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To My EX-husband and father of my children,
First and foremost, I just want to say a great big THANK YOU for coming to the Mediation. As you sat there in your chair of manipulation, no doubt you were plotting what you'd say next.
I'm fine by the way, the stab wounds you gave me from your words are healing nicely.
It must be so hard for you. Only seeing your children once a week - which you agreed to when we divorced, by the way.
It must be very trying to have all that money, and very trying to only be responsible for yourself.
I understand it must be very difficult for you to tell me to "***k off!" when I ask for help with "your" boys.
Or when I was in a bind and didn't have child care lined up, you must have been been so overwhelmed with guilt when you told me "No" you couldn't "babysit" them "for me"
(Babysit......your own children? That's one I haven't heard before. )
I guess the thought of the boys and I moving away from you, just caused you to spin out of control with sorrow.
I'm sorry for moving on with my life.
I'm sorry for wanting a beter life for the boys.
And I'm sorry the only think you have to look forward to is .........moving back up North, in with .........your mom.
I'm sorry.
But mostly I'm thankful.
Thankful that YOU are the father of my children. I really made a good decision there.
I'm thankful that you are making it so very difficult for me.
I'm thankful that you are enjoying every twist of the knife in my back.
I'm thankful that you are manipulative.
And I'm thankful that you are turning this around to look like the victim (in front of the lawyers) but not in front of me.
Thank you, and I hope so very much that you have a great week. 
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Posted by Ana_stacia on 2007-11-18 04:55:16 | Rating: | Views: 59
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Well spoken Ana. The worst thing you could do is hold resentment and anger. Don't let him ruin your whole life and just remember the ONLY important thing now is You and your boys!
Good luck. :)
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Posted by scotslad60
on 2007-11-18 07:05:30
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I can sympathize with you....I have been in similar circumstances many years ago. It's unfortunate to have to experience the pain, hurt, and lack of help (financial and otherwise), but, you have been blessed with your precious boys.....I know you would not trade them for anything. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Posted by Alice
on 2007-11-26 04:10:21
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