snap out of it. i had an abusive relationship at one time.. and you know what? you need to grow balls. and then say to him, if you touch/threaten me ONE more time.. I WILL get a restraining order on you, and MEAN IT (that was the last he ever threatened me.. all talk.. then when confronted with the cops.. its all different.. you're ALLOWING his behavior), and DO IT. If you are that petrified, get your mother on it, and TRUST.. she will make sure he doesn't come anywhere NEAR you.. you DON'T deserve it.. DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT deserve this... this will be your destiny if YOU allow it.. do you really want to live a life like this? grab it now, do something about it now, get proactive now.. talk to someone you feel comfortable then.. do NOT allow him this .. he is scummmm.. I HATE WITH A PASSION guys like that! UGHHH..

First of all, you are very important, if you don't have yourself then you have nothing. Tell your Mother or go to the police and tell them that you are scared. Tell them everything you have just told us, believe me this needn't go on. There are decent men out there and yes they think about sex as well, its only natural , but they dont go round raping their girlfriends and then allow their friends to have a go as well. What have you done to deserve this? You need to learn some self esteem and some respect for yourself as well. Do something about this......today!!!

You don't have to put up with this. Keep telling people you think can help you until someone responds. People don't respond very well to rape victims in general because they are ignorant, they believe all the myths that allow them not to experience guilt/pretend they are a good person, as they are weak or lack empathy. Keep searching for someone sane with moral integrity and compassion, who will understand the reality- you did nothing to provoke it, this guy is a sociopath and you need help. Call a domestic violence help line, call a counsellor, think about going to the police, tell any family members who could help. Get a restraining order. Is there a school counsellor you can talk to? Don't sit by and let this piece of shit get away with this. There is a massive power difference between you two. He was way too old for you to begin with. He wanted a little girl to victimise and he got one. He's a scary, cruel, opportunistic, worthless, predator and you need to seek protection from him. Remember what I said. Keep searching for help until you find it, don't be surprised by negative reactions it's because they don't understand. I am here if you want to talk. You are way too young to have this lumped on your shoulders, you will find someone that can help you and it will be worth it if you persevere. Think about how angry it makes you, how disgusted you are by it, instead of how afraid, and you will get to a place where you can be stronger than him. You've got your whole life ahead of you. He can't feel anything unless he hurts you. Time to put the monster in its cage.

Agree with countess..
Police is the only way.

Leave the relationship!! My girlfriend was in an abusive relationship a few years ago (not with me obviously) and she had similar experiences to you. The guy is a twat. He is making you think that the way you feel is all your fault and that it's what you deserve, when it's not. All that stuff he says is a lie. You do not deserve any of that. Get the police, and for what it's worth, I'll pray for you.

SaM

thanks everyone =)

Amber:
Jeez, I really feel for you and I wish that I had some advive OTHER than what's already been said, but, honestly, CALL THE COPS!

Get a copy of the tapes of him doing those things to you and GIVE THEM TO THE POLICE! A video of that WILL SEND HIM TO JAIL, where you won't have to put up with that piece of shit for a long while.

Sure, it may be embarrassing to give something like that to some complete strangers, but HE'S DOING IT! And he's not doing it to help you, he's HURTING YOU by doing that.

Tell your Mom, tell your DAD, dad will have his ass for breakfast.

This boy is a BULLY and you DO NOT DESERVE THIS!!

STOP DOING DRUGS, they will temporarily ease the pain and guilt, but only temporarily. After that wears off, you'll be a drug addict with no hope of EVER getting better.

Do you have a cellphone? If you do, the next time he tries to force you to do anything, secretly or some other way, dial 911 (here in the States that links us directly to the police) or the local police number and leave the phone ON or open so that the police can HEAR you being abused.

GET HELP, and GET IT NOW! HELP YOURSELF and stop being abused by this piece of crap! Try some of these things and LISTEN to everyone here! PEACE

-LIAM PATRICK NEASON-

Yes, it is repetitive, but the police are the best way to go here.

If the police don't work, then learn how to fight, and beat the hell out of him. It's much too bad you don't live over here, near my friends, because no matter who he would bring at us, we would take them on. Weapons and all.

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Not really the best idea, so don't listen to that.

Now, what you have to do, is tell your mom or your grandmother, because they will help you in ways that you can't really help yourself, since they're adult. Not to mention, if you won't call the police they will. People like that guy make me sick, because people aren't objects, and he's treating you like one. Not a toy. A person. Stop acting like a toy, and act like a person, eventually, he'll wise up. Call the cops on his ass.