Posted by
southernsun
on 2008-04-09 07:23:40 |
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| I want to give you a hug. Not all men are the same. Just the small,narrow minded few. |
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Posted by
debaterchick88
on 2008-04-10 20:29:49 |
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Thanks for that!! it really made me open my eyes. i only have one pet peeve dealing with the opposite sex and here it is.
when they think because they have money that they are automatically more attractive!! i worked as a secretary for 6 months in a building that had quite a few lawyers running in and out all the time. By the end of the 6 months i had been asked out by no less than 8 lawyers most of which had tried bribing me (ie shoes, a new snowboard, i found expensive jewelry worth more than i made my whole stay there on my desk along with gift cards for massive amounts of money). once i even got asked on a trip to Hawaii for a week! |
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Posted by
cas33
on 2008-04-12 23:33:27 |
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| I think yuo've pretty much covered it - except for the men who think ALL WOMEN are gold diggers. LOL! |
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Posted by
Brisosweet
on 2008-04-13 00:03:52 |
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| Oh Yeah, forgot about that one...lol |
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Posted by
another_blonde
on 2008-04-17 13:21:39 |
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you've pretty much covered it all, and job well done :]]
but my main pet peeve is when men speak to me as if i were a child or as if i had no brains.
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Posted by
tystikal
on 2008-04-22 15:23:11 |
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| My main pet peeve is when another blonde up top talks as though she has anything useful to say. |
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Posted by
tystikal
on 2008-04-22 15:23:50 |
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Posted by
BitterSweetheart
on 2008-04-26 01:24:29 |
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Posted by
BitterSweetNy
on 2008-05-24 16:47:32 |
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| Now, while I agree with the majority of those comments because a lot men have cornered this self behaving idiotically and selfishly so I will applaud that. However with the decline of men not taking care of children I feel like I should speak up. I am a feminist and actually prefer the romantic company of women but I know a good amount of men who take care of their babies, and do not think their only tool of love is their dick. By categorizing and grouping we are doing nothing to help and alleviate the problem. Celebrating things that a person should do is not the smartest thing to me, but giving credit where credit is do is another. The majority of the men in my life even those who don't have the best jobs and have not made the best choices take care of their children. We are breeding a different type of male that does care what happens to their off spring. Many of them grew up without fathers and are trying to do their best. Now while I say if you don't want a baby either don't lay down or damn well put on a condom and make provisions, I will not group men as dogs who fuck and bounce. |
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Posted by
BitterSweetNy
on 2008-05-24 17:01:40 |
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It was getting long so I had to start another comment. But I have to comment on number three. I think it's hard for a lot of women to understand that men actually view sex differently than we do. I hate the fact of the hoe, housewife analogy because most women will be that hoe for her man when in love.Think,just because a woman is sexually inhibited and free doesn't make her a whore. Men will always pay for pussy in some way or another. Dinner before hand, breakfast afterwards. In this society we have been taught that men pursue. But back on the point, men have a large desire to copulate that is in their DNA. Some are sensitive and find more of an emotional attachment to sex and do treat it as such, but their is a large amount that want to get done, point blank. It is you're job as a woman to understand his intentions at the start. If you can't get with the program then don't do it. As a woman you should be able to see the difference in he is wanting this to have sex or he is wanting this to have a relationship. And maybe as women we shouldn't believe that every sexual encounter is going to end in marriage. Allow yourselves to understand you're wants and needs sexually. Get in touch with your desires and stop acting like sometimes you don't just want to be intimate and have sex. Men are not as complicated as women can be. They want to get laid and they pursue that. Maybe looking at sex as a natural aspect of human interaction instead of as a tool or gift women wouldn't end up crying three days out of the week because he didn't call. And just because a man asked you on a date does not mean he wants to be in it long term. He wants to get to know you. And come on, he didn't think you were easy if he started a relationship with you. Maybe it wasn't a relationship at all. Maybe he just wanted to get down with you. Come on, lets stop looking at every you meet as a potential husband. Look at him as a man, who you want to get to know. Men fall in love to, and sometimes much harder than women do. The difference is a man is not planning your wedding three days in, he looks at it with a more logical eye. Do I like her, is she hot, does she accept me as I am, will she become a bug boo, is she crazy. I hate how woman get all worked up...calm the hell down.
Oh yeah and number 2, he is not thinking you want to sleep with him. He is really thinking I may have a chance at sleeping with her. Why not ask? Closed mouths don't get fed now do they?
And about the conceited thing. If a man wasn't a bit confident, would you even acknowledge him. Have you ever thought about it? Men do most of the pursuing. Maybe they could be a bit nervous about it and come off with a false sense of bravado. |
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