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Cats v. Dogs on 2008-05-27 19:34:35 |
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Yes this was awesome. My first out loud laughs since the whole Job and Drug Test Debacle...that has been days. So thank you Ladie...Kisses
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What Makes Us Faithful? on 2008-05-24 17:35:38 |
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* Does Know Love...sorry about that.
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What Makes Us Faithful? on 2008-05-24 17:35:12 |
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I think that you said it unlike anyway that I have heard it said. Love does not infidelity because love is about the emotional bond between two people that will exceed that of the flesh.
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Your Book is Being Written on 2008-05-24 17:29:18 |
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You touched me with this. So many people are using their persuasion and their position in this world to dim the light of those around them. Darkness is light because darkness is apart of awareness. Being aware of yourself is unlike any thing that we can experience in this short life that we have.
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Celibacy on 2008-05-24 17:16:42 |
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Celibacy is a smart choice because I feel as though many women are not confident enough with their sexuality to exert themselves positively in a sexual relationship. You must no yourself inside and out before making a jump sexually.
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The Everyday Vs. The Circumstantial Praiser Pt. 1 on 2008-05-24 17:04:55 |
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Okay, now normally I don't do much in the realms of religion because I believe that your relationship with God is your Relationship with God and I am not the one to judge it. I believe what I believe and I dare anyone to challenge me. But about the praiser...who is to tell anyone that the way they praise is wrong. I know God lives here in every way but I don't go Yelling out his name every second of the day. I pray daily good and bad. I am vessel but I don't act as if I know the insides and out of the God that everyone praises. This is something that you should leave to every person individually.
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5 PET PEEVES ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX(RANT) on 2008-05-24 17:01:40 |
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It was getting long so I had to start another comment. But I have to comment on number three. I think it's hard for a lot of women to understand that men actually view sex differently than we do. I hate the fact of the hoe, housewife analogy because most women will be that hoe for her man when in love.Think,just because a woman is sexually inhibited and free doesn't make her a whore. Men will always pay for pussy in some way or another. Dinner before hand, breakfast afterwards. In this society we have been taught that men pursue. But back on the point, men have a large desire to copulate that is in their DNA. Some are sensitive and find more of an emotional attachment to sex and do treat it as such, but their is a large amount that want to get done, point blank. It is you're job as a woman to understand his intentions at the start. If you can't get with the program then don't do it. As a woman you should be able to see the difference in he is wanting this to have sex or he is wanting this to have a relationship. And maybe as women we shouldn't believe that every sexual encounter is going to end in marriage. Allow yourselves to understand you're wants and needs sexually. Get in touch with your desires and stop acting like sometimes you don't just want to be intimate and have sex. Men are not as complicated as women can be. They want to get laid and they pursue that. Maybe looking at sex as a natural aspect of human interaction instead of as a tool or gift women wouldn't end up crying three days out of the week because he didn't call. And just because a man asked you on a date does not mean he wants to be in it long term. He wants to get to know you. And come on, he didn't think you were easy if he started a relationship with you. Maybe it wasn't a relationship at all. Maybe he just wanted to get down with you. Come on, lets stop looking at every you meet as a potential husband. Look at him as a man, who you want to get to know. Men fall in love to, and sometimes much harder than women do. The difference is a man is not planning your wedding three days in, he looks at it with a more logical eye. Do I like her, is she hot, does she accept me as I am, will she become a bug boo, is she crazy. I hate how woman get all worked up...calm the hell down.
Oh yeah and number 2, he is not thinking you want to sleep with him. He is really thinking I may have a chance at sleeping with her. Why not ask? Closed mouths don't get fed now do they?
And about the conceited thing. If a man wasn't a bit confident, would you even acknowledge him. Have you ever thought about it? Men do most of the pursuing. Maybe they could be a bit nervous about it and come off with a false sense of bravado.
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5 PET PEEVES ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX(RANT) on 2008-05-24 16:47:32 |
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Now, while I agree with the majority of those comments because a lot men have cornered this self behaving idiotically and selfishly so I will applaud that. However with the decline of men not taking care of children I feel like I should speak up. I am a feminist and actually prefer the romantic company of women but I know a good amount of men who take care of their babies, and do not think their only tool of love is their dick. By categorizing and grouping we are doing nothing to help and alleviate the problem. Celebrating things that a person should do is not the smartest thing to me, but giving credit where credit is do is another. The majority of the men in my life even those who don't have the best jobs and have not made the best choices take care of their children. We are breeding a different type of male that does care what happens to their off spring. Many of them grew up without fathers and are trying to do their best. Now while I say if you don't want a baby either don't lay down or damn well put on a condom and make provisions, I will not group men as dogs who fuck and bounce.
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Singin' Trends on 2008-05-24 16:40:28 |
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Wow, that is all to harsh in my opinion. Music is a form of release and experience. Each writer, or artist is taking an experience and is relating that experience to a musical art form. Of course I am not a side line hoe, but I have been there before. I have been the A woman, while my significant other has B's and C's. No one said that I wanted to be one of many, even if it is the top of the list. However that just makes me think about what it means to be in a committed relationship and if monogamy is the way. However that is another point all together. Check my blog on that one. My point is music is music and the thing that makes it powerful is the message that allows people to relate to the subject. Now all the bust it babies and hoe's this and that, that is monopolizing the dance music market is about lifestyle and what is sexually enticing to men, because women want to appear sexy they dance to this music. However what you represent is a choice and is not much about the music you listen too. I don't care for the word Nigga but I still may sway a bit to a good song that uses the word. I feel it is a bit harsh that people may relate to a song and embrace that musical outlet, that you say they are being representatives of it. I am sure many woman appreciated Fantasia's Baby Mama song, because they could relate but it is not their first icon of representation. The fault would be with the song writer if there is any at all.
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Stop It! on 2008-05-24 16:30:37 |
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Advice is subjective. When a person comes to you to talk shop in other words, they are coming to get another perspective. It does not mean that they are going to do exactly as you have said. Life is about experience and experience is the teacher. People must learn for themselves. You may have been through something similar but no two experiences are ever going to be exactly alike. By saying that you are no longer a sounding board relinquishes you acts as a friend. That is why judgment is so harsh. When people continue to repeat the same behaviors they are searching for a truth. A truth that is sometimes told right out to them by someone else, however that it is not clear, until you feel the impact of it for one's self. Life is to complicated to bottle all the similar experiences in a jar and label them.
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Bri Answers DebaterChick88 on 2008-05-24 16:26:12 |
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Really, the legacy that we leave behind has more to do with what we have accomplished or who we have touched on an emotional and physical level.
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Bri's Likes In The Opposite Sex(Pet Peeves Sequel) on 2008-05-24 16:24:17 |
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Is this all? Are mental and emotional aspects your only desires from a man. A friend can be all those things! There has to be more to it then just this, right?
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So What? on 2008-05-22 12:51:01 |
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Aww sweetie... I know I am a day late, but I am rooting for you. Funny but mine has been as well. GRRRR. We will find jobs, I know we will. :)
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To All My Friends and Others who read my blog on 2008-05-15 19:47:20 |
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I will miss you...Much love XOXOX
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Emergency Bathroom Break on 2008-05-15 19:45:19 |
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Don't you just hate the Er. Health care in this country. What a shame...
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The Dangers of Drugs and PreEmployment Drug Test! on 2008-05-15 18:23:11 |
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Thank you... I am still waiting... and nothing. GRRRRR. Guessing I might not have passed. That will be the last time I smoke while looking for a job.
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Let's Get Ready To Rumble!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on 2008-05-11 23:44:32 |
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The CROWD SINGS IN UNISON...Champion
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Broken Chains on 2008-05-11 23:42:39 |
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That is beyond words Nubian. Freedom is blessing. I am glad you found yours.
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Hello Sex, Lies, and Adultry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on 2008-05-11 23:41:19 |
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Wow... I liked it... Very intriguing. Your making me want to be nosy. HMMMM
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Thump goes the bible! on 2008-05-11 23:25:26 |
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Yeah... I feel you on that. I love God... yay God...but the scary holy roller can be a bit of a put off.
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ABC's of Broadzilla's Demise on 2008-05-07 21:32:51 |
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LOL
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Lady Botox on 2008-05-07 21:29:13 |
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Oh..sweets. I hope the headache goes away. About those Heroin shots.. I hate to say this...but heroin relieves so much pain. But downside...your addict of one hit. And that's freebasin...so hmmm straight through the veins I am sure is worse. Don't ask me how I know...I just do. Hope you begin to feel better
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