Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2007-09-27 09:16:17 |
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| I discovered with my ex that when I found out he was cheating I let it go. He expected me to get mad and go off, but I just acted like it didn't phase me. I acted like nothing was wrong and I could care-less where he went and how long he was gone. It killed him cause he figured I was cheating to. I wasn't, but it was funny to watch him sweat. Men are stupid is what I've decided. I would treat him the same way he's treated you. |
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Posted by
Angelasthoughts
on 2007-09-27 09:22:30 |
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| Thank you for the comment, I did act like I didn't care.....yes it does bother him...maybe thats why he's doing what he's doing what he's doing. |
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Posted by
Angelasthoughts
on 2007-09-27 09:23:56 |
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| I'm sure he'll be reading this after I get off......[Love you Hunny] |
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Posted by
Maggiemay
on 2007-09-27 09:34:39 |
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If he knows what you are doing online and you know what he is doing online...what's the big deal? If you are both behaving yourselves, then you both have nothing to hide.
If you want privacy, that's what the bathroom is for. People get on the computer and then they start hollering about privacy...why? What are you doing that you don't want anyone else to see?
People use the internet for lots of things, some use it for cheating.
Share the computer and share your 'computer-life', and you will both be happier.
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Posted by
laughing_gas
on 2007-09-27 09:41:44 |
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| To wrongs dont make a right. You obiously think the way he treats you is wrong so dont be childish and do it back. Have an open conversation or write a letter or rethink the relationship you are in. There are plenty of options out there always some just arent as fun and happy as others. Maybe he is insecure that you might want to go to someone else because of what he did to you or thinks youre going to do it back and wants to catch you to "get Even" i dunno really it seems crazy. Guys are crazy but so are women. I suggest talking about the situation and if that dosent work find another option that suits you. |
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Posted by
Angelasthoughts
on 2007-09-27 09:45:28 |
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| Maggiemay I don't have anything to hide,but he accuses me no matter what. He doesn't find anything and it pisses him off so he'll fight anyway. |
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Posted by
Angelasthoughts
on 2007-09-27 09:53:07 |
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| laughing gas' Iv'e checked his stuff out twice I realized two wrongs don't make a right so I really don't worry about it anymore. Like right now he's over my shoulders watching me type bitching. Telling me go ahead and talk to your men. I hate this shit............. |
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Posted by
kentlass
on 2007-09-27 16:24:33 |
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wondering if he is acting like that as he can not understand why you haven't said much or done much and wants to see if you have written about him, so i agree with what Mamacita925 says, though maybe not stoop to his level, just keep him sweating.
as for privacy, agreed, strange how its alright for him to do it to you, but do the same back just to show him what it feels like? does he like it? course not.
guess this applies to women too, but some men? more trouble than what they are worth. hug
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