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 I hate tension
it's just tense here tonight.  something has pissed him off (the husband).  i'm sure he'll let me know about it after the kids go to bed.  anyway, it's not pleasant to be here.  not that he is ranting or raving, but he's quiet.  too quiet...except for the occasional sigh or hard typing.  wonder what i did this time.  i'll find out soon enough. in the meantime, however, i feel sick to my stomach.  i don't feel well at all.  when things are tense, my body lets me know pretty quickly how it likes it.  and it doesn't.  even both the boys picked up on the tension.  i didn't have to say anything.  i got those looks from them...WTF looks.  :)  hell if i know.  maybe it is all in my head.  that could very well be the case.  i'm known to have "irrational thoughts."


    Posted by Arik on 2008-04-20 22:05:04 | Rating: | Views: 73
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Hon you are not irrational. Your children reflected the situation to you in their faces.
What your husband is doing is emotional balckmail. In his silence he is getting the upper hand. At least that is the goal of "the silent treatment," no matter who is doing it. I'm praying for you even now to get this out in the open and settled in a better way for both of you.
Posted by  lampoil  on 2008-04-20 22:20:16 
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Arik
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