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Simplicity on 2007-09-26 11:00:48 |
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Yes it's so sad, but you know, love REAL love is the love that is reciprocated.
Someone once told me that and now I see the truth in it.
I was in your situation once and thought he was the one and that there was no one else for me in this world.
Well he didn't feel the same way.
I learned through time that true love is between two people, not with oneself.
It's the cruel reality, but one must learn to face it and survive one day at a time.
Try to keep yourself busy. Do things that YOU like to do. Work on yourself and slowly you too will see the truth.
Best of luck!
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Simplicity on 2007-09-25 13:06:29 |
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It's tough, but let her go...not just physically but mentally.
It's sad...but you can't force her to love you back. I think she does see all your qualities...but she doesn't FEEL the same for you.
In the meantime, you're missing out on your true love that I'm sure is out there...but it's not her.
Don't destroy your life. Too bad for her. You honestly tried and it's all you can do. It's no one's fault
You just need to accept it and come to terms with it.
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very depressed today on 2007-09-25 12:59:49 |
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You're not a loser for loving your car.
If you can't afford it, let it go.
There will be better times in the future.
Perhaps another car...a better one!
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bloody hell what am i gonna do on 2007-09-25 10:51:12 |
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Good luck with the pants and the interview!
Sounds like you have a good man by your side.
I workout too and don't seem to be losing weight...I guess it's a matter of time?
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Rubbish on 2007-09-17 12:18:59 |
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You have to forgive yourself sometimes and in fact, include set backs in the whole scheme of success.
You have to expect to "screw up" sometimes...but see it in light of a larger project towards weight loss.
I think I dare say we all binge eat from time to time.
What helps me to put guilt aside is to go for a workout at the gym, and then I tell myself I'm okay and I'm gonna keep going with my plans.
I don't know if I make much sense, but there you go.
Also, don't become too fixated on your weight...Rather, focus on being healthy and exercising and enjoying the new found energy and benefits of working out...no matter what size you are.
This way, I believe that you're more likely to reach success and to minimize disappointment.
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Smothering parents on 2007-09-17 08:41:42 |
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Hi,
I have read through your other blogs in order to understand this one. And I think now I understand this better.
Don't be too upset with your mom. Sometimes parents do things the wrong way...sometimes they are annoying, over bearing, etc...BUT, your mom means well. Doesn't that make you "forgive" her a little?
You might feel you don't want her around, watching your every move...but give her some credit...She's doing it because she cares and is probably feeling VERY desperate herself.
Give her the chance to get to know you. She is worried and just wants to make sure you're okay.
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Loner on 2007-09-17 08:24:38 |
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Good for you. It takes a lot of courage to take the "The Road Not Taken". Your special companion will come when you're the busiest, fulfilling your own needs first.
"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."---Robert Frost
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Life sucks on 2007-09-06 10:54:11 |
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Buy a lottery ticket. You might win again!
Don't give up. Just take it one day at a time...worry about being happy today. Tomorrow will bring new things.
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first night without him on 2007-09-06 10:48:41 |
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oh poor you. That sounds really painful.
I'm in a similar situation...but I haven't left yet. Out of fear that I will go insane without him!!!
I totally understand you...but I think it's good to let him miss you. I know it's killing you and you probably want to pick up the phone and know what he thinks about you not being around anymore...but I think he might begin to appreciate you now that you're not there...and sonner or later...that call will come.
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my boyfriend doest understand me on 2007-09-05 10:34:28 |
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Have you told him his behaviour bothers you?
If you have and he just doesn't seem to be doing anything about it...I'd give him an ultimatum...and if he still doesn't change and it bothers you that much, then let him go.
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Sensual Love on 2007-09-05 07:24:15 |
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"Love seems to have a higher purpose.
It follows a heart that does not lie."
My favourite line.
A beautiful poem in all its sincerity about the human condition.
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My Mom is a so mean on 2007-09-04 11:18:07 |
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I don't know why parents do that! My mom used to do that to me too.
I was not allowed to talk to boys for more than ten minutes on the phone.
My mom said boys would get the impression that I was always "available" and that I should keep myself busy.
I still don't understand to this day!
But hey, like everything else, this too will pass!!! Hang in there.
Perhaps talk to your mom about this when she's in a good mood. Just bring it up without getting upset and ask her why she thinks it's not a good idea to talk to your gf on the phone (instead of doing nothing)...and be subtle when giving YOUR opinion on the issue.
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The Ex on 2007-09-04 10:22:06 |
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She'll probably be jealous for a little while...but if there really isn't a threat...she'll get over it.
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