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T.G.I.F. v S.H.I.T. on 2007-12-26 21:02:21 |
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ROFL...I don't know anything else to say.
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In Bed - and married. on 2007-12-26 20:59:12 |
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Hey...who said u could write my life story? =P
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slow realisation....... The irony!! on 2007-12-23 19:54:43 |
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I feel so horrible for all you seem to have gone through. My ex was mentally abusive. And my current husband has issues all his own. Love allows you to handle a lot of things that you probably shouldn't and wouldn't if you didn't love them. Not sure why that is. I say all the time "When it's good it's awesome but when it's bad...it's living hell"
Keep your chin up. I have found that when one door closes...a better one opens up. You are a mother and that gives you a strength that only another mother can understand.
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Privacy invaded on 2007-12-23 19:47:34 |
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AMEN!!
My husband does that too. I'm allowed no emotion at all, yet he can post stuff and has MANY sites all over the place. I have no idea what he post or to whom he post them to....I have always felt that if you go looking for things you will find them and it's doubtful you will like what you seek out.
I read some where on here "IF you ignore the facts it doesn't make them not so."
You have a right to release...and just because he knows who he is..doesn't mean everyone else does. When the decision was made to leave you....he left behind the right to tell you what to do.
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Empty on 2007-12-23 19:41:46 |
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=(
*hug*
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Happy Fucking Birthday To Me! on 2007-12-23 18:31:20 |
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IF this many is married...I can't believe you would even lower yourself to allowing your sell to "Feel" for him. Even if you were to "Get" him...he would more than likely do the same thing to you. My ex cheated our entire marriage...and I can promise you he is cheating on the fat cow he married now! It's a cycle with men who cheat. It's their drug.
I hope a you find someone worthy to make your birthday wish a memory to last a life time.
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I had an Evil dream on 2007-12-22 20:14:09 |
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it's easy to know what he will tell you. But like any parents command, harder still to follow.
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My Dad's once a year X-mas check? What I feel like on 2007-12-21 22:02:37 |
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WOW! *hug* My kids father is the same way...except my kids are still young and he ...well his new wife..stopped sending checks about 3 years ago....they havent even heard his voice in over 8 yrs. The oldest is graduating this year. Don't waste your energy...he will never understand...never get it..never change. Sperm donor is just what some men are. it's all so sad.
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I kinda blew up. on 2007-12-21 21:56:44 |
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Relying on others sucks! You are always let down. And if you are lucky enough not to be let down...WOOHOO! Enjoy it!
*HUG*
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Goodness on 2007-12-13 21:07:57 |
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Been there...lost 80 pounds kept it off for two years..now I'm pregnant...even with the 80 pounds I still had 40 to go. Check out Bill Phillips "eat for life" It has 150 receipes in there and some are soooo simple. You each 6 times a day and I promise you won't feel hungry. Read the whole thing before you start the new way of eating. Diet is 80% of the battle. Even if all you get are some bands and you do some band exercises while you watch TV the diet is the most important.
Also, stop comparing yourself to others. Just because those girls are skinny doesn't mean they are healthy. You want to be healthy first and far most. Also remember that there is no spot training. You have to take care of your body as a whole....inside first then outside. THe book even tells you that denying urself won't work. I think if you get it you will feel a change in yourself just by reading it.
Good Luck! I'd kill to just need 20 pounds off =)
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ASS KICKER IN TRAINING!!!!! on 2007-12-13 21:01:04 |
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Too funny! You aren't alone though...I have an aweful temper and I learned very early on that once something leaves your mouth you can NEVER take it back and it's NEVER forgotten. My mother taught me that lesson! So I .. like you say...tuck it all down....Words said in anger are meant to hurt...that is their purpose...but people never understand that..they will always believe those are your true feelings and while sometimes they might be....down deep that is rarely how we feel. Sit down...write each one a letter on how you feel about all the things they have done to you. Then if you want to give it to them..do...if not ... tear it up. Just writing it all out is sometimes the greatest gift you can give yourself. Keep a journal...and put in BIG BOLD letters "A purging of my soul...not meant for anyone to read....if you do read....the pain you feel is your own burden to carry" And if some Jack*** reads it....serves their butt right to be upset. You will have your day...
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I am divorced on 2007-12-06 20:20:31 |
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divorce sucks! Especially when you are in love and it isn't/wasn't returned. To hear "I never really loved you" or "he/she makes me feel complete" *sigh* I wish you all the best and I hope that your miss right finds her way to you before you become numb to it all. Just remember that what happen before isn't always what will happen again. Your daughter is lucky to have a father that cares so much about her future.
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Mad world. on 2007-12-06 20:10:12 |
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The first part of your blog so seemed like the me inside being allowed to have a voice. You said all the things I must keep locked away.
I'm glad the end for you was happy.
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