Thoughts.com Blogs - Leap of Faith

How do you know it's right? When do you take the leap of faith for someone you love and know it's the right thing for you? Some say that if you're not willing to make that leap of faith you don't really love the person, But what if 1 person in the relationship is making demands for change and not willing to budge on any of the demands but claims to really care or love the other person? Is it still right to take that leap? I know some one who is in this situation. The guy that she loves very deeply has finally told her that he cares so much about her that he wants her with him. He however has just moved out of state and wants her think about leaving everythig that she knows and her family to be with him. He mentioned to her that he wants to have kids with her but never mentions anything about marriage. She's really confused she really wants to be with him but she has so much here and there she would know only him and his family. How do you give someone advice on a matter that could change this persons life forever. Cause if she doesn't go she loses him forever and she's left with that pain but if she goes she does it with out the help of her family. I am listening to her and I can see that she is in a lot of pain over this decison.