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Welcome to my blog! lol I have never actually done one of these things but i thought i would try it out and see how it goes. For my first blog i wanted to talk about something that has been a struggle for me my whole life....my weight. My whole life i have struggled with my weight back and forth with losing weight and gaining weight and so on. I have had to deal with being made fun of my whole life being called fat and many other cruel things. But the real reason for this blog is because just a few days ago i was sitting here on my laptop getting kind of bored so i went into a chat room. There was this guy that had messaged me and we were talking for a few minutes and he asked me what i looked like. So i told him that i had i had a picture on there. About 1 minute later he message me again and same "Damn your ugly. I didnt know you were fat, if i would have known that i wouldnt have messaged you." I was a little pissed and a little shocked. Mind you this guy was about 21 and im 19. I was shocked because seriously we are both adults and hes acting like the kids back in elementary school who taunt others for not being skinny, and i was pissed because im sick and tired of freakin hearing it by guys all the time. I mean seriously what is the big deal if a girl is a little bigger and not a size freakin 0? Is that such a bad thing? I honestly dont understand why most guys seemed to sickened or whatever by bigger girls. I dont get why they never want to date them or get to know them or anything. Its like in society today if your not a model looking girl then you are nothing and thats just not true. Just because we are bigger doesnt make us as different from the skinny girls. We still have the personality and everything else just not the perfect body. But there is nothing wrong with that. I mean granted there are girls that are like that too. But in the whole 19 years i have been alive i have seem more girls with bigger guys then guys with bigger girls. So will someone please tell me what is wrong with us bigger girls? What is wrong with me? I mean i dont think that i am a ugly girl at all, i just have a little bit of extra weight to carry around. But i guess thats the problem huh?
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Posted by AshleyNicole13 on 2008-06-27 06:23:23 | Rating: | Views: 45
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Sweetie... there is nothing wrong with being bigger than a size 0. I'm short.. 4'11 and am a happy size 7. I know people may not think that a size 7 is large at all, but for someone as short as I am... it does make me look a bit "thicker" than other size 7 girls. I once thought that I had to be a size 0 to be loved, but the truth is... I don't, and neither do you. You just have to love yourself first, and have that confidence, and believe me... people will start to notice you then. There are def. men out there that are willing to love you for who you are and not what size you are. Beauty is not only skin deep... it's inside you. I went years without a boyfriend and thought I had to change my look to get one, even after changing my look- still no guys. I then decided I wasn't going to care. I was going to love myself, and once I did that, and my confidence started showing I got dates, and boyfriends, and serious relationships. It takes a struggle to get there, but you can. And in my years I have come to notice (and it's not true to ALL men, but a lot) they'd rather have a "bigger" girl that loves herself than a "smaller" girl that doesn't. Loving your self is a sexiness that surpasses any size.
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Posted by SmallAndFeisty
on 2008-06-27 15:35:19
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