Posted by
Squoosie
on 2008-01-01 19:22:44 |
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I don't think the greatness of sex is based on an orgasm, can you imagine how many people would stop having sex if that was the case?!?!?!?!?!?! Face it not everyone is having an orgasm or at least not all the time.
Sure having the orgasm is great BUT when I think about good sex I have had, what I remember most is the act itself
feeling sexy...eye contact...keeping this clean hehehe
the actual making love...wanting each other is the "greatness" at least that is what it is for me.
If you NEED the orgasm and it is all about the physical and not emotional side to it then masturbation will do that...no muss no fuss no cuddling...lacks the emotional aspect brought by a partner.
And lastly YES I believe that the thought of you and the one you are worth will intensify the orgasm!
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Posted by
Kaylaslife
on 2008-01-02 14:36:49 |
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| i have had that lovey dovey sex and i love it, but me n my boyfriend have been together for a while now and we have never had that kinda sex and i think it might be my fault because i didnt do anything to make it intimate and full of love when we first started. it was just plane old sex nothing more and it still is. i should have started lovey sex when i took his virginity and now im afraid that he wont want that kind of sex, but i guess im ganna have to test that out... |
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Posted by
hana
on 2008-01-03 07:14:52 |
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| you are so distuind why are youwriting about sex |
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Posted by
amalgamationj
on 2008-01-03 09:13:14 |
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| hey squoosie .. ur absolutly right .. mere masturbation will make us sick and emotional feelings and the love will really make life blissful and healthy i guess .. what do u guys say ahh....? |
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Posted by
HydenSeaCrets
on 2008-01-03 21:47:55 |
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| I definatly think that actual sex triggers different hormones than just pleasuring yourself. Personally don't pleasure myself just for the shear fact that I'd rather have an actual guy. And I've had extraordinary sex without an orgasm as well. I think sex is a lot about what you think about. Because if I'm really into it I have incredible orgasms.. but if I get distracted it's just a lost cause. |
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Posted by
JarrodNoone
on 2008-01-04 02:29:30 |
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Sex is not about the orgasm. Occasionally, there is a need for pure physical satisfaction, but those instances are very few and far between. Many people think of orgasm as the destination of sex, but they never think of the old saying: its not the destination, but the journey itself. Sex is like everything else in life, subconsciously we are drawn to it to fulfill a greater emotional need: such as love or acceptance for example. Masturbation can only fill that need if you are needing acceptance, love, etc of yourself. It could never give you any of those greater emotions from another person though. However, there are a lot of benefits of masturbation, both physiologically & emotionally. I believe that a well rounded sex life should incorporate making love, having sex, fucking & masturbation (both solo & mutual). I hope this helps, but if not, feel free to let me know.
- Jarrod Noone |
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Posted by
thehughman1
on 2008-01-04 21:51:51 |
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| when I was young(er) the orgazm was the ultimate rush. But years later...and many thousands of orgasms...it is not the same as it once used to be. But on another not, I remember the first time I fell in love, and that was B.O.( before orgasms). The intensity of those emotions is something I have spent a lifetime trying to recapture. Something that a million orgasms could never fulfill. I'm 51 now...and I long for the love I once knew before I was 16...when still a virgin...and could only anticipate the day my innocense was lost. In those days the passion my heart knew was a hundredfold stronger and more enjoyable than the mear seconds of bliss. |
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Posted by
Indigo_Drift
on 2008-01-05 13:02:38 |
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| I've always considered great sex to be everything you do BEFORE you actually have sex - the long dinners, the longer talks that let a couple explore each other, the anticipation... Sex is terrific, but it's still the last course of a bountiful banquet. |
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Posted by
ToniMarie
on 2008-02-21 02:31:22 |
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your very right.
having sex with someone you love is completely different though. its about indulging in that longing for someone else's touch or about love.
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