I have another issue.... My husband and I have been married for 6 months now. About a year or so ago I caught him up in a situation where he was having an affair with another lady..... After I found out the situation I tried leaving him, however, after he begged and cried I forgave him....well lets say I forgot for a minute.. then a few months later the same girl called my phone claiming she was pregnant with his child.... She confirmed later that she was not pregnant and my boyfriend said that he'd never slep with her... however... a week after we got married.... this same chic sent a letter to our home addressed to me saying that she was pregnant and this could be his child... I was extremely upset and hurt that I was going through that all over again... I called her with the # she provided at the bottom of the paper, only to find out later that she was in fact pregnant and the child was either My new husband's or his BROTHERS.... Now that is some Jerry shit!!!! , right? Yeah I know, however In November we went to the court house me, my husband, his brother, the baby, the chic to get a paternity test.... My husband denies ever actually sleeping with her,, but he says that he " just received oral" and any time that I bring up the situation he gets really angry and maybe just brush me off.... but... today I was fed up and went back to the letter that she wrote the week after my wedding... his brother answered the phone and said that they have to go back next month for another hearing.... a couple people who I told about the situatuion keeps asking me " what I am going to do"

In honesty, I really don't know what I am suppose to do... Because he never admitted to me that he slep with her  means that he is really going to get it if it comes out to be his son. I am going to be really upset and hurt and I am going to take action because that means that I  can never trust him again.... for the simple fact that he was lying to me for the pass year and a half.....
SOOOO, What am I going to do if this little boy comes back to be his and his brother has been taking care of him since he was born and seems to have a realationship with the kid's mother.

Wait!!, plus on top of all of that the child support papers were delivered to his grandmother's house and his mother was trying to hide the papers from me to help protect both of her boys... I know this is kinda dumb but I don't talk to her any longer... I feel like she is out of order, because she is always in my face saying how I am the daughter she never had and how she loves me so much...... Plus I found out through my 2 yr old that she was watching my baby and that baby at the same time often....... Tell me what you think??? I need some help this is a very serious matter and I don't feel comfortable talking to close friends and relatives about this issue because I don't want them all in our business and judging me and my husband.