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 ,my sad day, death came so quick.
Today, I noticed a friend wasnt at school. A friend who's dad had cancer. The dad was a nice guy,who used to be my basketball coach. I knew he had gotten cancer and that for the past few months he could not talk. I found out in my homeroom, that the desk was empty, because he had died. When the teacer first told us Meagan was gone because her dad died, it didnt sink in, didnt automatically sting, i didnt jump. It processed slowly. In a minute my eyes were tearing up, but i held it back. No one else there cared like i did, for Meagan and i were once the best of friends. Oh it started long ago, in elementary school. She was one of my first friends, and it was on and off since then. Her dad was always nice and funny around us. As our coach for basketball he never cared if i was a little late, or not wearing the right work out shirt. He was always motivating, once told me i should go out for basketball before half the team even thought about it in high school. Larry was always smiling, and having a good time. Him and his daughter really bonded over basketball, they shared a love for the game. It saddens me to know her and i grew apart. I feel sorry that she doesnt have a best friend. That her, i, and our other best friend for two years all split up. We were so close, so there for eachother. now i dont know what to say to her. This will be my first funeral i attend, the closest death ive experienced. i dont know how to help her. I dont know what to say, or how to help myself be less sad. Larry was a motivater, and im sorry hesĀ  been ripped from this place.
    Posted by 24kaity on 2009-11-07 00:39:14 | Rating: | Views: 21
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Dealing with Deaths is always hard. Just remember all the good times you had with him, And keep them close to your heart. Remember back when you were best friends with her. And go to the funeral and still act like you guys never split up.
Remember she is in far more pain than you. Tell her how amazing her dad was!
Posted by  racquelkhalek  on 2009-11-07 01:03:05 
  
Death is a hard thing to deal with I have dealt with in more times than I care to mention. I lost my Aunt who I had always been really close to. Her daughter and I hadn't really been talking for at least 6 mths, though we've always been close and when push comes to shove we'd always be there for each other. When my aunt passed away we became close again. Odd that it was a death that brought us back together. I understand where your coming from and agree with Raquel that you should remember the good times. He wouldn't want her to be sad. Its best to be strong for her and encourage her through the grief. Grieving people hate pitty I know I've been there. I am praying for you I hope everything goes as well as can be expecting considering its a funeral.

God Bless
Posted by  kaybugluvsyou  on 2009-11-07 01:15:24 
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