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Men on 2007-10-23 18:37:37 |
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I doubt what I'm going to say will matter....but you put this out there so I'm going to say it.
I realize it makes you feel good to have a man's attention....we all do...its a huge ego boost. Leave it at that. Messing with a married man seems harmless enough to you...especially if it's just about the sex...but to his wife or children..no matter the age or what he tells you....you could be completely destroying their lives. "no big deal" to you could be a life to someone else. Just remember a man who would or will cheat on his wife....no matter what the excuse is...would do the same to you...you aren't the first and even if you are...you won't be the last. He doesn't deserve the devotion any female would give him. It's natural to look and be attracted. But a REAL man will know that there is a difference from looking at the menu and eating from it. Respect yourself more than lowering yourself to be a mistress. We can convience ourselves of anything...but in the end...the truth still remains the same.
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ME ME ME on 2007-10-17 16:56:34 |
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All I know is that some how you tapped into my soul. Scary really...I can more than relate to your hurt. Read my blogs...I think we might be on the same plane of lock out.
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Friends: Can't live with them, can't commit them on 2007-10-17 16:45:19 |
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some times sadly...Death. Every person is different. Some of us stay for reason that no sane person would except and some of us stay for reason's that are perfectly normal but no person in their right mind would stay for. Some of us Love. Really truly love. And that love is unconditional and unconditional to a fault. Does make it right or wrong. It is what it is. Maybe try introducing her to a nicer guy. Just to hang out or be friends with. Maybe being treated with respect will make her see the other guy is a loser...most the time ...for women...it's a fear of being alone. As stupid as it sounds...that fear can...and usually is very overwhelming.
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Gluten Free Side Dishes on 2007-10-16 18:22:29 |
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Is this the diet recommended for those diagnosed with Autism?
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why i am not a nudist on 2007-10-07 16:49:15 |
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ROFL
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Sex and Women ! on 2007-10-07 15:59:30 |
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back in the day before others beliefs were forced upon you....Sex was just sex. I think rules were placed on it because 1. it made women more powerful and 2. because some weren't getting any so they were pissed about it. As a result women became sluts for having it and it was deemed wrong and shameful!! My grandfather once told me that I needed to release some stress after a nasty divorce and he recommended a f*** buddy. Best thing I ever did.
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Please tell me your opinion.... on 2007-10-07 15:27:06 |
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are you sure your boyfriend isn't my husband? It sounds like a mind game. He wants you to feel like you own him something.
Be careful is all I know to say. He is just your boyfriend now. Think long and hard about living a life just like that day in and day out. Your request was simple and should not have had to be reworded. He knew what you wanted the first time you asked. This whole thing upsets me because it's oh so familiar. =( You were right if that helps you at all and you did nothing wrong and said nothing wrong.
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I try to be Me. on 2007-10-07 15:19:33 |
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Amen!
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fade out slowly on 2007-10-07 15:16:36 |
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I'm convinced that people rarely deserve those they have.
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men's evolution, multi-tasking, marriage, bikinis, on 2007-10-07 15:07:05 |
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LOL you crack me up! Thanks for being you.
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Control and Marriage = Divorce on 2007-10-07 14:00:31 |
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WOW! I agree with Wayne..a wife should be your best friend. She is your partner, teammate, best friend.
Thank you for sharing your story. It took great courage to share it.
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grades..Grades....GRADES! on 2007-10-07 13:41:17 |
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I don't know how old you are but I swear that was like reading my own diary. I'm 36 and I still can't do any right in my parents eyes and out of their 3 kids...I'm the only one who has maintained a job, doesn't mooch off of them, hasn't done drugs, hasn't lost my children to CPS, etc. I was an A student as well...national honor society, etc. even today it causes me pain. I've finally decided to just stop trying to make them proud. People are either proud of you for who you are..or they aren't. I wish parents understood how important it is to a child to just know that they are proud of them. I have two kids of my own and I try so hard to make sure they know I expect their best...but I am always proud of them if they have done what they knew to be right.
Hang in there. Maybe one day she will see how blessed she is to have such a wonderful child.
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A begining about endings on 2007-10-07 13:28:30 |
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only when you understand what you are afraid of can you begin to stand strong against it. You are half way there =)
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Who is God? on 2007-10-07 11:14:02 |
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LOL! I'm not sure why I find so much humor in some of this but I have really enjoyed reading this. I have found that when people study things indepth they often become very depressed at what they find. I believe that there is something out there...what I do not know. I believe that if Jesus Christ did really exsist then he was a great man!! I do follow his examples of treating others the way you would want to be treated and I try not to frown down on people just because they aren't like me. Christ was humble. I have never fully accepted all there is in the bible. It seemed to be written by men and therefore I have always felt it was a little bias. But that is just me.
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But When I Was a Believer, I Spake as a Child on 2007-10-07 09:21:44 |
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Thank you for sharing. Problem is no one will ever know anything for sure until apparently we are all dead..and since no one has come back to tell me what they have found....yeah..the point, huh? =)
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Husbands & Wives Working and Helping Each Other on 2007-10-07 08:51:12 |
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Then I will say you have a remarkable husband. Cherish it. Mine is pretty much at home 24/7..he owns his own business and when he isn't out doing a job...which isn't a lot lately...he is surfing who knows what! It is a rare thing for me to come home to any of those things done. I threw my hands up years ago....He tells me all the time I don't have to be a super woman...so I finally said "Ok" and I just stopped doing the things I always did. Trust me...EVERYONE noticed. Now I only do it when I can't stand it anymore....which is more often than I'd like it to be.
Go for you! I'm glad you have the deserved help! Because marriage is a partnership...and should be 50/50. It just rarely is.
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about had anough on 2007-10-02 20:51:21 |
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I agree with changing the locks...Give them $50 to go to a movie or something...then change the locks...set their stuff out in the front yard with the door and a note that reads....Free ride is over...it will be the best $50 you ever spent.
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control freak + perfectionist - facade on 2007-10-02 20:44:59 |
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Love is the only thing that continues to live on. And just because it wasn't returned love...doesn't mean it wasn't. And we all love many people throughout life. Just place those you love in the right places in life. It's perfectly normal to have past emotions sitting on a shelf some where that you look at and remember. It reminds us where we have been and sometimes reminds us we don't want to go back there =)
Chin up! the money will work its self out. There is never enough =)
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