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 This crazy life - what is going on?
Sometimes life is just crazy.

And I wonder how we do it.  How do we loose loved ones in our lives and keep going.   Ya know get up, go to work, get life going again.  Well it seems I've been surrounded by death these past few weeks.  Three dear people in my community have been sent to heaven and all with in a span of about a week.  Then I received a call from my Mom, telling me Ralph (an old neighbor, and close family friend) has passed away.  His service would be Friday night with burial on Saturday. I knew I would have to make the 350 mile trip to attend, and with my fears of driving on the highways I also knew it would take a miracle for me to get there.  So Friday morning I set out to see if I could do it.  Not with out some morning nerves that caused me to vomit like a drunken fool.  Stupid nerves.  But I got in the car and drove and I made it, along with my best friend Gretchen, my dog.  I was there for Ralph's service and I got to see my family, which was a bonus.  Just about all of my nieces, and nephew's (that lived local) came to see me too.  What a wonderful week-end it was.  Then the drive home.  Well I made that too. 
Only to come home and learn of Erika's death (Cancersucks), which really took my breath away.  What a beautiful lady she was.  I really with all my heart thought that with as much courage she had, that she would beat her beast.  But she too is in heaven with the Lord. 

Then last night as I'm closing up the shop, I couldn't find my shop cat (Alley Kat).  Only to look out and see here lying close to my car, so I walked over and there she was a mangled mess.  I immediately picked her up and her back legs just dangled.  Lucky there is a vet only 2 places up, and I took her there.  Just to be told, "there is nothing we can do for her".  So, I've lost my beautiful Kitty of 15yrs. 

Now please don't get me wrong, I'm not comparing a humans death with that of people.  It just seems that lately I've been around DEATH just to much. 

I couldn't wait for October to be over and here it is November 3rd and I'm wondering if it will be a month like October?  Oh, my I hope not.

Stay safe my friends
I NEED a break!

Rest in Peace

Helen
Lois
Rooster
Ralph
Erika
&
Alley Kat
Love
Julie
    Posted by BeJeweled on 2009-11-03 13:06:14 | Rating: | Views: 41
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It's been crazy Brock, I just pray that it's over. Thank you very much!!!
Posted by  BeJeweled  on 2009-11-03 13:14:17 
  
prayers for strength.. but this too will pass.. the pain will recede and leave behind the memories..
Posted by  pastormike  on 2009-11-03 13:41:59 
  
I just hope it passes soon. I'm sick to "death" of funerals... And I would love to have them all here with us again. If even just to say I Love YOU!!!
Posted by  BeJeweled  on 2009-11-03 13:55:42 
  
Gosh, it's horrible to have a week like that. I guess it happens to us all from time to time - clusters of deaths that leave us wondering. Lately I've been hearing about a lot of births which is really cheering. One of them, the newborn son of a dear younger friend in church, has Down's Syndrome, which is sad and yet, knowing the family he is born into, rather special. It isn't what she would have wanted, but she will accept him as the gift God gave her. What on earth would we do without our faith? Makes me wonder if I shouldn't talk about it more and yet I don't like pushing people when they don't want to know. But, like you, I would flounder if I didn't know God was there for me. Hope this ends it all for you and the future holds a lot of good things. 15 years is a good innings for a cat. Bless you, E x
Posted by  overthehillandfar...  on 2009-11-03 13:45:29 
  
Oh, I love to hear about the babies too. I also have a downs baby in my church. What a blessing she is. I love when it is my turn to work in the nursery and spend a few hours with her. I believe God gives us this little blessings, to let us know what love truley means. Because, downs babys and children really do love you with all of their heart. I will miss my little kitty, but some how (in my warped mind lol), I think that maybe Erika is watching after her for me. Just gives me comfort. Have a great day Elane. God Bless you too!
Posted by  BeJeweled  on 2009-11-03 14:02:48 
  
Hang in there Bejeweled....My nehphew has downs and I believe that they are angels on earth.
Posted by  MrsFitz  on 2009-11-05 14:00:58 
  
Hey MrsFitz, good to see you. Where have you been hiding. And yes, I too think of them as little angels. What a wonderful gift from God.
Posted by  BeJeweled  on 2009-11-05 14:35:57 
  
Haven't been getting on here much. But it's good to see everyone is still around. Sorry to hear about all the passings, but I believe that we'll all be together again. They are just in a place with no worries, no sickness, no hate.....
A coworker of mine has breast cancer and she told me something that I won't forget, she said "I hear people say that they can't wait for Friday and I look at them like they are crazy, because so many people in this world want to rush through life. Instead they should be wishing that a day would feel long and fulfilled."
Posted by  MrsFitz  on 2009-11-05 21:53:37 
  
She's a smart lady, and I'm glad your back!!!!
Posted by  BeJeweled  on 2009-11-06 08:22:40 
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