and thats the wonders of life and the stupid people in life . there is nothing wrong with it at all . the best thing to do is be upfront about it straight up . ya u will lose a few and some who will not care thats the risk of it all but honesty is the key to life relationships thats the best i got for u

In a nutshell? You don't get to have your cake and eat it too.

The ironic thing about your blog here is that you have actually stated that sex isn't that big of a deal to you, yet you went through a sex change operation? But putting that aside, the bottom line is that you did what you wanted to do regardless of what others thought of it. You changed your body and you knew the stigma that would be attached to anyone undergoing such a drastic physical change. Are there those who would love you with or without your genitals? Of course there are. But when a person does what you've done, it is easy for others to assume that they were not satisfied with the body (gender) they were born with and therefore they may be turned off by the whole thing strictly based on their assumption that you have low self esteem. The world we live in isn't simple or easy for anyone, but to answer your question, hiding something like that would only make it that much more bizarre. Let people get to know you for who you are and learn to accept who you are despite what others do or say. You're the only one that has to live in that skin. Learn to love it.

Transexualism has nothing to do with sexual orientation at all,many people think it is.

But thanks for giving me your words about this, it has given me something to think about, i never saw it that way before :)

First off, KUDOS for being who you are. As far as someone accepting you - that's harder. If you truly know a person, have discussed their likes and dislikes - you can get a feel for how they will respond. I've know from the first day I met my husband that he was bisexual. I told him before he told me. I love him, I don't judge him or feel differently about him. i'm not sure where you live but I would hope you would have a support system to help you find acceptance. I agree with you 100% that the actual act of sex is far less important than loving. I hope you find that special someone who will fulfill your dreams and be happy.

Thank You for the support, there are no support systeme that can help me here, lol Norway do not have to many of us, and i know im speaking for many of us too.
The lack of support system and the fact there is so few of us here mad me do this blog, support and advices can be found elswhere:)