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ok so today i went thru my hubbys email and i found some emails that he had written to another woman who he previously slept with. he has always told me that he hated her and never wanted to see her again and well lets say that these emails said the complete opposite. and whats worse he told her that i was about to be out of his life for good and he didnt care how things went between us when he got home. he also told her that he wanted to see her. well we were together at that point and when i confronted him about it he denied it and then we took a shower and i wanted to be intimate and he said no.... that those emails i showed him put him out of the mood and ruined his day. well its always something with him as to why he wont be intimate with me. i asked him if it was me and he said no but im starting to think something is going on. he will go 4-7 days without touching me. i mean he cuddles at night but i dunno. and yesterday he came in and took a shower right off. he never does that... but i dont know what ot think ne more. can someone help me? does is sound like he's havin an affair? please help i dont know what to do ne more....
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I hate to tell you this but you have a big problem. This happened to me. I always used to acuse my ex of 17 years that he still had a thing for a woman he had a thing for 20 years earlier. He always denied it and said she was a bitch.He never wanted sex and always made me feel like I was unattractive. he said that I was mad for thinking things like that. But guess what? 8 weeks after we split he married her! You dont need advice, you know what is going on but you don't want to admit it to yourself. However, I will tell you this. Make sure you are way, way ahead of him in every respect. Get copies of emails because if this goes to court you will need proof. Also, get some legal advice of where you stand. You need someone fighting your corner. Most importantly, get yourself financially safe. There is one thing that I have learned the hard way is that when a man moves on he becomes very cold and has no regard for you or your living standards. don't ask him any more questions just stand back and let him get comfortable, that way he will make a mistake. If one of our mortgages had'nt been in joint names he would have left me with nothing. It made him really angry that he had to give me half, and I had not done anything wrong. You know why he is taking showers don't delude yourself - get real. If this sounds harsh then Im sorry but this is the voice of experience. Not just once but twice! If you don't take on anything else then please take on this "YOUR INTUITION IS THERE TO PROTECT YOU IGNORE IT AT YOUR PERIL"
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Posted by odyssey
on 2008-08-20 17:31:21
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no contact means no feelings inside fer yah... i suppose; just speakin from experience here.
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Posted by bloodintheeyes
on 2008-08-20 20:03:14
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If he ain't gettin it from you he's getting it from someone else!! i have been through this before, and everything you said in your blog sounds way tooooo familiar! my ex was in the navy and he cheated on me with other navy girls, it took me awhile to realize what was going on. when i was going through it, my mom told me to smell his underwear, gross, i know.... i didnt. instead i prayed for a sign and 30 minutes later i went out to his truck and found a valentine's day card from a girl. can you afford to hire a P.I.?? i am good at that kind of stuff, i was very sneaky with my ex, i would hack into his cell phone account and see who and where he was when he was calling people! if you do go to court you will need all the proof you can get! also DOCUMENT everything, write everything down. i know it sounds silly but when a judge ask you the last time you had sex with your husband you can give him an exact date, or about the night your husband came home from work late (if that ever happens). if you need anything else, feel free to e-mail me, i have a lot of experience in this kind of stuff!
cjfleming68@yahoo.com
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Posted by cfleming
on 2008-08-21 01:10:00
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