is so much better than crawling on 2008-03-13 14:25:34

Thanks for sharing this wonderful uplifting quote. I'm going to add it to my quote book. Peace.

Posted in Song for the day on 2008-03-13 14:23:06

Great song .... I love the Beatles and have been enjoying songs from the Lennon/McCartney songbook on American Idol. I guess I'm not the only one as next week these songs will be featured as well. This song is my second Beatle favorite .... "Yesterday" being my first choice. Peace.

Posted in HOW TO SHOWER?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on 2008-03-13 14:15:06

So funny ... and so true.

Posted in FREE YOUR SOUL..... on 2008-03-13 14:08:25

Psalm 34:8 -- Taste and see that the Lord is good. For some reason that verse is on my mind today. To experience each day to the fullest ... enjoy each day taking in all the sounds, sights and smells of this beautiful world. Thanks for the challenge and reminder. Peace.

Posted in As Long As........ on 2008-03-13 14:01:32

Amen.

Posted in I AM ONLY ME............. on 2008-03-13 14:00:35

This was wonderful .... Expressing well the many sides we all have. At times I feel I'm a very complex person. However I feel thankful and blessed to be deep and not shallow. Peace.

Posted in Just doing some soul searching... on 2008-03-13 13:55:41

Great Song .... My spirits have been lifted heavenward. You must attend a contemporary church. Years ago, on Sunday mornings, I used to run sound for a Christian praise and worship band. The lines that especially spoke to me..... "Let your mercy fall on me" ... as I'm in need of God's forgiveness each and every day. "He can move mountains" .... reminds me that however difficult the situation God can work it out. "Take me as you find me ... filling my life again" .... reminds me that God accepts me where I am and will take me to where He wants me to be. Think I'll give the song another listen. Peace.

Posted in The Wooden Bowl on 2008-03-13 13:39:02

The law of Karma, expressed brilliantly. Taught (in this story) by a 4 year old. Children are my greatest teachers. To become (in our hearts) like children is the greatest gift and blessing. Peace.

Posted in IN MY NEXT LIFE.............................. on 2008-03-13 13:32:20

Priceless!!!!!!!! Great Post.

Posted in Tears of Saints...Leeland on 2008-03-13 13:28:13

Wow!!!! What a powerful song. Thanks for introducing me to it. I was relieved to see that you were able to get the music on your post. I know my instructions were not the best. Peace.

Posted in Decisions, Decisions... on 2008-03-13 13:07:47

Asking God to give you strength and wisdom during this time of change in your life. It's very possible your parents and children see your unhappiness. You might want to think about what lessons you would be teaching your children if you were to grab hold of some happiness for yourself. To love one's self is the greatest gift of all. To teach someone that it's OK to love themselves and do what's best (what will make their heart happy) is quite an awesome gift. Life is not meant to be endured .... it's meant to be lived with joy, happiness and passion. Peace.

Posted in The Ren-Fest, Louis, and My Metabolism on 2008-03-13 12:56:07

What a special young man. The right people do have a way of coming into our lives at just the right moment. There are no accidents or coincidences in life. My thoughts and prayers are with him. Hope all will be OK. Peace.

Posted in The most vital thing on 2008-03-13 12:49:05

Maintaining a tranquil mind and peaceful heart can be quite the challenge in today's world. I find it mandatory to spend time alone each day in quiet meditation centering myself and allowing God's sweet voice to speak to me. Each day is filled with countless situations and people who try to steal my peace and draw me into their drama. Knowing when to speak and when to remain silent is the key. Not every battle is ours to fight. Great post .... Peace.

Posted in The Light on 2008-03-13 11:12:35

Great post. The light never turns off ... all darkness is temporary. I always say the troubles and problems we face are only for today, and not for all time. So many times when darkness comes we do nothing. I loved how you challenged each one of us to turn around, unblock our obstacles and open our eyes. Even the smallest step can start moving us toward the light. Your words were just what I needed to read today. Peace.

Posted in WHIPPED AND SCARED SHITLESS ! on 2008-03-13 01:02:28

While all the warm fuzzies and encouragement are great, my advice is more practical in nature. I realize you are overwhelmed and scared to death of doing things on your own. When someone is in an abusive relationship the abuser does his best to isolate and keep you weak. Sweetie, the truth is people want to help you. I was raised believing the opposite ... that I was alone in this world and nobody cared a lick about me or would help me. The first time I flew on an airplane (alone) I was terrified. What if I couldn't find my gate, find baggage claim, etc. etc. ..... to my surprise everyone in the airport and my seatmates wanted to help me. All I had to do was ask and I was directed and even escorted personally to where I needed to be. I'm a Real Estate agent so I know a little about foreclosures and such. The LAST THING (hear my words) the bank or mortgage company wants is to foreclose on your home. It sounds like you have been in your home for a while which means you have equity built up (equity is value beyond what is owned on the home). Your bank or mortgage company wants to help you. Give them a call, be honest, and trust me they will bend over backwards to help you. When I was in a similar situation I went to my bank and set up a savings account. It's amazing how much money you will actually save if you have a place to put it. They were wonderful to me at the bank even making sure that it wouldn't upset my mate if a bank statement arrived at the house. You are not the first or sadly will you be the last woman in this type of situation. Bankers are trained to deal with these type of situations. Many banks and credit unions have financial advisors on staff who are trained to help those heading out on their own for the first time. Many communities offer classes as well. Is there a shelter for battered women in your area? .... if so, call and find out what resources are available to you. The shelters in my area offer classes on setting up a budget and job training to help women get on their feet. Remember people want to help you. Set up a budget. Make a list of your bills and how much each bill is. If you get paid twice a month set aside half of the money for each bill ... the other half will be set aside on your next pay day. Yes, you will have to cut down ... perhaps a more basic cable plan ... or no cable at all. You can also switch your phone to a cheaper plan .... dropping your long distance altogether and using phone cards for long distance instead. I'm a girl that gets easily overwhelmed. My friends tease me that "overwhelmed" is my word. I have had the following quote since I was a teenager (I'm in my 50's). It reminds me that life is a process. "There is no royal road to anything. One thing at a time, all things in succession. That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures." -- J. G. Holland Stop beating yourself up over the past .... each new day is a new life. God does not want you in an abusive relationship. But He needs you to work with Him. He will not leave you dangling .... the right people will be placed in your path, but sometimes you have to make the phone call. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.

Posted in Friends or Not Friends on 2008-03-12 14:17:21

"But oh! the blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearlessly on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely. Oh, the comfort - the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person - having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away." Dinah Craik

Posted in The Governor's Wife on 2008-03-12 12:41:36

KeepDreaming -- Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts, on this subject. Your handling of the situation made me smile. I don't think you or I would make very good political wives. We are both much to free spirited. Love and peace to you, girlfriend.

Posted in The Governor's Wife on 2008-03-12 12:36:46

Hi Hairytoad2005 -- Thanks for dropping by my blog and presenting us with another viewpoint. I would imagine there are many perks and niceties that come with being a Governor's wife. Your point may very well have been the case. After I wrote this post I also thought that perhaps, Silda, felt she had no other choice. A public or political figure loses much of themselves, as advisors plan every move and practically think your thoughts for you ... all with the goal of winning or keeping you in a particular coveted position. Maybe that's why so many men and women, in powerful positions, fall from grace. Living a life that's not authentic is difficult and spirit breaking. As for Eliot and Silda Spitzer, life as they know it is history. I just read that the Governor resigned this morning. Maybe a blessing in disguise. I wish them well as they start the process (out of the public eye) of putting their lives back together.

Posted in I WAS WAITING FOR THE PUNCH AND ........... on 2008-03-12 02:46:46

Happy dancing with you also. I have been praying for you and will not relax and rest easy until you are totally away from this man. Peace & Hugs

Posted in STUCK IN PHONE JAIL,SUCH A NASTY SENTENCE on 2008-03-12 01:31:33

Wonderful cleverly written post ... and so true. One little tip I have found that works (about half the time) is to press "O" during the call and you will be transferred to a real person. I used this trick when I called the cable company and got a real person (who spoke English) on the line immediately. Peace.

Posted in climbing is so much better than crawling on 2008-03-12 01:22:09

Thanks for posting this ... reading it made a difference in my life. Peace.

Posted in sins of the husband and father, devastating on 2008-03-12 01:19:54

Great post that got the wheels in my mind turning ... Instead of leaving a long comment I decided to post my thoughts .... post entitled "The Governor's Wife". Thanks so much for posting your thoughts on this. It helped clarify a few things in my mind as well. Peace.

Posted in Something out there? on 2008-03-11 23:53:39

Hi Nadia -- I'm glad yesterday brought a small break (here and there) from the fear. You are strong and smart enough to make it ... you just don't know it yet. Until you can believe it for yourself I will believe it for you. My life has taken me to some very dark places, Nadia. I can assure you that God does exist. He is listening to your prayers, He loves and cares for you so much and will show Himself strong on your behalf. My favorite book in the Bible is the book of Psalms. The following is from Psalm 46 ... I find the words comforting when I'm feeling fearful. "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress." You remain in my prayers. I'm asking God to draw you close and give you a peaceful night's sleep. Peace & Love

Posted in Honesty on 2008-03-11 13:44:48

Wonderful post containing much food for thought. For me it showed there are many shades of grey when it comes to our dealings with others. I guess it all comes down to speaking the truth, in love. Many times our feelings of anger or jealousy play into the mix. So before we open our mouths a quick check of our motives is in order. Thanks again for writing something that made me think. Peace.

Posted in Life Unexpected on 2008-03-11 13:19:04

Sometimes we have the luxury of waiting .... At other times a decision has to be made immediately. Then there are those times when the sense of urgency is, only in our minds, and all would not be lost (or be a disaster) if we waited to make our decision. We must also realize that (most) decisions are not carved in stone. If we find we have made a mistake we only have to make another decision (choice) and go on our way. There are times when heading down a path is the only way of knowing if it's the right path for us. It's always OK to give something a try and no shame if it doesn't work out. The problem comes when we continue down a path that we know isn't right for us. Since this is an older post I hope whatever you decided was the right decision and if not that you are making the necessary adjustments. Peace.

Posted in Putting in a call for all thoughts and prayers. on 2008-03-11 01:20:17

I will pray for Annie. I'm also praying for you, KP Peace.

Posted in The Hidden Part of a Woman on 2008-03-10 16:59:51

Another amazing post, Hungry Heart. The Bruce Springsteen song lyrics, a perfect accompaniment ... and one of my personal Springsteen favorites. The hurts and betrayals of our past do cause us to be more guarded with our hearts. For men as well as women. So many times I have gotten the courage up to reveal something personal to another and was not taken seriously, not believed or made to feel like what I was struggling with was silly. Revealing our inner selves makes us very vulnerable. We are, in essence, handing a loaded gun for another to use against us. There is nothing more humiliating than having something, I have shared in confidence come out at a gathering of family or friends. The older I get (I'm in my 50's) the more I keep my thoughts and inner most feelings to myself. As women we give so much to others ... our mates, our children, family and friends. It's nice to have something that is just ours .... something that no one can touch, or take away from us. The people in my life don't think much of a person who writes. On the rare occasion I share my work with them it's always ... "oh that sentence is awkward, in fact I don't think it even makes sense" ... "I don't even understand what you are trying to say" or ... "isn't that word spelled wrong". I keep my passion for writing very close to my heart. It's mine and no one can ever take it away from me. Peace.

Posted in To The Beauty in the Bar on 2008-03-10 16:34:32

Great story, enjoyed reading it. I had a similar experience several days before my father-in-law died. The comfort and kindness, shown to me, by this man was just what I needed to handle my father-in-law's death and funeral. As the Rolling Stones sang ...... "You can't always get what you want, but if you try, sometimes you might find you get what you need." Peace.

Posted in To The Beauty in the Bar on 2008-03-10 16:34:31

Posted in And another thing on FOTY on 2008-03-10 16:17:26

I'm seeing red again!!!!!!!! Children most certainly have rights. Just because someone is a parent doesn't give them the right to do whatever they want, when it comes to a child. Children cannot speak for themselves. Adults have to be the voice and advocate for children. In the States leaving a child home alone or in a car, even for a short period of time, is considered abandonment and child abuse. Parental rights have been terminated for infractions such as this. As uncomfortable as it might be these issues need to be addressed. If FOTY won't listen then the authorities should be told. While all this might seem a bit harsh you do have to follow your instincts. We need to take seriously when our children are upset ... there is usually a reason why they are. I'm praying for you, Easy To Say and I'm praying especially for Miss 8 and Master 4. Peace.

Posted in God if you exist? on 2008-03-10 14:01:09

Welcome to Thoughts, Nadia --- Your post moved my heart to a place of compassion and caring. God is there .... He has already forgiven you. His hand is outstretched and reaching toward yours. His ear is attuned to your words. I will bring your name into His presence. The following prayer has helped me countless times when the night was so dark that I couldn't see the hand in front of my face. The Prayer for Protection The light of God surrounds me; The love of God enfolds me; The power of God protects me; The presence of God watches over me Wherever I am, God is, and all is well! Amen There are times I have to repeat the words several times to believe them for myself and bring calmness to my spirit. They are words of truth. Asking God to bless your soul and spirit with His peace and love. Peace.

Posted in Is there any Hope Getting Over the Pass????? on 2008-03-09 23:38:02

Welcome to thoughts. This is a great place to write out those feelings and thoughts that live within your heart. Always remember your past does not define who you are. Each new day is a new life ... a new beginning to be all that you were put on this earth to be. I wish you peace in your spirit and all good things.

Posted in My new Favourite Song on 2008-03-09 19:12:40

"If I had a chance for another try, I wouldn't change a thing, This made me all and who I am inside" Great song lyrics!! The kindness, compassion and empathy I feel for others evolved from my times of pain and struggle. I believe all things work together for good. Struggles and difficult times mold and shape us into the people we were put on this earth to be! Peace.

Posted in Is It Patience or Life Passing By? on 2008-03-07 21:18:56

Another great thought provoking post. Difficult questions ... that I don't seem to have the answers to at this point in time. I think, for the most part, we all want the same basic things .... to be appreciated, to be respected, to be understood and to be unconditionally loved. In the book "A Return to Love" by Marianne Williamson she states there are only two emotions .. love and fear. In every relationship, every situation we are moving toward one or the other. More times than I would like I pick fear over love. While I can't give you all the answers and make everything all better for you ... "I do feel you". The next time the candy store closes before you can make your choice ... all is not lost. I have an extra candy bar, waiting here, for you. Peace

Posted in Happy Friday! on 2008-03-07 20:56:17

Thanks for the comment on my blog. I enjoyed getting to know you through your posts. I sent you a more detailed message via Thoughts email. Peace.

Posted in Counseling and Weekend on 2008-03-07 19:59:31

My favorite definition of love ... "Love, as a word, is memorialized in countless books, movies, poems, and musical compositions. While there are many definitions of love, its essence, when used as a verb, can be captured in a few phrases: to care for, to cherish, to respect, to honor, to show an interest in, to value, or to treat with kindness." ~Francine Ward~

Posted in The things we do for kids. on 2008-03-07 14:30:44

Hi KP -- I'm pretty new to reading your blog, but as I read about the problem with your daughter I had a thought. Our outward behavior comes from our struggles within. Until we understand why we do the things we do we have no power to change our behavior. I'm only guessing here ... but wonder if your daughter is acting out to get additional attention. Having a mom who is battling cancer can be very scary for a child. On some level I'm sure she is afraid of losing you. Maybe she even feels a sense of unfairness that her Mom is sick. Sometimes when we feel life is unfair we even the score, so to speak, by taking things that are not ours to take. Perhaps instead of a conversation about her stealing and lying a conversation should be had addressing her feelings and fears in regard to your illness. Sometimes speaking honestly and giving reassurance can make a world of difference. Peace.

Posted in Personal Chaos on 2008-03-07 12:08:44

"to err is human, to forgive divine." Alexander Pope DS -- Each one of your posts speak to, touch and challenge the deepest part of my spirit. I leave your posts with no words on my lips as absolute truth's response is always one of silence. "All of us have the ability to fly in a truly free heart ... on forgiving wings". Forgiveness is a choice ... a choice that is available to each and every one of us. I was not familiar with the song "Raven". The amazing powerful lyrics speak truth. Thanks for introducing me to the song and for always lifting my thoughts toward Heaven. Peace.

Posted in Blessings in disguise? on 2008-03-06 17:31:19

How wonderful that even in this most difficult time you are able to see the small blessings and miracles each day holds. Even in times of hurt and rejection ... love is present in our lives ... that love (from family, and friends) will lift you up, give you wings and carry you through this time of challenge. Yes, you are most worthy and deserving of love. That you own that is such a positive step. Enjoy your weekend away with your friend. Asking God to meet your every need and give you the desires of your heart. Peace.

Posted in Touching Shoulders on 2008-03-06 12:49:56

Thanks for posting this poem, Keepdreaming. This site and all the kind people here have been a Godsend to me. Your thoughts and kind words, to me, have encouraged, lifted my spirits and blessed my heart countless times. Thanks for taking the time to love me. Thanks for being you. Peace.

Posted in If you had only one week on 2008-03-06 12:40:08

Hi Keepdreaming -- This post is certainly one for pondering and soul searching. I'm going to have to give this some thought. Since I'm a girl who can't seem to condense her thoughts into a few words perhaps I'll write a post on this subject at some point in time. I'm so sorry your Dad's time with you is short. Each person processes and deals with bad news in their own way. While you might feel strongly it would be best and easiest for your Dad if he accepted and came to terms with it ... that might not be his way or what's best for him. We are all different. Maybe your Dad wants his last days to be as normal as possible. Sometimes when we accept something we give up ... stop living and wait for the grim reaper to appear at the door. The doctors are not God. Many who refuse to believe they are dying live long past their predicted date of demise. You and your dad remain in my thoughts and prayers. Peace & God Bless.

Posted in Suicide on 2008-03-06 12:13:45

TJ -- This is so sad. I'm so sorry for your loss. Hindsight is always 20/20. Many times the signs are so subtle that we only see them after the fact. I agree with "keep dreaming" that anyone who takes their own life is out of their mind. In January I wrote a post "Remembering A Friend" on suicide. I will send you the post and link, via email, so you don't have to search through all my posts. Below is a comment I wrote to pgm. My prayers are with you and all those who have been touched by Bob's passing. Peace. ------------------------------------------- From a comment I left[ pgm] ... on his post "untimely" "Suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem." I have no answers or wisdom to share with you. All I can do is tell my story and share what I told myself to get through all the pain and horror. I'm not a person who can tell myself nothing and be at peace with that. My friend could not live for himself ... how could he live for me, his family, his favorite sport team or his favorite TV show. What dwells in the mind at the moment someone takes their own life remains a mystery. I believe the mind gets stuck ... the person is unable to see beyond that moment in time. All the rest of their days (in their mind) they will feel exactly as they do at that moment. I remember a time I had an abscessed tooth. I had never experienced such pain. If my mind had told me this pain would be with me for the rest of my days I wouldn't have been able to go on. I tell people over and over ... it's become my mantra .... The circumstances and pain in your life are only for this moment and NOT for all time. You can't beat yourself up for not pushing harder. I pushed very hard with my friend and it didn't change the outcome. It continues to amaze me why we fear talking about the hurts in our hearts with others.

Posted in Time To Give Up on 2008-03-06 00:33:54

It is a difficult decision knowing when is the right time to give up on a relationship. In one of Hollis' posts, entitled, "Let It Go" there was a sentence that really hit home for me. "Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left". You can read the complete post by following the link below. http://www.thoughts.com/Hollis/blog/let-it-goin-2008-69282/ Peace.

Posted in Dedicated To The Memory of my Dad on 2008-03-06 00:08:04

What a moving and beautiful post to your dad. I think it's the thing I like best about thoughts.com, that we can write out our feelings to those, for whatever reason, we are unable to speak with in person. The words to the song are perfect. This Josh Groban song stirs my soul. Perhaps your Dad had a hand in sending David your way. My friend Mark wrote about love transending death. I included his words in a February post. http://www.thoughts.com/ColoradoDreamin/blog/favorite-love-thoughts-63733/ Take Care .... Peace, Hugs & Love

Posted in Lies or Heartbreak? on 2008-03-05 23:11:42

Bravo for the way your step daughter handled this. Women in their 20's and 30's are my greatest guides and teachers. The band-aid example was brilliant. Many of us struggle with not wanting to hurt the feelings of another. We think lying or saying nothing is the way to go. I know several men who are with someone they don't feel passion for ... someone they don't even enjoy the company of, all because they don't want to rock the boat and hurt that person. What they don't realize is their silence and lack of honesty is not only hurting themselves, but the other person as well. Perhaps it's the way we were raised ... hearing .... "don't burn your bridges" .... "don't let the door hit you in the behind on your way out". We are been programmed to believe that if we let go of something, nothing new will ever come to fill it's place. Even the smallest amount of hope can carry us through our day. I was in a situation last summer, with a man, whose life was very lonely. I realized his inability to tell me our friendship was over and done with came from his need to keep a smidgen of hope alive in his life. In some ways I needed that small smidgen as well and was thankful he left a small crack in the door. Thankfully, I recognized his need ... knew it was over between us and didn't get stuck in a holding pattern, waiting and hoping for his call. Many who can't handle hurting another seem to be perfectly content with the torture of others. Pecking away ... with small digs throughout the day ... digs that slowly wear down the self esteem and spirit of another. In an interview Maya Angelou referred to this practice as being pecked to death by ducks. She went on to say she would much rather prefer a clean kill. To speak the truth in love, is love. Love does not leave someone dangling. Love does not keep someone holding on to false hope. Love holds with an open hand. Love takes no hostages. Love unlocks the prison door freeing another to move on and find the love and happiness they so richly deserve. Thanks Hungry Heart for this most thought provoking post. Peace.

Posted in Here, There and Everywhere on 2008-03-05 19:11:18

"I Love You More Today Than Yesterday" is by the group Spiral Staircase. I love the Motown sound too, as I grew up and live in the Motor City. Peace.

Posted in I am back on 2008-03-05 16:57:35

Welcome Back KP --- I'm glad your treatments are going well. I'm saying prayers and thinking positive thoughts as you continue on your journey to wellness. I look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you better. Peace.

Posted in Happy Birthday to you on 2008-03-05 16:52:05

"A Birthmother puts the needs of her child above the wants of her heart." Skye Hardwick Founder of "Life Mothers" Dear KP -- What a beautiful sentiment to your daughter. Reading it brought tears to my eyes. Giving up a child for adoption is the ultimate demonstration of unselfish love. I disagree that you were not there for your daughter ... while not being there in a physical sense .... you were present, in her life, spiritually. Many times, we fail, to acknowledge the power of the spiritual realm. Your thoughts and prayers, for your little girl were felt by her ... they gave her strength and made a difference in her life. As a little girl my Grandmother didn't live close by. I saw her only occasionally. On one of those visits she pulled me aside saying .... "Colorado do you know how special you are to me .... Do you know that each day I pray for you and ask God to help, protect and guide you. Her words made me feel very special and loved. More times than I could count I felt Grandma's loving prayers throughout my school day .... sometimes it was when the answer would come, while taking a test ... sometimes when the school bully left me alone ... at other times when my misplaced homework magically showed up. While not there physically I felt my Grandmother's presence (through her thoughts and prayers) each and every day. I pray that your daughter, at some point in time, will want to know you and desire a relationship with you. When that time comes I'm sure she will have countless stories to share in regard to the thoughts and prayers sent up, on her behalf, by you. Peace.

Posted in What is Love? on 2008-03-04 00:05:28

Love wants and desires another to be all they were put on this earth to be. Love gives another the freedom to live up to their potential and fulfill their dreams. But ... what is the best version of someone else and what gives me the right to know that for another? Many times we have a plan for someone we love... take this class ... take this job .... join a gym ....etc. etc. We can't wait to mold and shape them into the person we desire or need them to be. Not everyone is compatible. Not everyone is with who they should be. We cannot change another person. We cannot give someone the desire to change and grow. The only person we can change is ourselves. Control (in any way) is not Love. Love holds with an open hand. If someone isn't right for us we need to step away ... and let them go instead of trying to make them into someone else. Peace.

Posted in Here, There and Everywhere on 2008-03-03 14:29:22

I thought I knew every Beatle song... but this was a new one for me. I loved it!!!!! Several of my romantic relationships have been long distance in nature. I have folders and folders filled with song lyrics that I have shared with those close to my heart. I loved the songs you mentioned. The older songs, from the 40's, are very romantic as well. You might want to check out Rod Stewart's "The Great American Songbook" series. Wishing you and David all the love in the world. Peace.

Posted in The Funeral on 2008-03-03 14:10:20

Hi EasyToSay -- After working the weekend stopped by to catch up with you and learned there has been a lot going on. I had tears in my eyes as I read of your children finding Gizmo, dead, on Master 4's train table. The reaction and handling of this situation, by FOTY made me see red. What a wonderful eulogy, written by your daughter. I see she takes after her Mum in the writing department. I have never had a pet, but have a very soft spot in my heart for animals. In my area a local grief support group added a support group for those dealing with the loss of a pet. Our pets are family. Most times they are more loving and faithful than the people in our lives. May Gizmo rest in peace. You and your children remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted in What am I looking for?? on 2008-03-03 13:43:23

I look for ...... A kind, caring, gentleman Honesty Emotionally Available Ability to Communicate Peace.

Posted in Venting Single Nurse Mom on 2008-03-03 00:32:50

"To often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." --Leo Buscaglia ----------------- It truly is the little things that make the biggest difference. Peace.

Posted in LOST in love on 2008-03-02 00:13:06

Someone else who loves "Lost" .... oh good!!!! Your post was exactly my take on this episode. With all the time travel ... all the mysteries ... the love between Desmond and Penny was the constant ... always there ... transcending through time and space. I had tears in my eyes as the episode ended. This episode especially spoke to me as I had written and posted a birthday wish to a forever love that I don't see anymore the day before this episode aired. "Love conquers time and place. Trusting in love solves everything." I'm cheering for you and KP. Whatever happens your love will prevail. Peace.

Posted in Still Believe.......... on 2008-03-01 23:10:41

Beautiful inspirational post conveying perfectly the walk of faith. The words are from the song ... Still Believe Artist: Hilary Weeks Album: Lead Me Home Peace.

Posted in Mystery Man A STORY (I will always be with you) on 2008-03-01 22:04:17

Fantastic story. Awesome brilliant writing. I enjoyed every word and can't wait to read the next chapter. Your writing transports the reader directly into the world of your characters. I eagerly await more words from your pen. Peace. p.s. Love the new picture.

Posted in My First Time on 2008-03-01 21:47:59

Welcome to thoughts. No reason to be nervous. Relax ... write what's on your heart and enjoy your time here. I have found everyone to be very welcoming and friendly. I'm glad your here. Peace.

Posted in Happy Birthday!!! 3-01-08 on 2008-03-01 11:55:50

Hey Christian -- Today's your special day ... 7 years ago today our world was graced by your presence. You were created in love by a God who loves, cherishes and adores you. God placed you in a family that loves, cherishes and adores you as well. Never forget that you are unique and special. There's no one else in the universe that's exactly like you. No one who could ever take your place. Wishing you the Best Birthday Ever. Birthday Wishes Send With Love From Michigan The Lord will be happy with you. You will rest in his love. He will sing and be joyful about you. Zephaniah 3:17(b)