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Sorry, Boys-Who-Want-To-Be-Men, but I have to tell you that it is very frustrating if you do not talk to us.
Seriously, you should think about speaking up, talking to us just to make yourself understandable.
Maybe I always fall for the same type of guy who is simply not capable to do so, or is it asked too much?
Two recent examples:
Number one, let's call him "Mr. King": We met about a year ago and I really liked this guy. It was a one-night-stand at first but we met again and again, cooked together, talked the nights away, laughed with each other, kissed, made love and stayed in touch at first while I was gone 10,000 km to the west. It was bad timing but once I returned we met again. And again. But at the second "again" (he asked me out) he would not even care for me, he would basically ignore me and in a way treat me like a stranger, Ugly Betty and Who knows what. I didn't understand and I still do not understand why a guy would do such things. Don't you know that we have feelings, too? Isn't it the most childish and disrespectful thing to simply not answer?
It's probably easy. Easy for you.
But Boys, please, speak up, it will hurt us less than that. Sometimes it seems to me though, as if all you wanted is hurting us. Not caring, not giving a shit about what the woman thinks.... Well, if it's really like that, fine, be iditos, but leave me out of this, ok?
Number two, let's call him "Mr. Blue": We met about 3 years ago and I didn't like him at all at first, but half a year later I had a serious crush on him, although I was in a relationship (and he was, too). I never got closer to him , but a day after my 4-year-long relationship had collapsed. He made me go crazy just by kissing and looking into his eyes, touching his chest and being touched by him. This was not even 2 years ago. But I figured that his relationship just broke down as well, and I wanted him - not just for a night, and I probably do still want him, but I cannot have him but for making love. The second and third and fourth... times I couldn't resist anymore but could not let me go entirely because I knew that if I would give myself into his hands I would be lost forever. But although he never said so, I know I will never be with him for more than some nice hours in his bedroom. And it makes me so sad and I wished he would tell me - eye in eye - that I should forget about him. But he never did and so I can't.
Whatsover, he doesn't speak up either, he ignores my calls and only answers if it's about sex.
Seriously, is it too much asking you to tell a woman that all you want is sex? I mean, if a woman knows it, she won't bother and that's the last thing we want: bother.
So all I am asking from a MAN is to speak up - if you cannot open your heart, at least open your mouth....
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Posted by AirportNotes on 2008-07-11 08:43:23 | Rating: | Views: 64
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