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So I am visiting my Mums for the first time since the engagement.....I am yet to spill the beans to her though. Quite confused as to how I'm gonna bring up the subject since I have a feeling her reaction wont be the best! I am trying to come up with counter arguments on my part to fire back at her when she trys to shoot me down. All I have is that I really love this guy, that the two of us have thought a lot about this and that its what we want. My Mother is not one to accept this though her retort will be "your not even out your teens yet, how can you know what love is, how do you know its what you want??" I dont know how to explain what it is I feel for Calum - all I know is that he is the first person I think of every morning and the last every night. I miss him when hes not there etc etc all the old cliches.....and to be fair how am I going to know any better next year or in 5years time what love is?? I was always told life is full of risks and surely vowing to spend the rest of your life with someone and to both be faithful for the rest of your lives will always be a risk whether your 19 or 59? I believe that people should grab these chances in life - Calum or I could get hit by a bus any day (I pray to god that doesnt happen) but if it did I would regret having held back because of other peoples opinions. I want my Mum to know - but I want to know she will just accept the situation as it is and be happy for me....I suppose telling her is another one of those risks - HELP! ?
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Posted by Beautiful_Disgrace on 2007-07-27 06:50:05 | Rating: | Views: 126
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mothers are always like that coz they only want what's best for us. but i must say that they aren't always right. there are times when mothers and daughters don't see things in the same way. but we shouldn't hate them if ever they disagree with what we want. i'm assuming that you're still young. i'd probably say, "do whatever makes you happy" but you also have to consider a lot of things. you have to ask yourself if you're really ready for this. i'm not discouraging you or anything. all i wanted to say is that, take your time and have fun. goodluck sis!
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Posted by babyleigh
on 2007-07-27 09:33:46
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Thankyou - I am only 19 and I can honestly say I have thought things through. We plan to have a long engagement so we arent rushing things too much. I understand the whole - Mothers want whats best for us and I would never hate her for having an opinion. I guess my issue is the best way to tell her?
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Posted by Beautiful_Disgrace
on 2007-07-27 15:57:59
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hi beautiful!
that's an unfortunate handle - u r not a disgrace, u r just beautiful.
that's what it is at the end of the day - you need to lead yr own life. yes, u r young, but if you can reasonably satisfy yrself that yr guy wants u then that's good.
look carefully at what you need, what you want and what you see for your future and try to evaluate the whole situation - not just today and tomorrow.
good luck
cheers.
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Posted by badlydrawnstickman
on 2007-07-27 20:55:51
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